I got into a fight with my boyfriend over drinking, and now he resolutely ignores me, is it true or

Agree with Lou's view.

First: both of you are at fault, and you know you are at fault first. And he went too far to make such a move.

Secondly: we only know that you love him, and it is difficult to say whether he still loves you. So what the 2nd floor said, go to him and make it clear.

And my speculation is: you love him very much, and everyone on earth knows that he may be tired and needs to rest. That is, he can't afford the burden of his family now.

He can't hold you this day. He's tired of running the marriage of the two of you, what about in the future? You have to be mentally prepared.

It is said that persuasion is not persuasion, and I am only objectively analyzing his heart. It's just a matter of telling you to be mentally prepared, and there will be a lot of friction in the future. As the second floor said, let's make it clear, if it's not necessary, don't continue.

cough cough ...I really want to know how you two fight. ==( Sorry for the rudeness. )

First of all. Ahem: I'm just talking about it on my own. Hehe.

First of all, you have to think about why he went drinking for no reason. There must be something annoying about this. He's hitting you, maybe you're drinking, it's a little confusing. I'm sure he will regret it when he comes to his senses...

Well, he went out with his friends. You won't let him out either. Uh, but still determined to get out. Maybe there's something important. Hehe.

I feel like he says he doesn't love you. I don't think so. I'm sure he still loves you. Maybe because he hit you. Makes you sad. Got you hurt. I felt like he was guilty.

Personally, I think. He feels like he doesn't have any face to see you anymore.

That's it. =

Then go straight to him.

No matter what the idea.

You always have to face him to make it clear.

There was no sign that he was going to break up with you before, and suddenly he said that he was going to break up with you, which is obviously fake, but in anger, you all dissipated your anger and solved the matter after talking about it!

Calm down with each other, don't push too much, now start to leave him a few words to redeem every day, don't be too humble, don't be too arrogant, insist on a few weeks and then go to the interview.

It's a very inexplicable breakup, freeze him for a few days first, and then make it clear to your face, there is always a reason, calm down to make it clear.

Seemingly. You weren't hurt.

Angry. and I am anxious about you in the future.

You've been sitting with your boyfriend for years, and he's always after drinking.

It's a little thing that will fight you, and every time you get hurt.

First of all, from the situation you described.

Your boyfriend is irritable, and you won't tolerate it.

Secondly, you must be clear that once domestic violence happens, it will happen forever.

So you have to tell yourself that your choice is your future.

I really can't live without him.

If you love him, you should be with him, and you must endure and accept his character.

It's just a boyfriend now, so you still have a chance to break up, so break up quickly. Your boyfriend quarrels with you as soon as he drinks, which shows that he is very dissatisfied with you, and he may just burst out with the strength of the wine. If you don't break up now, if he hits you as soon as he drinks after getting married in the future, then where are you going to cry.

You can talk to him when he's sober, ask him if he's unhappy with you, or pay attention to the topic of your quarrel the next time he drinks and argues with you, and then talk to him when he's sober. Of course, it is best to communicate well, and it doesn't matter if you don't communicate well.

You can offer to break up while he's sober and tell him you can't stand this and you don't want to be like this all the time. The meaning of the existence of a relationship is to make each other happy, but if he feels unhappy, you are willing to let go.

Be careful to act like you're generous enough to fulfill him, don't act like you're dumping him, although the reality is that you're dumping him, but who knows if your boyfriend will suddenly go crazy and then pester you. This kind of example is not uncommon, because I want to break up, I was beaten by my boyfriend a lot, and the most serious one was lost my life because of it.

So it's certain to break up, but take care to keep yourself safe.

If your boyfriend is unwilling to break up, you can pester him, and if you don't want to die, you are afraid of being shameless. If he goes, you will follow, or you will always check the post, as long as you are together, you will keep staring at him, and you must stand up the hairs of his staring. When you can't stand it anymore, he will break up with you, and you will cry sadly.

You must break up, it is obvious that your relationship is actually almost gone, there is no need to torture each other like this, the road ahead is very long, you will meet someone who loves you.

For such a boyfriend, you can't stand it and break up, breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing for yourself, maybe it's a good thing. Your boyfriend quarrels with you after drinking shows that he has drunk a lot, and from a general point of view, drinking a moderate amount of alcohol will not cause the loss of normal thinking logic, so your boyfriend must be drunk. He likes to quarrel with you when he gets drunk, which shows that your emotional relationship is not as harmonious as imagined, so, combined with the above, it is absolutely wise for you to break up.

Some people may ask you to talk to your boyfriend and ask him to change his ways and drink less alcohol, in my opinion, these chicken soups are poisonous and harmful. Not much else, your boyfriend will quarrel with you after getting drunk, which obviously indicates that the relationship between the two of you is not very good, in this case, the negotiation between you and him will inevitably talk about the situation of his quarrel after getting drunk, you must know that every man does not want to be blamed, so it is very likely that your conversation will be unhappy, it will not have any effect at all, a person who really loves you will quarrel with you after getting drunk? Of course not.

In fact, you choose to break up for your own good, if you can't let go of the present for the sake of past feelings, you may regret it later. Now getting drunk just quarrels with you, if you get married in the future, can you guarantee that your boyfriend won't be domestic violence? If you really fall to this point, I think your life will be ruined for most of it, while it has not yet reached that point, think about whether it is suitable between you in the end, if it is really not good, break up, this is the best protection for yourself.

Carefully consider your current situation and make the best choice for you, and I am sure you will not regret it in the future.

You can't stand it anymore, why should you be together?

Let's break up.

People say that after drinking, they spit out the truth, and after drinking, they can best see the person's nature, usually even if they are calm, after drinking, especially after getting drunk, all their personalities will burst out.

Let me tell you a little story, of course, this is not my personal experience, it is a movie I watched, Huang Bo is the protagonist in it, he can always see himself killing people in his memory, and he personally experiences all the processes of killing people from the first perspective. There is a clip in the middle of a man who comes back and beats his wife and daughter after drinking too much, no matter how his wife and children plead, he is indifferent, that kind of pitiful and pathetic look is still fresh in my memory, the grumpy man is really terrible, stay away from him if you can.

Now he loves to quarrel with you as soon as he drinks, so what will he do in the future, who knows if he will beat you after getting married, after he drinks, under the influence of alcohol, his mind is not clear, whether domestic violence will occur, you don't know all this. Now that you know that he has this bad problem, and he has not changed it repeatedly, please give up, he is not the one who stepped on the colorful auspicious clouds to take you home.

Since you can't stand it anymore, no matter how much you love him in your heart, you have to think about your future, after all, you are the one who wants to live with you for the rest of your life. You must choose the one that is most suitable for you, the best for you, not the kind that quarrels with you with alcohol, after all, love is love, and marriage is really to be extra cautious.

So, since you can't stand it anymore, break up, there will be more suitable people waiting for you ahead.