How can people avoid detours? How can I avoid detours in my life?

No one can say very clearly how to avoid it.

But I personally think that it doesn't matter if you take a detour, as long as you can have personal strength, you don't have to be afraid to take a detour.

Maybe this will waste some time, but after you have taken a detour, if you can absorb it in a timely and rational way, it can be avoided in the future. In this way, taking a detour is also teaching yourself a lesson.

Without failure, where can there be success, how can life be smooth sailing?

If this is the case, isn't China, a country with a large population, the world's largest power?

No matter in **, if you want to succeed, in addition to some essential factors, strength is still the most important.

If you don't have strength, you won't have capital to speak.

I think life is all about bumps and bumps to really find the path you want to take, just like being in a maze.

Looking at the map and scribbling with your fingers, it is simple to talk on paper. But when you really get into it, it's often not that easy.

So, it's better to strengthen yourself. In the final analysis, in addition to reading books well, (which is indispensable for going out into society), you also need to hone yourself more in practice, so that you can get closer and closer to your goals towards your ideals or what you want to achieve.

In fact, many things still have to be experienced by yourself. So, hone yourself more. It's only good for yourself.

Someone asked: How to avoid detours in life?

It's really a hard question to answer.

Because there are no straight roads and detours in the world, you walk past and then look back, and you know whether the road you have walked is a straight road or a detour.

A person does not gain experience in building a house until he has built it.

And all our hunger and anxiety is the desire to gain the experience of building a house before we finish it.

That's impossible.

Don't think about the impossible.

Of course, we don't have the experience of building a house ourselves.

But we can gain experience from others who have built a good house.

Although these experiences are not entirely applicable, they are of great significance to us.

So, how do you get these experiences?

Of course, there is only one way, and that is - reading.

Open classes, lectures, visiting Zhihu, and watching interviews are also some of the means to gain experience, but the most important and effective means are reading.

Because the ancients could not hold public classes or lectures, we had no choice but to read books to gain the experience of the ancients.

Modern people can give public lectures and give lectures, but they still write the essence of their own thoughts and experiences into books.

So if we want to gain their experience, we still need to read books.

All in all, reading is still the most direct and effective means of acquiring ideas and gaining experience.

Well, the answer comes out.

How to avoid detours in life?

Look at the detours that others have taken.

How to ** the detours that others have taken? Study!

It's really hard to say, because the road of life is originally a road that cannot be seen through in advance! Because no one knows in advance which road is the real straight road, since you don't know the straight road, then it doesn't matter what the detour is. In short, all the roads you have traveled are the roads you should have taken, and all the roads you have traveled are your life paths.

In the past, everything should have happened. The future is always unknown. Taking it one step at a time is a common pattern for almost everyone.

There may be a detour in the straight, and a straight can also be hidden in the detour. The more I think about it, the more I have no way out, because of the entanglement and entanglement, which is also considered and considered, in the end, I can't take half a step at all.

It's not good to be too empiricist, it's not good to be too random, in short, the road of life is an inexplicable road, and everyone has their own path.

How can people avoid detours? I think you can consider it from several aspects, one is to synthesize other people's opinions, to listen to others' opinions, two is to have your own discernment, do not be impulsive, to calmly combine other people's opinions, combined with your ideas, comprehensive judgment, three learn from other people's practices, the previous car overturned, the future car learned.

If you want to avoid detours, you must continue to learn, reserve knowledge and energy, and observe the dynamic development of the project.

Have a goal plan and keep an eye on it. You can't take dreams as goals, dreams and goals are actually two different things. Dreams are imaginary, goals are real.

Dreams need to be translated into concrete goals. Targets are divided into long-term goals, medium-term goals, short-term goals, and macro goals. By keeping an eye on these goals, achieving them step by step, and improving execution, you can reduce the chances of making mistakes.

If you're on the road and you're on every intersection, you'll get to your goal quickly.

Good at finding problems in time. For some problems that occur around us, we must summarize them in time, find them in time, and correct them in time, so that we can put ourselves on the right path in the process of continuous summing up and improvement. Make the right judgment about things.

When we do something, we must make a more appropriate judgment and make our judgment more convincing based on a certain analysis, so that we can avoid detours.

Life is colorful, but also bumpy and bumpy, if you want people to live a more wonderful life, and less take the bay road, that requires you to work hard from a young age, read more to increase your knowledge, and be calm in trouble. Think twice before acting, when encountering major events, you should talk to your elders and people with great knowledge, as the old saying goes, people have no long-term worries. For this reason, you must not be impulsive when you encounter things in life, impulsiveness is the devil?

Only in this way will the Tao of life be smoother, and life will be happier!

It should be the choice of every fork in the road, the choice is very important, only by choosing the right choice as much as possible each time, it is possible to take fewer detours, but take a detour, you can also look at the scenery along the way, there is no shortcut in life, if you feel relaxed, it must be someone who is carrying the weight for you.

Surround yourself with like-minded people. This point is very important, the so-called Tao is not compatible with each other, we must find people who have similar goals to ourselves, and then work together towards the set goals, several people encourage each other, and work together towards success. Listen to your elders.

After all, we are not very experienced in society, although we have a lot of knowledge, but it does not mean that we are experienced, so we can listen to the opinions of our elders more, and they have more social experience.

Ask more about your seniors. On the road of life, there are many predecessors, who have traveled a lot, suffered losses, made mistakes, and made mistakes. If you are humble and don't be ashamed to ask, they will often know everything.

Just like some new entrepreneurs come to me and ask me how to make catering, I am very willing to teach them, and even teach them by hand. Of course, it will prevent him from making fewer mistakes, less detours, and less trial and error. A friend had big ambitions to open a restaurant, but he didn't even have a business plan.

I urged him to write out his business plan and pointed out many of the problems. Sure enough, a profit was realized in half a month.

There is never a shortcut in the world, and if there is, it is to experience more detours in person! The premise is to have a firm goal, don't change the goal casually! Choose your goal and move forward! It is impossible to have no detours along the way, but as long as you take a lot of detours, the straight road will come out!

To avoid detours, we must learn to reflect on ourselves. First of all, a detour is a kind of exercise in life, and we should look at it correctly. Some people complain about God's injustice, that God has decided their own destiny.

This kind of mentality of complaining all day long will only make your life bend further. Avoid detours, maintain an optimistic and positive outlook, and smile at life. Secondly, don't be afraid to take detours, and don't be afraid of the consequences and harm of detours.

There is also learning to work together, which will make your detours smoother and smoother. Of course, there will be a certain degree of detours, but this is not a long detour compared to a person moving forward in confusion? Also, the road of life is not a sunny road, nor is it a calm sailing; The detours in life must be experienced.

We are not saints, and we will definitely go on a dark journey. Passing a detour may be full of bruises, but you must also learn to reflect on the mistakes you have made. Because this kind of reflection will cause you to be vigilant and will not make the same mistakes in the future.

When we lament that our predecessors have rich experiences, they have also taken detours. Listen more to the opinions of teachers and parents, which will also make you less detoured. They have traveled more than we have ever eaten, and we should listen carefully and make our own thoughts.

Life is like a journey, and there will be all kinds of people or things along the way that affect the direction you are traveling and block your footsteps. If you want to avoid detours, you must see the path you want to take. Accumulating experience is a must in the process of moving forward, it can help you think about the road you have traveled, analyze the road ahead, and avoid many unnecessary roads.

Experience is not something you are born with. Only when a baby feels the heat of the flame will he avoid the burn in the rest of his life, which is a process of accumulating experience. Even a humble experience has a purpose, and it may help you in another inconspicuous moment in the future.

But it is not that there will be an accumulation of experience after experience, knowing how to think is one of the greatest advantages of human beings, thinking about setbacks, and then you will have a feeling. Another very important point is to learn from each other. The reference here can be simply understood as drawing on the experience of predecessors.

In the long river of history, learning from the experience of predecessors is the greatest boost to human development, and mankind has taken countless detours. If we see clearly the path we want to take, accumulate experience in the past, learn from our predecessors, and strengthen our beliefs, we will be able to avoid many detours.