My good friend confessed to me that he knew that I had a boyfriend, and now the relationship is very

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. You feel a little contradictory, because you are very kind, you did not directly reject him, for fear that he would be hurt, but at the same time, it is equivalent to giving him hope, rational thinking, in fact, it is better to refuse decisively than not to have any conclusions now;

    2. When you refuse, you can tell him "I care about our friendship, I love my boyfriend, I feel that our relationship has deteriorated, and I am a little sentimental!" I refuse your love today, I believe that you love me and will respect my choice, I am happy now, thank you for your care for me all the time".

    Otherwise, it will become chasing Andy Lau, does she "love" Andy Lau, Andy Lau wants to marry her and love her?

    4. As a man, he will be more rational in dealing with feelings as he grows older, bless you as a good friend, he will also be happy, the emotional line of two people has a meeting on the road of youth, and then develops in parallel, which is very common.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Confess to him that you have a boyfriend and that you love your boyfriend very much.

    Persuade him to give up his pursuit of you, and if he succeeds, he will finally keep a friend.

    But if he says that he will not give up, then firm your position, pretend not to know him, and snub him, and he will give up.

    It can be seen that you are a kind girl, bless you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He may just be psychologically lonely, and he can't stand the life of a sudden person. And I don't know other girls for the time being.。 If he really loves you, why did he go when you were single.

    You already have a boyfriend, ignore him. Now you feel uncomfortable, because you want to be friends with him, but now I advise my friends not to do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Probably thinking about how to reject you tactfully.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Calm down, too! It feels like your feelings are insincere and immature.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Generally speaking, it is not good-looking, personality, the main factor is to see how two people communicate!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are many kinds of friends

    One: If it is the kind of friend you think is very good and very confidant, then I think a friend is very important, because she may be your lifelong friend, a friend that no boy can replace, don't ruin the friendship between you for a boy, even if you like his boyfriend very much, of course, it's better if you don't like it, there are thousands of handsome guys in the world, and we will change it if there is one less.

    Two: If you think it's a dispensable friend, of course, her boyfriend likes you, if you also like him, you don't have to care about other people's eyes, just follow your feelings, after all, happiness is to fight for yourself. If you don't like that guy, then you don't need me to say what to do... Hehe.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't tell. I think even the best friend, your friend when he proposed to break up. No matter how you say it, it is a painful parting that needs your company and comfort.

    If this is the time you tell her. will give her a certain amount of harm. It's better to confess after a while, or when she already has her next relationship.

    Since you don't like your best friend's boyfriend. It really doesn't matter. Don't see this guy alone.

    They haven't broken up yet.

    Sometimes, even a good friend has to think about how to confess to her without hurting her. Because you care about your friendship

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have a boyfriend and I just say no when someone confesses to me.

    Reasons for refusal:

    1. I have someone I like.

    2. You're annoying.

    This point is completely for the kind of person who rejects the stalker, because this is also a burden, so when you can't bear it, you can say to the other party with a cold face: Do you know that you are annoying, this sentence is actually very hurtful, but if you can't help it, you can also say it.

    3. The constellations are incompatible.

    This reason for rejection generally appears in girls or people who believe in horoscopes, because these people's daily itinerary or mood will be affected by the horoscope, and they will really reject others because the horoscopes are incompatible, so you can also use such reasons.

    4. The three views do not match.

    At present, the attitude towards love, everyone advocates the consistency of the three views in order to go to the end, because material satisfaction is difficult to fill the spiritual emptiness, so your lover must be consistent with your three views, so when you want to refuse, you can use the three views as a reason.

    5. Parents do not agree.

    There are also some more implicit reasons for breaking up with others, that is, from the parents' point of view, for example, the parents don't like it and feel that the two people are not suitable. Therefore, it is better to listen to your parents and tell each other to break up, so as to tell each other that the chance of being together is very small.

    6. You don't understand me.

    At present, the more hurtful reason for refusal is: You don't understand me, because this sentence completely negates the efforts of two people, so the lethality is relatively large. If you really find it difficult to go on with the other person, you can use the reason that you don't understand me.

    7. You're good, but we're not suitable.

    In love, there will always be one or several times to send someone else a "good guy card" or be issued a "good guy card" by someone else, and when it comes to this reason for breaking up, I feel heartbroken, because it completely shows that the person doesn't want to develop a relationship, and the "good guy card" refuses to be more thorough, so if you want to break up, use this.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, I made it clear to him directly that I have a boyfriend, and then wished him to find his real name Tiannu as soon as possible, and then sent a text message to my boyfriend to ask for compliments.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As a girl, I will definitely reject him at the first time, don't let him have any illusions, otherwise my boyfriend will misunderstand.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Will reject him, tell him that I already have a boyfriend, I will not give up being with my boyfriend for any reason, and wish him to meet the girl he likes soon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I would refuse, tell him directly that I have a boyfriend and love him very much, and wish the person I confessed to find a good home.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will tell him that I already have a boyfriend, I love my boyfriend very much, and my boyfriend loves me very much, and I hope you don't disturb our lives.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will say no outright, my boyfriend believes in me 100%, and I will not live up to his trust and will not do anything that worries him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I would reject him outright, and I would tell him very clearly that we can't and are not suitable, that I have someone I like, and then when nothing happens.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Tell him that he has a boyfriend, and then refuse to delete him again, I don't like to drag mud and water, just refuse cleanly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will decisively refuse because my boyfriend will be jealous, and I can't do anything to be sorry for my boyfriend, I love my boyfriend very much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Directly refuse and tell him that he has a boyfriend, let him die, don't leave a chance for others, otherwise it will be very troublesome in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no doubt that someone confesses to you that you are attractive. From that point of view, you should be happy. But this kind of inner little joy, as long as you know, you don't need to tell anyone.

    In a relationship, both people must put in the time and energy to maintain the relationship in order to develop better. When someone confesses to you, it is indeed a time to prove your own charm, you can tell your boyfriend, but you don't have to tell him who he is.

    Let's analyze this problem from another angle, that is, whether your boyfriend's friend really likes you. As you said in the question, it's just a meeting, even if you like it, you definitely like your appearance.

    There is no connection between the two of you at all, and you don't know each other much. In this case,The so-called feelings are actually very pale。There is no need to explain to anyone at all, and no one will accept a stranger's confession.

    And judging from the other party's approach, if you are not helping your boyfriend test you, it can only mean that the other party has a problem with his character. He confessed purely out of a psychology of taking advantage, and it doesn't matter to him whether you agree or not.

    The truth is so cruel, just delete him and live a good life with your boyfriend. If possible, keep your boyfriend away from such friends as well.

    There are some little secrets that only you can know。I hope that your relationship can come to an end and not be affected by these messy things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Personally, I don't think it's better to tell your boyfriend about this, as it will cause conflicts in their friendship. But you have to reject him decisively, make it clear to him that he is just a good friend of your boyfriend, and don't let him have interesting hopes for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think it's necessary to tell your boyfriend in this situation, it's okay to handle this matter yourself, and you have to figure out whether his good friend confessed to you whether it was true or false, no matter what the situation is, it needs to be handled properly.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it's better not to tell your boyfriend, if he knows, he will probably have a stiff relationship with his good friend, you can judge for yourself, if you don't like it, just refuse, how to get along in the future, how to get along in the future, if you feel embarrassed, then just avoid it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    From an honest point of view, tell him, because he doesn't know that his good friend is digging into his corner, you tell him to be more vigilant against the other party, know the face but don't know the heart, maybe how to cheat on your boyfriend in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think it's necessary to tell your boyfriend that if you can get your boyfriend to break off the relationship with this friend if the friend knows about it, it's a shameful act to confess because someone else has a girlfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, you have to analyze yourself, whether it is a joke, if it is true, it is recommended that you keep the evidence, in case there is an incident in the future, it is not clear when it happens, don't tell your boyfriend for the time being, if you refuse to do so, if the other party has no follow-up action, just do not move, if you still chase after it, tell your boyfriend!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it's better to tell your boyfriend, after all, such a brother blatantly wants you to confess, and he doesn't put your boyfriend in his eyes at all, and such a person doesn't need to hide it, of course, the decision is still up to you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think you can tell your boyfriend's buddy not to come to you again in the future, and if he doesn't listen to your advice, then you still have to tell your boyfriend about this matter and let him deal with it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's better not to say it, otherwise they won't be able to become friends, so let's solve it privately, don't make it bigger, otherwise everyone won't look good, it's better to be decent, and it can be solved, and you can't say it again.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's just say that he is worried about this matter, because your relationship is so good, if your relationship becomes rigid because of the word love, you will feel that it is not worth it, I am sure this is not what you want, you also know that once he says it you do not agree, it means that your relationship is about to enter a rigid stage, so he has some concerns, very worried about this thing, if it really happens, both of you will feel very sorry, the previous relationship can not be maintained, But if you agree, you will definitely get better and better in the future, and at this time he is not completely sure that you will agree with him, so he will not express it.

    At this time, he should really have this idea, so he also wants to tell you, but he takes into account the consequences, he will be cautious, very cautious to do this, at this time he will use this method to test whether you really love him, and also have such thoughts, because he also wants to get a good result, even if he can't be a couple, he can also care about you as a girlfriend, so this may also be his purpose in doing this.

    If you also have such thoughts, you can bring them up with him, of course you can choose to talk to him about these things, use other topics to lead to this matter, it is also okay, if you don't feel it, it is better to wait, don't ask him these things, wait for him to give you the answer, this is the best.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are two types of this. One is that she likes you, and the other is that she doesn't like you.

    Let's start by saying that he likes you.

    Therefore, liking is not necessarily confessional, it may make you feel, give you another chance, and wait for you to take the initiative.

    There is another possibility of dislike.

    In fact, it is not excluded that some girls are born to treat people more intimately, at least it seems to be so considerate and detailed. Also, some people don't like you, but they are very lonely, and they don't have a good pursuit or development object at present. So we're just playing the role of a substitute at this stage.

    Girls may be immersed in the illusion that they have a "boyfriend". She's feeling the emotion with her kindness to you like she treats her boyfriend.

    It's like a military drill, it may be to reassure yourself, or it may be to guard against the enemy. In short, if you don't like you, you don't like you. It's my business to be nice to you, I feel love from you, I feel the company of others, but I also give.

    Therefore, you have to feel it with your own heart. I believe that if a person really likes you, then her eyes are different, she may involuntarily glance at you, and may pay attention to your state all the time.

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