Why did my sister say in front of me that my boyfriend wasn t the type she liked?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's likely that she has a crush on your boyfriend, but she doesn't want to cause you to be defensive and more distracted, and she's afraid of hurting your sisterhood, so she says so. Keep an eye on your own backyard and make the corners of the wall firm. At the same time, strengthen the relationship with your sister, just don't be pretentious.

    You have to be careful, otherwise it will be too much for your boyfriend and girlfriend to run together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think he has two possible psychology, and I don't know if what I said is right. 1. He wants to tell you that the type of boyfriend he wants to find is not the same as you, that is, the type he likes is different 2. That is, he likes your boyfriend, but he is afraid that you will know, so it means, don't worry, he will not have any intentions for your boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are many possibilities: 1. She doesn't like your boyfriend, 2. She and your boyfriend are very close, I hope you don't get me wrong, 3. She likes your boyfriend, 4.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is the relationship between sisters iron? If yes, that's implying to you that your boyfriend isn't how. If the relationship is average, then it may be, not being able to eat grapes and saying that grapes are sour.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend doesn't need to be the type that others like, he's yours, you just like it, women are prone to duplicity, be careful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She may care about your emotional path, which is why she will evaluate your boyfriend! This is "proof that she sees you as a relative!"

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it's your boyfriend flying, why do you have to listen to your sister's point of view and just like it, listen to him for a while, listen to him for a while, and listen to him for a while, won't it be very tiring? Just do what you like and don't care what others say.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's just a refusal, don't think about it anymore, she's not suitable for you, the type is inconsistent, the hobbies are different, life is very troublesome together, inconsistent ideas bring disaster to the future life, it's best to have a friend who is roughly the same as your life, good luck!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be a refusal, you're not the type she likes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Or a scheming, or a real rejection of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. When a girl says "you are not the type I like" may just want to be friends with you, then you have to control your sense of need, start with a girl as a friend, master her preferences and habits in the process of getting along, and then compare yourself with the girl's ideal type, analyze the gaps, and make changes.

    2. When a girl says "you are not the type I like", the reason is: there is no topic to chat with you, so learn to create a topic, drive the girl's emotions, let the girl have emotional fluctuations, find the hidden needs of the girl, and chat in a targeted manner.

    3. When a girl says "you are not the type I like" because of too much exposure of the sense of need, then the frequency of the chat should not be too frequent, intermittent chat, and do not deliberately express your liking for the girl, but always show her your advantages, starting with establishing attraction.

    For example, if she likes food photography, you often show her the food ** and beautiful scenery you photographed, so that the chat has an opportunity to generate topics, but you can't go deep and show your feelings, that is, the chat of ordinary friends, let the girl be interested in you first.

    4. When a girl says "you are not the type I like", she may feel that you are not attractive, so keep comparing the image she likes, and create it with the type that the girl likes, but you must not lose yourself by imitating it, you must have your own style.

    Girls like attractive men, of course, charm is not only about looks, mature thoughts, elegant conversation, good personal behavior, good taste in clothing, etc. are all symbols of charm.

    5. When a girl says "you are not the type I like", it may be that you are not sincere enough, girls like boys who can chat and hurt people, but this kind of thoughtfulness can only be for one person, if more than one girl is good, then the girl will be very insecure, so in the process of getting along with girls, you must let girls feel your sincerity, so that girls feel that they are the only ones in your heart, so that you can effectively close your relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you should respect the decision of other girls and choose to give up, love is to love each other to be happy, and the feeling of reluctance will not be long-term.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you should ask her what type she likes, because sometimes girls are just embarrassed to reject you, so find reasons to perfunctory you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then let it go. Whether she really thinks that or says it in order to reject you, she has made it clear that she doesn't want to be with you, so you don't pursue her anymore and let it go as soon as possible to make it easier for both of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then you don't want to continue liking her. Because it's just an excuse for her to reject you, you're not the person she wants, so certainly not the type she likes.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    So you ask her what type she likes, and is there any way you can do it yourself? In fact, you are you, and you don't have to be what kind of person she likes because of what kind of person she likes.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then let it go. Girls generally refuse to say this, she is afraid that it will hurt you too directly. All you have to do is let go of her and find your happiness again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can learn about the type she likes and then become the type she likes. If you can't change it, then choose to give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think you'd better let her go. Because the twisted melon is not sweet, the relationship is not something that can be had by twisting it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you really aren't the type she likes, you should find a girl who is more suitable for you and likes your type.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe she really doesn't like you.,I'm a woman.,I don't think a man is the type I like I may not give much chance.。。。

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She said that you are not the type she likes, which means that she doesn't like you, she doesn't call you, and she can't say what type of person you are, anyway, she just doesn't like you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's a pleasure to associate with people you care about, after all, there aren't many people who can come into your life and heart. I like it for a while, and I don't like it for a while, because this relationship is not very stable, which makes people feel like they are suffering from gains and losses. If you are sure that this is the most cherished relationship in your life, then try to give the other person a sense of security so that it doesn't stop at the stage of liking it or not.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    For feelings that have no future, it is most beautiful to stop at the most beautiful time, but few people know this secret, and the result only destroys that most beautiful memory.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Refuse, tactfully tell you that she doesn't like you, just an excuse.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    To put it bluntly, I don't really want to pay attention to you, right?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    lz good.

    Not what she liked.

    It's useless to force it.

    It is not necessary to change oneself for oneself.

    She won't necessarily accept you either.

    There will be better ones. Someone who is more suitable for you is waiting for you.

    Don't stop.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It should mean that she wants to break up, even if there is no hope of being with her anymore, you can try to be friends with her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Rest assured, you're completely hopeless! They politely refused at that time! I don't understand!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He rejected you, and your hope of being with her is almost zero percent, so you might as well give up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Brother, have faith, and I don't want to refuse like that.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    She rejected you. There is little hope.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm in a similar situation to you, we met on a blind date, I met her family very early, I had a good impression of me, I liked me very much, I didn't like her at first, but I slowly liked it, she also agreed to be my girlfriend, and after 5 months of getting along, she suddenly told me that she didn't like me, I wasn't the type she liked, and I accepted it after thinking about it for a long time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Thank you very much for your infatuation.

    Love needs such an infatuated person, but unfortunately it is impossible to recover when love is gone, what you have to do is very simple, is to let go.

    Through your simple statement, I think you should be a more persistent person, so you are more straightforward and persistent in dealing with feelings, and the last words your girlfriend gave you were.

    The more you do this, the more I annoy you."

    This insight shows that you are very possessive. You're restricting too much, right, you're involved in every aspect of his life.

    I think you should leave for now, because you may have no room for redemption.

    You don't leave the command to complicate this matter and anything will have a buffer time. Give you and her a little time.

    Hope it helps.

    The more you think about it, the more irreparable it becomes, and you yourself think you're pestering her.

    What you have to do is to calm down, this love is not worth it, you will not cause her to change her mind if you practice yourself like this, love someone must first love yourself, this is common sense of love.

    The more you change for her, the less you get.

    To be the same person again, there may be a glimmer of hope.

    And don't hit her anymore, it will make her deepen your image of her entanglement.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    5 months is nothing, we have been together for three years, and it is not such a sentence, left.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This reason is very old-fashioned, it can only be said that she doesn't like you and just wants to share it with you, so you better share it quickly.

    It's not good for you to drag it out for a long time, and the more she hates you. Trust me, I'm a girl and I know what she thinks.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You are his first love, and the girls in his first love are like this, you need to persevere.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's strange to like someone, since he said so, let it go, the melon that is pinched is not sweet.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It seems that your girlfriend is a person who values feelings, and if you can't be happy with each other, then you have to give up.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    A girl's heart is hard to understand, sad! Sympathy...

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There is a kind of love called letting go.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't change yourself for the sake of others, if she really likes you, she won't think you have shortcomings, and she won't want to change you It can be seen that you should change your girlfriend.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's not the type she likes, it's that you can be friends, you won't be lovers. And you said that the two of you are far away from home, and if she is with you, she will be under a lot of pressure, mainly at home. And with you, she doesn't know what you'll do to her in the future, and she doesn't dare to gamble.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Hehe, it's okay to tell her sincerely that you like her, and if she likes you too, she will naturally find a way to let you know. If she doesn't say anything, then let it be. It's yours that someone else can't snatch away, and it's not fun to grab it if it's not yours.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's clear you're being rejected! Falling in love is what you and I want, you belong to unrequited love, put your mind right, back.

    Since she is so adamant that you are not the type he likes, the meaning is already obvious, and it can't be more obvious, that is, she rejects you. This is a euphemism, and there are many similar expressions, such as "Let's be friends", "I have always treated you as a brother", "Now is not the time", "You are good, but not for me", "I haven't considered it", this is called refusal.

    Let's give up.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Back then, chasing girls now means that they don't like me, and they love me very much later. As long as you like to chase it, don't care too much.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe she's a career girl, or maybe she's looking for a better man.

    There should have been all kinds of people in your high school, and none of them were in love.

    So either you get better or you give up.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You think she doesn't like you to pull.,Why are you still unrequited in love with a flower?。。。 It's better to be a friend, and you wish her to find her own happiness. Maybe there are other girls who are more suitable for you

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Influence him with your sincerity.

    Make him believe that you are his Prince Charming.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Everyone has their own love, just like some people love to eat seafood, some people eat seafood allergies, there are too few girls who know what they love and don't want to do, it's worth continuing to work hard...

    If she says that, it means that she is a good girl, and she will not change once she decides.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It's an excuse, that is, she doesn't want to associate with you, that's what she usually says. If you want to chase her, you'll have to pay some!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's useless to barely like it, it's not like it, it's useless, even if you change to the type she likes, are you still the same you?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    There are some things that we may not be destined to get. Don't be discouraged.

    I've been in this situation as well.

    Life has to go on after all, doesn't it?

    So adjust your form and go looking for the next girl who catches your heart.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    This may be a hint, but if you change it slightly, it's okay.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Although what the upstairs man said is also true, do you understand? Every girl has a type of boy in their mind that they think is suitable for her, and if she doesn't think she fits you, it's okay to say that!

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Because she doesn't fully understand you, and when she really understands you, she will come to pester you again, you have to believe that you are excellent, she looks down on you and her regret, you have to treat it with a heart that doesn't care, she will find you.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    There should be many possibilities for her to say this, it may be that she doesn't like you at all and you give up if you want to, and there is just to try you, if you still like her, don't give up

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Friend, give up. Because you can only have two possible outcomes, but the outcome is the same. Outcome 1:

    No matter how hard you try to chase, she still doesn't accept you: Result 2: You stalk and try your best to chase her, she accepts, maybe out of emotion or something else, but the end is that you and her will still be separated, because she has already explained that she doesn't like you, so even if she drags, she won't pay anything to you, maybe she is very harsh on you, can't tolerate a little something, one day she meets the type of person she likes, and the other party also likes her, you are ninety percent likely to be dumped, and in the end you will be injured.

    Really, this is the case for both men and women, even if they reluctantly accept a person they don't like, the former will definitely be dumped after meeting other people who like each other. All in all, love must be like each other, otherwise it will be difficult to have results, and it will be difficult to be happy even if you are married.

    I have such a girl around me, and her boyfriend treats her very well, but she says "I don't like him", so they break up.

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