Is it hypocrisy to give without giving back?

Of course not, at least parents pay a lot of their children without asking for returns, just like me, now raising their own children, just hope that he is happy and happy, healthy growth I will be satisfied, I have always agreed that raising children is not for the sake of inheritance nor for their own pension, but to participate in the growth of another life This truth, the growth process of children, does not also bring us a lot of joy?

When I used to go to school, my parents have been telling me to study hard, to get ahead in the future and other things, I always felt that they were annoying, but now I have a deeper understanding of their minds after becoming a mother, I think, they must also be out of the desire to make me happy, after all, in a material society now, it is difficult to be happy without money, although happiness sometimes has nothing to do with the amount of money, but at least you have to solve the problem of food and clothing before you are qualified to talk about happiness. If they want me to do something for them, it's nothing more than a little vanity, just like I sometimes drive my mother back to her house now, and some people will say to see whose children have a future or something, so that my mother will not feel how incapable she is, and how untalented the children she raises, of course, this is just their own little thoughts, and it doesn't mean that they ask me for something in return because they raised me.

And like a lot of pure love, if you love someone, you will be willing to give everything for the other party, and I don't ask for anything in return, I just hope that the other party can accept my love, and I will be full of joy.

There is carbon in the snow, and never return nothing.

True kindness is not to ask for anything in return, to do a good deed, to express kindness, not to get praise and return from others, but for a kind of self-consistency, a kind of naturalness. I can only say that kindness is human nature, even if you are scolded, you will always stick to kindness. Let's take a look at how to be a kind person.

1.Loving and kind means loving and caring for others. In life, as long as we greet our relatives, friends, and classmates more, help the weak more within our ability, and do more things that we can do with our hands, we can cultivate love.

For example, when you see someone in distress, reach out and do what you can to help them. On the bus, give up a seat for people with reduced mobility; When passing by the court, help the people on the court pick up the ball that rolled to our feet; Help students who are poor in learning and answer their questions; Participate in volunteer activities to send some warmth to the elderly and orphans; Donate the pocket money you save ......These are acts of kindness. Fundamentally speaking, it is not difficult to be kind at all, because there is no difference between big and small, there is no distinction between high and low, and there is only true affection. Love is given regardless of occasion and time, as long as we have the heart, we can spread our love anytime and anywhere.

2.Some students will say, "I have given kindness but I have not been rewarded."

But you know what? Kindness itself is the highest reward for you. Because a kind person is always full of joy in his heart when he helps others.

Sometimes helping others is also helping yourself, which is the truth of "giving roses to others, and there is fragrance in your hands". Besides, the people you have helped in the past may also help you one day. It's easy to understand, for example, if you help your classmate, one day, when you are in trouble, he will definitely be the first to rush out to help you.

Those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed", life is like this, no one can do without the help of others, when you help others move away from stumbling blocks, it may just pave the way for yourself. To be more understanding, tolerant, supportive, and helpful to others is actually to be kind to yourself and help yourself.

From a psychological point of view, being kind to others is also being kind to yourself.

Although people naturally like to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, people also do not like to owe favors. Therefore, the kindness we give will often be reciprocated by kindness.

I want to stand up and stand up, and I want to reach and reach people.

We need to develop ourselves, and we also need to help others develop. To be kind to others is to be kind to ourselves, and when we give kindness to others, we are actually giving kindness to ourselves.

No evil is persuaded. A little kindness, convenient with people.

Helping others is actually helping ourselves indirectly, and while we give kindness, we will also get kindness in return. Although there may also be special circumstances, if you give kindness, you will be defeated, such as an elderly person who falls down and is kind enough to help him, but he is touched by porcelain. But this is, after all, an isolated phenomenon.

Look up to the sky, bow down to others, the greatest reward of kindness is peace of mind.

Look up to the sky, bow down to people.

When you look up, you feel that you are worthy of the sky, and when you look down, you feel worthy of others. Be a fair and honest person with a clear conscience. The so-called gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative.

The reason why I chose kindness is actually to have a clear conscience and make myself feel at ease. This is also the greatest reward for kindness, so that we can sleep peacefully every night, and we will not toss and turn because of a disturbed conscience.

After a person has encountered so many unfortunate events in his life, he still insists on being a kind and good person and doing his best to help others. In fact, what he is asking for peace of mind is also. My peace of mind is my hometown, and peace of mind is the greatest reward that kindness brings us.

So, if you ask me, if you can't get someone else in return for giving kindness, do you still want to choose kindness?

My answer is, of course. We choose kindness so that we will not suffer the torture and torment of conscience because of guilt one day in the future.

Conscience is something we can't escape, even if we have mountains of gold and silver, we can't afford to sleep a solid night and eat a bowl of peace of mind. Peace of mind is the greatest reward for kindness.