Change the mindset of looking at things, change the way you look at things

It depends on what you are dealing with these villains for, and solving things should be the first priority.

The villain is nothing more than taking advantage of a little advantage, satisfying others, and it is also a gentleman's doing.

How many things in ancient and modern times are all laughed about.

Learn to smile, first of all, the person you don't like is also a kind of existence, they are also a kind of life, how can the world distinguish between villains and gentlemen, let yourself treat them tolerantly, you can keep your distance, but we don't have the right to criticize others, right?

Let's not change the principles on which we do things ourselves!

Draw a line with him in the depths of your heart!

This will also make you want to be a person with connotation! It's just like!

True connotation requires a high level of cultural accomplishment!

Be modest and modest, not what you like, you can not accept it, but you can't refuse, you can laugh right, but you can't ignore it, because you are in the environment, in the society, you can't be independent, good luck!

Change is really hard and always repeated. And a lot of it is unconscious, automated thinking. But I will continue to persevere, because it will get better and better.

In the past two days, I have encountered a little unhappy thing. However, I also found some problems of my own, and the good or bad of things are always relative, and from another point of view, it may be a good thing. For example, if you fail to try something, if you blindly immerse yourself in self-criticism, it will have no effect except to hit yourself, but since things are already like this, you should find out the reason for the failure, and then correct it, and then take the brother and continue to try.

It's always pessimistic to look at problems, and that's one of my problems, because I don't know what other angles I can look at. Every time I am in a bad mood, I will write words, talk to myself, and I will become calm when I write, and I can even gradually find some problems from the recorded words. I feel that this method is very useful, and I will continue to stick to it.

Another point is that I always unconsciously focus on the bad points, and then amplify them infinitely, for example, if I do something, let's say there are a total of 100 people, 99 people support me, encourage me, as long as there is an opposing voice, I will involuntarily focus on this opposing voice and start to doubt myself.

When it comes to learning to look at problems from different perspectives, first of all, I have to understand the thinking and the process of generating ideas, and then I need to read more books in my own practice. The problems you have encountered have been encountered by others, and they may be more difficult than yours, learn how they look at the problem and solve the problem. We don't have to start from scratch ourselves, we can stand on the shoulders of giants.

I believe it will get better and better.

Even if some things can't be changed, we can still change the mindset of looking at things] What is lost, no matter how much you try to get it back, is lost. If you love the wrong person, no matter how much you regret it, you will also love the wrong person. Most of the time, we spend too much time and energy on people, things, and things that are not worth pursuing, exploring, and experiencing, or that are not worth it, have been missed, or cannot be changed.

But instead of struggling with the mistakes of the past, it is better to accept it, face it, and change it.

First of all, you have to know that time doesn't go backwards, it just goes on, you can't do it all over again. Secondly, you have to understand that no one is perfect enough, and you have to admit that you are wrong, and you can only change it after admitting it. If you just blindly run away, then life will only get worse and worse.

Even if something can't be changed, we can still change our mindset about things.