If a girl never takes the initiative to text and I take the initiative, is it hopeless?

Most girls are like that. She's shy; If you are not confident in yourself, I am afraid that you will be disappointed; I haven't met you, I'm afraid that when I see you, I won't see you, and so on. If you're confident enough in yourself, quietly show up at the station and pick her up.

Let's talk about meeting first, maybe she hasn't seen you yet, I'm afraid it's embarrassing to meet suddenly. I suggest you work hard, and boys should take the initiative.

If she doesn't want you to go, you don't want to go, if you insist on going, she will be disgusted with you. If you are a boy, you have to take the initiative and ask her out, but the first few times girls will generally refuse, don't force it, make an appointment a few more times, if it is a little interesting to you, you will definitely be able to make an appointment, if she keeps refusing, then give up, it must be hopeless.

Don't be too proactive.

It's the same as everyone else.

It's too annoying.

You can go to the station and wait for her, when you see her, say that you are just passing by, and then wait for you by the way, send her on the bus or help her carry her luggage, and after you have done this, you can go home by yourself, slowly infiltrate her and influence her, and create more opportunities to meet.

It has to be a more familiar relationship to pick you up at the station, but you haven't met once, of course the girls don't want to, and I don't know what kind of person you are Don't be too active at first, otherwise others will look down on you, or suspect you of bad intentions, etc., hehe.

I don't know if you're a good person for a while.

Recently, a small one chatted with me, saying that the situation of several girls he had recently dated was similar to what I had met, all after meeting, chatting and sending WeChat, girls never took the initiative to send WeChat to you, but you sent a message to her basically will reply, I feel hopeful and feel that there is no play, and it is very uncomfortable to hang like this, I think girls are in such a situation.

1. Some like you.

This situation is ideal, maybe she does like you a little, especially like it, at least not hate, willing to try to get along and contact, but maybe because of the introverted personality, I don't know how to get along with people. Don't dare and won't take the initiative to chat with others. She may still have a good impression of you, and she is always paying attention to you and sending her messages, so that she can reply to you in seconds, afraid of missing every interaction with you, but she is very shy and reserved, afraid of taking the initiative in the relationship, afraid of taking the initiative to expose the traces of liking you, afraid of the beginning, afraid of the end, and even more afraid of being hurt.

You haven't made it clear that you want to chase her or like her, and she's afraid you'll be self-inflicted.

2. You are very good at licking dogs.

Every chat is initiated by you, you will also have no dignity and no bottom line to please her, all kinds of shh Just give you something that looks like hope, and you'll be nice to her, and she likes to enjoy the feeling of your kneeling and licking. Actually, you are very pitiful, even a spare tire.

No, I thought I could move her to accept you, so the child should wash and sleep.

3. Be a spare tire.

To the point of blind date, most of them are each other as spare tires, not to mention that they don't particularly like and can't find a more suitable one, so get along first, maybe she thinks you're not bad but didn't meet her ideal requirements, maybe it's the appearance, figure, work or savings and other reasons, you are lucky to have the potential to be a spare tire, can carry forward the spare tire, of course you can't be too attentive to the spare tire, but you can't be too indifferent, just hang it, at least it means that you have someone to love. She doesn't feel the need to refuse you, and there's nothing wrong with having one more person to care about and greet.

The most important thing is that girls don't like you, no matter how reserved and passive and introverted girls are, if the boy they like takes the initiative first, they will also take the initiative to interact with the boy. If the boy takes the initiative, and the girl still doesn't refuse or care, and looks like she doesn't care, then I advise you to give up early.

4. Out of politeness.

I once went on a blind date with a girl, that is, you will reply to you when you chat with her, but never take the initiative to find you, you ask her how she feels about you, just be an ordinary friend. When people send a message, it is polite to you, not only you, but she will also not refuse when other people send her a message, and will reply, which is called polite and non-discriminatory.

Unless girls. I like this guy very much.

I want to pursue this guy.

In this case.

Schoolgirl. may take the initiative to send a message to the boy.

Feeling that this boy is worthless, or in order to raise his worth, he deliberately does not take the initiative to send messages to the boy, for this kind of girl who is too scheming, there is no need to contact again.

I've experienced this myself, and the first thing I can be sure of is that you all had a good impression of each other before, for example, you were very good friends, always chatting, always sending some ** expressions, and greeting each other.

One. The two of them chatted very happily before, and regarded each other as confidants, and friends of the opposite sex may have a chance to develop into lovers in the future. So we talk about everything, and we always chat with each other very tacitly every day.

Two. Suddenly, one day, two people have a conflict, or some small things, there are some differences. So the two of them suddenly found out that you don't talk to me, and I don't take the initiative to talk to you. That's it, they all hang out there.

Three. Or suddenly, a new emotion arises on one side. So he seems to think that person is more suitable for him, so he doesn't want to have some misunderstanding with you or not. Don't want you to waste your time. So we're still friends. I've always put you in the circle of friends.

, not to contact you. When you greet you. He would respond politely. That is, the ordinary friends who put it there. Same as I thought, so be it!

Because this girl doesn't like you very much, she won't be very active with you.

If you send a message, it will reply to you, and she may have two meanings in this situation, one is out of politeness, not replying to you for fear that you will be sad, afraid that you will feel that she is a very arrogant person, so replying to you is just respecting you. The second is that she wants you to chase her, and the attitude you pursue determines whether you are sincere to her, after all, it feels very happy to be pursued, so she replies to you in time, and can only say that she doesn't hate you, but she is testing you.

A girl doesn't reach out to me, but if I message her, she gets back to me. The situation you mentioned means that this girl may not have accepted you in her heart, and she is still hesitant and hesitant.

Of course, there is also a possibility that girls are generally more reserved, and it is possible that she just wants to contact you, but she is a little shy, so she will not take the initiative to contact you.

When your relationship is more familiar and deeper, the girl will take the initiative.

This situation shows that you are just ordinary friends, and if you send her a message and she will reply to you, which is out of politeness, but she will not take the initiative to contact you if you are fine.

A girl doesn't take the initiative to contact you, but if you send him a message, he will reply to you, which shows that at least your position in his heart is not too important, because he will always think about you, at least or is it the person he likes in his heart? If it is the person he likes in his heart, he will always wish you to contact you in time and think of you.

Maybe this girl is more shy, shy, and unwilling to socialize with others, you send it to him, and he will prove that he still understands you, and knows that it is yours, as long as you like him, you don't give up the initiative, it's good.

In this case, it is possible that the child does not like you very much, she does not hate you, it is possible that even the child is shy and does not take the initiative to contact you, as long as he can contact him, he will follow back to WeChat, in fact, this kind of thing is very normal, than the shopkeeper or passive, as long as you rely on the child to take the initiative, she does not object to you.

It shows that she is paying attention to you, but does not want to take the initiative, that is, she enjoys the feeling of being chased.

She is expecting your initiative, and if you like her, you are likely to confess success.

This is knowing that I can't be too hopeful for you, so I am not so enthusiastic about you, I don't fall in love, I have my own plan, I am responsible for myself, and I don't let myself out at will.

Girls generally don't take the initiative to contact boys, and if boys take the initiative to contact her, they will definitely reply, some like it, and some out of politeness.

One is reserved, one is polite, and the other is cold.

Girls are generally very reserved, and boys should take the initiative, so this is also a normal thing.

This shows that she doesn't have any dependence on you in her heart, but she doesn't hate you either.

Some are out of friend's courtesy, and some are likely to like you.

A girl doesn't reach out to you, but if you message him, she will get back to you. Maybe it's out of politeness!

Girls don't take the initiative to contact you, but sending her a message will get back to you, maybe they are friends with each other.

Maybe she wasn't the one who took the initiative in the first place. Or maybe she doesn't quite like you yet.

He has you in his heart but he doesn't have that kind of situation where he can't do without you, or he has a very cold personality, that's why he's like this.

It should be out of politeness.

Women are like that. Like to be reserved.

It can only be said that this girl is more polite, and he is more self-disciplined in interpersonal relationships, so he will reply when others take the initiative to contact him.

From this point of view, he will also be more respectful of others, and at the same time, he will also be more concerned about what others think of him.

He doesn't necessarily have a crush on you or hates you, in general, whenever someone sends her a message back, she will reply to him, and that's true for everyone.

The basic reply to other people's information is a basic courtesy of a person, and the basic principles of etiquette, not taking the initiative to contact you, indicating that she may not have too much involvement and connection with you in the life circle. You send her a message and she will reply to you, which is a relatively basic moral code for everyone, and replying is a basic courtesy. So it's a very normal kind of reply to a message.

You don't have to worry too much about it!

The main thing is that the lady likes you a little, but she is not sure whether you belong to her, and wants to take the initiative between you, so she does not take the initiative to contact you, but she does not want to put it down, so she will reply to you in a timely manner after you send a message, come on, I wish you happiness.

Maybe it's because she's more introverted and doesn't communicate well with people, or maybe people don't mean anything else to you, and replying to messages is just out of politeness.

Maybe he would prefer you to take the initiative to find him. Such a boy is generally more introverted, and he has little confidence in himself, and his personality is more passive, he may want to find you, but he is afraid that it will disturb you, so he waits for you to find him silently.

This is because girls don't like to take the initiative, and she doesn't necessarily have a good impression of you when she replies to you, but at least she is polite to you, and she may have a good impression of you if you talk more.

If a girl doesn't take the initiative to contact you, but you send her a message, she will reply to you, it's because the girl still wants to be friends with you, and she is polite to reply to you.

Because girls are a little more reserved, if you message her and she will reply to you, maybe out of politeness, or maybe she likes you. If you like her too, you can make some more friends.

Girls are generally more reserved, more passive, if you like him, of course, you should take the initiative to contact him, you want to know what he thinks, you hint to him, see how he is?

I just have a little bit of a crush on you.

Many men don't understand, in fact, if a woman, she doesn't like you at all and doesn't want to have anything to do with you at all, then let alone respond to you enthusiastically, she can't even respond to you, she won't pay attention to you at all.

Especially this kind of blind date girl who knows each other, the blind date is originally with a purpose, if she thinks that you are not suitable for her at all, she will directly remove you, and she will not spend time at all, and take care of you.

And when you look for her, she is willing to date you, she is willing to reply to your messages, and even has a positive attitude, then this means that she has a good impression of you in her heart and wants to try it with you.

In adult relationships, no one is willing to spend energy all the time to maintain a relationship, and there is no possible relationship at all. She is willing to maintain, which is to give you a chance, and wants to walk around with you.

As for her never taking the initiative to find you, this is actually quite normal. Because although she also likes you a little, but so far, her liking is not so strong.

A woman has and only when she likes a person very much, will she be completely unreserved and leave everything to find him. And for those who have not yet reached this level of liking, she will be cautious and take a wait-and-see attitude.

She will feel that she is a little tempted, but if her motivation is just wishful thinking, and you don't like her so much, and you don't even take the initiative to find her, then it is not a pity that she misses you.

But if you are willing to take the initiative all the time, always be enthusiastic about her, and not give up in a few days and start flirting with others, then slowly, she will feel your sincerity and will change her attitude towards you.