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Truth be told, as a human being, setbacks are inevitable. What matters is not how to escape these so-called setbacks, but how to face them in a real way. Like you, I'm also a high school student, and maybe you don't believe me, but I can really understand how you're feeling right now, because I've faced the same problems as you.
I am now studying in the United States, so my Chinese skills are naturally better than others. So, last year, as the only 9th grader (grades 9 to 12 in American high schools), I took a college-ready Chinese class (AP) with a group of students older than me. From the first class, many Year 12 students were unhappy with me simply because I was smarter and had better grades.
Since I was a recent junior high school graduate, I was really afraid that people would not want to be friends with me or ostracize me, so I didn't say anything even though I knew that those people were not sincere to me. But they started to exclude me, and I was sad and lonely, and I was so depressed that I didn't know what to do. Since then, I have been reluctant to trust people easily.
Later, gradually, I shifted my circle of friends. I've made a lot of friends since then, although not every single one of them is trustworthy. Sometimes, however, you have to turn a blind eye by chance.
So I think you should open your heart and try to accept others instead of rejecting them. Maybe among them, you will find your true best friends. Maybe you really don't want to be with them, so don't force yourself.
For example, I often go to the ** classroom to practice during my lunch break, so that I can entertain myself without being disturbed. Isn't it good for you to run around the library when you're bored?
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Just like your name, it looks gloomy.
Previous setbacks have made your heart grow a lot, so although your heart is the same age but the heart is different age, it is inevitable that most of them will look naïve in your eyes.
But there are a lot of people who have had similar experiences to you, and this loneliness can relate to.
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There is nothing in the world that can distinguish grades.
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Children are abroad, hehe, there will be an adaptation period abroad, you must know that people will have lonely times, you must face it reasonably, don't think about these things, use other methods to solve your own troubles, I recommend the two kinds of exercise and sleep, don't think too much, step by step work will be good.
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In this world, there are many kinds of people.
There are cheerful and quiet people.
I also like to read psychology books, as well as philosophical ones.
I'm not interested in anything like what a girl my age does.
Sometimes, just like to be alone, stay quiet.
I don't quite understand my own thoughts.
I, called Frost, this title, have been used for a long time.
A lot of people say that it feels really cool, a little bit like me.
I've always liked to be around people who are much older than me. People who are the same age as me, or who are 1 or 2 years older than me, get along with each other, and they are a little out of place.
I was the youngest child in my family, but I was an adult in everything I did and what I said. No one else can tell my real age.
Many people say that I am mature, sensible, and even rational.
There is also a sense of maturity that says I am beyond my age.
Either way, I try to look at them with an appreciative eye. It's childish or good, it's childish cute. Whether boring or too smart, people who are too smart will not be as happy as they are. Isn't it?
There are also many people who say that I am smart and flexible.
Ha, it's pretty much the same as you.
I don't really feel that I'm smart. It's just not stupid, and it's just that he's calm and thoughtful, and it's not easy to be emotional.
Lonely and I'm all at night. So, if you don't get tired, you won't sleep.
All I can say is that it has nothing to do with psychological problems.
At most, it's your environment that makes you feel that way.
Try to forget that you were unhappy and have some memories when you played.
Let go of what's in your heart. I think it will be a lot better.
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You know your mindset very well, and what you have to do is change that mindset. Take out your sincerity and interact with the people around you, you have to warm the people around you with a sincere heart, so that this warmth can really reflect on you. Life is a mirror.
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If you have psychological problems, you should see a psychiatrist! It's about the same as me! I want to open up everything! Give it to me.
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Mental health, love psychology, bad emotions and criminal psychology.
1. Adolescent mental health
Adolescents are in an important period of physical and mental development, and it is also a transition period from naivety to maturity, but with the development of physiology and psychology, the expansion of social experience and the change of thinking mode, they are prone to encounter various psychological confusions and problems. Common psychological problems in adolescence include psychological disorders, depression, sexual distress and confusion, study and interpersonal stress, and so on.
These psychological problems need to be solved in a timely manner, and teenagers should learn to accept themselves, allow themselves to have shortcomings, vent and guide bad emotions in a timely manner, and relieve psychological pressure. If you can't improve, you can seek help from others.
2. Adolescent love psychology
In adolescence, they are willing to perceive beauty, enjoy youth, are ignorant of love, and are curious about the opposite sex, and early love is actually a flower blooming on the edge of a cliff for them.
Traditional methods of beating and scolding have been proven many times to be unable to solve the fundamental problem, so parents should communicate more with their children when adolescents are in early love, help teenagers improve their understanding, face up to early love, and teach teenagers to grasp the growth of youth and treat their emotions correctly. In addition, it is necessary to carry out correct sexual enlightenment for teenagers, so that teenagers can not only have a correct view of sex, but also let teenagers learn to protect themselves.
3. Bad mood of teenagers
Because adolescence is between rapid development and immaturity, a variety of contradictions make adolescents often have some bad emotional distress, which affects their behavior.
If teenagers want to overcome bad emotions, they should first start from the subjective reasons to find adjustment measures, find the causes of bad emotions, ask for help from classmates or teachers, formulate practical plans and implement them one by one. In addition, teenagers should learn to relax, and consciously divert their attention when they are in a bad mood, such as watching movies, listening to **, exercising, and participating in their favorite public welfare activities, which will relax their nervous emotions.
4. Juvenile criminal psychology
Adolescence is an extremely important special age stage, because it is in the stage of physical and mental development, psychological immaturity, the ability to judge right and wrong is relatively weak, and the ability of self-control is weak, it is very easy to commit crimes recklessly on the spur of the moment, and after getting into trouble, due to fear, they may make mistakes and make more serious mistakes.
In order to avoid juvenile delinquency, it is necessary to actively adopt a variety of methods to carry out legal popularization and publicity activities, create a good atmosphere for learning legal knowledge, and help young people develop a sense of abiding by the law and behavioral habits. While actively understanding the law, young people should learn to distinguish right from wrong and improve their self-control.
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Adolescents belong to a special period, psychological development is easily affected, common inferiority, rebellion, violence, mania, conceit, etc., parents must give enough care, guide the child's healthy psychological development, if necessary, you can ask for help from a psychological counselor.
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Teenagers often.
There are several sources of psychological problems:
First. Psychological problems of school boredom in adolescence. This is a common counseling problem in the general teenage period, and it is very important for teenagers, if the boredom of school is dealt with well, it will be helpful to the development of the whole life.
Second. Psychological problems with social phobia. If a teenager handles it well in social aspects, his interpersonal relationships will be good, but some classmates need to deal with this similar psychological problem well.
Third. Exam anxiety. This is also a common psychological problem in CEIBS International Psychological Counseling, many students are usually very good, but when it comes to the exam, they are nervous, and the result affects their grades.
Fourth. Depression, love. Depression and depression can also affect the psychological development of adolescents, and early love will distract classmates and make them not study well.
The above are common psychological problems among adolescents with psychological problems, which should be dealt with in a timely manner.
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Boredom with school, study problems, attention problems, love problems.
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1.He does not like to listen to other people's opinions, and even loudly refutes other people's opinions and opinions, and tends to insist on his own opinions, as a way to express his own subjective and independent consciousness.
2. I don't like to do what others say, and I will resist the requests made by my parents without thinking.
3. It is believed that the vast majority of rules and regulations are unreasonable and should be revised or even completely abolished. 4. If his parents repeatedly tell him the same thing, he will feel disgusted or even bored, and he will have excessive behavior.
5. Praise those students who work against the teacher, ridicule and even ridicule those who have excellent grades or progress.
6. Once you decide to do something, you will not change your mind no matter how others dissuade you; The more he is not allowed to do it, the more he has to do it.
The problem of children's rebellion and school boredom is a big problem in the family, and parents will not solve it, and if they do not solve it in time, it will harm them for a lifetime.
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