Can middle school students fall in love openly?

I would like to help you analyze it from the following points, and you have to decide for yourself how to do it:

1. You are still a middle school student, how do you still want to be a person who can do something in the future, then the current energy can not be dispersed, you should learn the basic knowledge as your current main idea, you must not fall in love, even if you like the girl very much, you can only let go of such an idea temporarily, the solution is: you can continue to maintain a general friend relationship with the girl, solve the internal psychological pressure, and tell her that learning scientific knowledge is the current thing, To marry her as a wife is a matter of growing up.

2. In terms of the current stage of the mental and physical growth of middle school students, they are still in the growth stage, not very stable and mature, and need to be calm, so to speak, the girl's appearance, manners, treatment of others, conversation, etc. will make the boy envious, but these are one-sided, like, love, talk about marriage and other concepts are not the same, you should carefully examine your thoughts and behavior, suggest: first maintain an ordinary relationship, and then two years to see if you still like her so much, and then see if your opinion of her has changed.

3. No one can do anything to help you from external causes, and it is you who really help you solve this solution, because such things come from your inner world, and you can see that you are very confused, so you should analyze, why are you confused? Hehe, because you also know that parents don't agree, so why don't parents agree? It's useless and suspicious, it's not that I really don't want you to talk about girls, but I'm afraid that I will enter the stage you shouldn't enter too early, which will affect the growth of your life, how do we do it as children?

A self-motivated child should be able to make decisions!

4. Some middle school students think about that girl because they have LG, so that their academic performance plummets, and in the end they become prodigal sons in society and become a young man who has not done anything. So how to solve the problem of thinking about that girl at this stage? I think it's still how to solve the problem of inner thoughts, other people's persuasion and external resistance are useless, once someone said "where in the world there is no grass" and some people say "there is Yan Ruyu in the book", etc., to warn people not to be too attached to a thing, but I don't say that about you, I think whether a thing is good or random should depend on the impact of the event on a person, what I want to tell you is "to what stage to do what things".

Shallow knowledge, I don't know how to say it, and some truths can't be explained, I hope it helps you!

Let's see the difference between love and liking!

I feel the same way you do, I'm 15 years old.

I was doing well in my studies, and I was even ranked 123rd in my grade, so the teacher didn't look for my parents.

If the flowers don't bloom when they bloom, then the youth will be less exciting, I support you, as long as you work hard, you will slowly get better.

If it doesn't affect learning, I think it's okay to talk. As long as two people are serious. But there is no need to be above board, so that the teacher is very difficult to do this.

Yes, having a proper relationship can also help with learning, hehe

I support you in love, in fact, I am also in love, and it is nothing that the photos of me and my girlfriend are found I approve of you.

I'm behind you, and you're absolutely right to believe in me.

Pick me up.

Just don't do anything deviant. As long as it doesn't interfere with learning.

It can still be continued!

No, you cannot. You're still young.

Preferably still. Ah, for the future.

But if you love each other too much, quietly

It's better to tell him, because after all, they are all children. Will it continue now? Let's divide it for the sake of each other's future! ~

What happens if you tell your parents?

As long as it doesn't interfere with learning

It might even be a motivation to learn

Can you fall in love with him until you graduate from junior high school, high school, college, and then get married?

If you can't, you give up so much, just for the budding love fire, give up early.

I still think.

Say it doesn't affect learning.

In fact, it will definitely affect.

Persistence is victory, never give in.

Don't affect the old can of learning your LG number?

Don't interfere with your studies.

1.Shouldn't. It is recommended that individuals should control themselves and go through the customized process step by step, as most parents and teachers hope.

Because, when it's time to study hard, when it's time to work hard, when it's time to fall in love, you really have to talk about a love for the purpose of marriage. When is it time to get married and have children.

It is the best way of life that people have summed up over the years. It's more reliable to observe! Such a choice, although less romantic and thrilling, but warm, beautiful, happy, is a good choice for ordinary people like me!

2.Middle school students are in a rebellious period and are beginning to form their own outlook on life.

Values and social outlook. At this time, there was a generation gap with parents, teachers, etc. And only when you are with your peers, there is solace. Middle school students are in the stage of sexual maturity. Secondary sexual characteristics.

made them realize that they were no longer children. The secretion of sex hormones makes them look forward to the opposite sex, which is a normal instinctive phenomenon. Middle school students are not mentally mature enough to not know that society is dangerous, and because of information asymmetry, they do not have a judgment of "social value" for many things.

3.It can be said that the school and parents oppose the love of middle school students because they are afraid that they will be deceived, which is well-intentioned. So when you go to college, neither your parents nor your school will object to you falling in love.

Because it is normal for college students to fall in love, whether it is age, mental development, physical development, or the ability to think and judge independently, they are all mature and formed in college. Indeed, some middle school students, from school uniforms to wedding dresses, have grown up with each other and become a good story. But there are also many more people who have become the exes of the other side.

For secondary school students, it is important to lay a foundation for their future and focus on learning.

4.When it's time to study, I've already deviated from the track of learning. As a bystander, I think I should immediately ask how girls meet boys, analyze what they should do and what they shouldn't do at this age, and let girls thoroughly understand the dangers of love and the importance of learning.

Then, she should communicate with her parents in a timely manner, explain the situation, educate together at home and school, have the care and education of teachers at school, and have the care of parents at home, and jointly guide children to learn.

It's better not to fall in love. Because middle school is a critical period for laying the foundation for learning, this time is more intense to study, not suitable for falling in love, and falling in love during this period is like a precocious plant, which will affect your growth later.

1.In middle school, I was nervous about studying, and I needed to get up early in the morning to run exercises, study in the morning, study in the evening, and study and wash my own things. Time is tight.

So every day may be very stressful and not suitable for falling in love. It's still about learning. Because the main thing to learn in middle school is knowledge and self-reliance, because this period has left the arms of parents, you need to learn to clean up your own things, especially to learn to manage your time.

2.Early puberty is not good for growth in middle school. This period for middle school students is a period of study, because they have to face the high school entrance examination after finishing junior high school.

The high school entrance examination is also a time for diversion. Those with good grades will continue their studies, while those with poor grades may go to vocational school or no longer attend school. That's why learning is very important for a child.

And choosing to fall in love at this time is obviously the wrong choice, which will not only have an impact on learning, but also affect others. So it's best not to fall in love. Because I don't have the financial ability at this time, it's empty talk to fall in love, it's better to wait until I finish my studies and work to talk about it, and then it's really in love.

In short, middle school is not suitable for falling in love, because falling in love affects one's own studies and hurts others. So let's put your mind into studying, and then consider falling in love when you finish your studies, participate in work, and have the ability to be responsible for each other!

Middle school students are too young to understand what love is, they are just curious! All kinds of ideas are immature, most of them are affected by idol dramas and think that their real life should be like what, but reality does not allow falling in love, I personally think that if two people are together and do not forget that they are a student and do not do anything out of line, it is okay to fall in love with each other, and it is normal to love and hate people.

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Secondary school students are not allowed to fall in love. Middle school students are now in adolescence, which belongs to the period of sexual consciousness germination, and it is normal and beautiful to have a hazy good impression of the opposite sex, but in this period, middle school students should pay more attention to study, because middle school students are the first period of brain development at this time

I think it's up to you personally, because everyone chooses to fall in love for different purposes, just like some people want to find some playmates because they are too bored on weekdays. Most people who fall in love with each other end up breaking up. Personally, I don't think middle school students should fall in love.

I'm also a middle school student, and I actually want to fall in love, but I restrained myself because I thought that I would take the college entrance examination in half a year.

No, middle school students are a critical period of physical and psychological development, the body is not sound, and the psychology is also maturing, so this period to fall in love is not good for your studies at all, it is suggested: focus on academics, so that when the body and mind are mature, then do things in love.

For a middle school student, it is a peak period of life, this period determines the fate of a lifetime, and the most important thing is to read books well. As for love, when you graduate from college, you have the financial strength to be qualified to love and protect others.

Personally, I think that student love is not a bad thing, and pure love during the student period is very beautiful, but now the society is too complicated, and the mind is not mature enough, and the scale of many things is not well grasped, so the result is often not good.

Personally, I fell in love when I was in middle school, and although it didn't come to fruition, it was the most unforgettable memory of my life.