What useless efforts have you seen? Why is it useless for some people to try?

A roommate in college has always been dissatisfied with his figure, and he yells about ** every day. But his ** way is really doing useless work.

He doesn't eat breakfast every day, but at noon because he is hungry, he will go to the food stall outside to order some takeaway to eat, and he also said righteously: I haven't eaten breakfast, and I must finally eat a good meal!

When I was in high school, I had a classmate who didn't do well in school, but he really worked hard, and he did a lot more questions than others. But as long as he gets home, he doesn't study, a dozen games is a day, and in the end, his grades are still not very good, and he only took an ordinary undergraduate exam in the college entrance examination.

When I was in school, there was a classmate who studied very seriously and never played after class. Every point in time he was studying, but his grades never went up, so I felt that his efforts were useless. Maybe there is something wrong with his learning method, maybe there is something wrong with his IQ, so what he does is useless.

I've seen a lot of students who seem to work hard when they are students but always can't get up, and people who seem to have fun all day have good grades, many people say that this is the reason for IQ, but I think this is only a small part, the bigger reason is because some people don't know how to work hard, I used to have a table mate who looked like a hard worker, he entered the class every day is the earliest to eat and the latest, but he memorized a book all morning and didn't remember a few words, this is because he didn't memorize at all, And every time he does the wrong question, he doesn't summarize it, so the next time he does it again, it is still wrong, although he wastes time and energy every day, it still has no effect.

When you are dealing with a person who is particularly stubborn and stubborn. No matter how much you try to persuade him, he will not be able to change his views and practices. That's what I've done, it's useless, try hard!

There are also two people together, you work hard to earn money and pay for this family, and the other person is working hard to spend money, then all your efforts are in vain.

I think a lot of people are saying that waking up early can change their lives, but can you really change your state by waking up early?

It's certainly right to wake up early, but it's the right thing to do that makes it possible for you to change your life.

Although, some people have done it, and it seems that they work hard to get up early, but if they don't do the right thing, then they may not succeed.

I participated in a tug-of-war competition in high school, and then the opponents in our class at that time were very strong classes, and everyone in their class was very strong, and then I felt that when I first started pulling out, they pulled us over all of a sudden, and they just couldn't come over no matter how hard they tried.

Try to make the rooster lay hen eggs ......

Blindly working for something that you know is impossible. I have a friend who knows that the other party doesn't like him, but he still pays silently for the other party, without asking for anything in return, and we are not worth it for him. Love should be mutual, unrequited love is destined to have no result, or rejected unrequited love.

For our students who are still in school, the most useless effort should be absent-minded learning, I believe many people will have such a time, this is similar to that kind of fake learning, don't look at you are studying there, but in fact nothing has been learned, I want to say, so you might as well have fun, at least have fun playing, you haven't learned anything here, it's not happy, the gains outweigh the losses!

For a long time, we got stuck in a cycle where efforts were useless. For three years, it was like falling into a bottomless abyss, depressed and depressed. It is as if it is suppressed and bound by some invisible energy. This feeling convinced me that it is useless to work hard.

When I was a child, I learned everything quickly, and as long as I put a little effort into it, I could achieve the results I expected. Later, after the year of establishment, I gave birth to a baby, and my life has changed a lot. The unstable state of life prevents me from devoting myself to the field I love.

There is an effort, like someone who runs on a treadmill forever, and the result is just standing still. For the first time, I realized that age brings with it limitations and crises.

Three, five, ten years passed. Every node can't see the result they want, and this frustration erodes day after day, until in the end they still say: no matter how hard you try, it won't be useful.

It was only with this belief that I came to this day that I began to overthrow this deep-rooted idea. It's not that hard work is useless, sometimes you think hard work, but you don't try too hard.

When I start to change my mind, I don't care how much I've done. I read more books, get up earlier every morning and go to the company to do exercises, although I take the baby alone, but I am more attentive and committed to accompany the child. Occasionally, there will still be such thoughts intrusion, but now I will gently tell myself that it is okay.

And then continue to do what he is doing now.

Later, this person who walked in place on the treadmill honed a skill - stability.

When people reach middle age, the ideal appearance is to be stable. Emotionally stable, stable family and career. It also changes the definition of success, and knows more about the satisfaction of the moment.

Summary. Kiss, as long as we work hard, even if the result is not what we want, at least the process is what we feel happy.

Why effort is useless.

Kiss, as long as we work hard, even if the result is not what we want, at least the process is what we feel happy.

It's useless to work hard, but it's even more useless not to work hard, so there's still a possibility of hard work.

Dear, have you encountered anything unhappy?

You can talk to the teacher, and the teacher will accompany you.

The high school entrance examination was much worse than usual.

Obviously, I worked hard.

Well, what does a child mean when he takes a test?

Auntie, can you understand you, you work so hard, and the result is usually very good, but the high school entrance examination is not as good as the usual test, this kind of mood Auntie can understand.

If life is all about upwards, then life is meaningless, if our life is ups and downs, is it that we have a sense of accomplishment and convincing.

Young man, Auntie hopes you don't give up, this is just an exam, we continue to work hard, although everyone wants to get good results, if we are a little reluctant this time, but we have a great tolerance to accept our results.

Talent is more important.

Talent is the foundation of success, and hard work is the booster of success. There is no way to change talent. Many people are relatively talented, and their ability to understand and create is strong.

It's innate, and there's no way to change it. When I was in school, I often met top students, and people could understand the knowledge after listening to it once, but some people needed to understand it several times.

The problems that people easily solve may not be able to solve all night long. With a little effort, these people will create a lot of achievements. And even if ordinary people try hard, they are still spinning in the same place and cannot move forward.

There can be a variety of reasons for this, such as:

1.Unclear or unrealistic goals: Some people may not have clear goals, or the goals they set are too large to achieve, resulting in undirectional, unfocused, and ultimately unrewarding efforts.

2.Incorrect or ineffective methods: Some people may have taken the wrong approach, or the methods they have taken are outdated and not appropriate for their situation, causing their efforts to come to naught.

3.Lack of patience and perseverance: Some people may lack patience and perseverance, they have difficulty persevering in their efforts and are prone to giving up in the face of difficulties or setbacks, resulting in their efforts not achieving lasting results. Xun Segment.

4.Fierce competition: Some people work hard in a very competitive field, but because of the competition, they may not be able to achieve great things, even if they try a lot.

5.Bad luck: Some people may have put in a lot of effort, but they may not have been rewarded due to a number of external factors.

Some people try hard but still don't get the results or success they expected. The reasons can be manifold.

1.Unclear goals: If you don't set clear goals for yourself, it's hard to know where you're heading and to measure your progress and results.

2.Lack of proper strategy: Even if you have clear goals, if you lack effective plans and strategies, then it will be difficult to achieve them. Therefore, when developing a plan, you need to consider how to act, what types of deficit steps need to be taken, and how to deal with obstacles and difficulties.

3.Not enough patience and perseverance: Many goals take a long time to achieve, requiring perseverance and patience and perseverance. If you lack these qualities, it's easy to let go of setbacks and difficulties.

4.Environmental factors: Sometimes, environmental factors can also affect whether a person's efforts will achieve the goal. For example, limited resources, fierce competition, and few opportunities can all affect the results of a person's efforts.

5.No effective feedback and guidance: If you don't get timely, accurate feedback and guidance, it's hard to know where you're progressing and what improvements need to be made. This can lead to mistakes or inefficient actions.

In conclusion, while hard work is one of the important factors in achieving goals and success, it is not a panacea. In the process of pursuing goals, you also need to consider the influence of other factors and adopt corresponding strategies to improve your own efficiency and results.

There are several possibilities to consider.

1. If the direction of effort is wrong, no matter how hard you try, it will be useless.

2. You can't improve yourself with the progress of science and technology, and your efforts are basically behind closed doors, and in your own opinion, you have succeeded, and you don't look at the cars on the street.

3. There are many abilities that are not as good as others, and your efforts in the weak areas are not as good as considering breaking through in the strengths will be more fulfilling, if you plan to make up for these shortcomings, it can only be a waste of time and energy (I feel that many people have wasted their youth in this way).

4. Make a look of effort, these are for the other to see the effort, you feel that there will be any good results.

5 I'm not going to talk about this. After all, some are true unspoken rules. If you don't even know the rules yourself,,, you're not making much effort.

This is normal, in fact, almost everyone works hard, but there are very few good people, so many people in the world are like this: they have been working hard, and the result is still useless, but we still have to work hard no matter what. Although we can't be excellent, we have worked hard, and others also look at this and understand it in our hearts.

Not everyone will be rewarded through hard work, and sometimes you need the help of noble people, but it is definitely not possible to work hard.

If you still feel that hard work is useless, we might as well listen to what Mr. Bai Yansong said.

As soon as the words fell, the crowd applauded.

Then Mr. Bai Yansong said:

My personal perception is: many things need a long period of potential accumulation, although the most powerful results are late, but as long as you can start from the small things and stick to it, the best will always come.

Believe me, effort really works, it just takes time.

You just have to remember: the worst outcome is nothing more than a late bloomer.

Hard work will pay off, sooner or later.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.