A monthly salary of 30,000 yuan is not much, how much can you earn if you work for someone, will you

It depends on whether you really love each other Can she and he follow you to live a hard life Are you willing to suffer together and start anew If you are willing, I will give up If it is just to test you Which one will you choose between money and love I think Don't give up Love and money There is no choice Just like your parents and love can't choose If she is a person who compares with others to eat, wear, and live, she must have money If she is a person who is willing to follow you through thick and thin, it is love.

Definitely won't give up.,Why don't you take him (her) over.,3w a month is enough for you to spend.。。。 If you don't spend it ...

30,000, why not much, too rich! But money and love choose, I will choose love. There is no money to earn, and if the relationship is gone, I am afraid that it will be impossible to recover it for a lifetime.

Of course, it's too much, why can't you do this thing if you have a lover?

Thirty thousand??? It's too much, for me personally, but if you add the bargaining chip of giving up your lover, I think, stupid people will choose, and then your days will be spent in guilt.

Of course I chose 30,000 yuan, because money is king, and I thought in my heart, Don't hit me.

What do you do. It's a girl.

Still boys.

A monthly salary of 30,000? What do you do? In China?

Don't know what industry you do?

It may be difficult to evaluate the receipt of 50,000 yuan, and you can go to explain the situation, because of disability and poverty.

If you are not satisfied with the arbitration result of the labor inspection organ, you can file a lawsuit in the people's court.

If it is confirmed that the boss has suffered financial losses, it is recommended that you forget about it. Otherwise, suing your boss will also require you to compensate him for financial losses.

Your lover has a labor relationship with the property, you can negotiate with the property, if not, you can find the labor bureau! It has nothing to do with the owners of the community!

Find the property authority, the property workers are still registered.

The debt of 200,000 is really not much in the current society, there are good people who are more in debt than you, and there are those who are in debt of millions. If you can afford to owe so much debt, you should be able to make money back and pay off the debt. I used to be as anxious as you are, and I couldn't sleep all night, thinking that if one day I couldn't make it out, who would take care of my elderly and sick mother?

Who will raise the daughter who has just started kindergarten? Can my wife resist alone? Will you share my suffering?

But I didn't feel depressed, I didn't have suicidal thoughts, and I often healed myself. Fellow relatives need us to live well, and we must hold on for their sake, and they are our unshirkable responsibilities and obligations. Besides, if we are born as human beings, we must be responsible, we are only in debt now, and we will not die.

If you can't afford to pay your debts now, let's put it back for now. First solve the most basic survival, take care of the family, and then think about slowly repaying the debt. It is natural to repay debts and money, and the debts owed to anyone are repaid, and relatives and friends must be repaid, because that is also their hard-earned money.

In short, we should first solve the problem of survival, and then seek development.

When I was in debt of more than 1 million, I also thought about suicide But what should my family do This kind of non-payment of responsibility I am relieved by death It will only bring more pain to my relatives and friends I have the courage to want to die But I don't have the courage to live People don't die and debts don't rot Not to mention only 200,000 If it's all online loans or something Then I don't mind if you tear down the east and make up for the west The more you demolish it, the bigger it will be I suggest finding a stable job first Let yourself be enriched first Don't let yourself think about it More and more with friends around you But don't ask them to borrow money When you are depressed, you can ask your friends to enlighten you If one year is not enough, two years will be two years, and if two years are not enough, it will be three years There will always be a time to see the sunshine Believe in my friend.

Don't think like that, no matter how difficult it is, life still comes first, you have to think about your family and parents. I owe more than you, my husband and I owe almost more than one million, and we will soon face overdue, the epidemic, the store has no income, hard losses, and the road to entrepreneurship is too difficult. In order to repay the debt, I left my parents, husband and two-year-old son, and went to Shenzhen to work alone, there is no way, there is no way, there are old and young, I must be strong, no matter how painful and tormented, I must grit my teeth and get through.

Every day at this point, looking at my son's **, crying under the covers, I can't make a sound, for fear that the people in the dormitory will hear. The next day, I didn't go to work with a smile and developed a side hustle. Come on, stranger.

To be honest, 200,000 is really not much compared to most debtors, and it is almost over after 3 years of hard work. I also failed to start a business, with a debt of 500,000 yuan, and now I am working, with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan, and a mortgage to be repaid every month, I can only be strong, and I plan to pay it off in five years. So you must persevere, life has to go on, life has to go on, it's no big deal, it's good to have experienced it, you can understand a lot of truth in an instant, see a lot of things clearly, come on, encourage together!

If you think of it as a disaster, then it is a disaster, and if you take it as a stepping stone to growth, then it is your mentor to start a wise life. People have to learn to think multi-dimensionally, as long as you still have some guilt about yourself and your family, you should stand up, only yourself can defeat yourself in this world, and only yourself can defeat yourself. All hardships are precious treasures, and when you overcome them again and again, you will become unfazed and finally achieve great things!

Of course, everyone understands this great cause differently.

As long as you have firm beliefs, you can persevere, life is full of ups and downs, depression is terrible, but I hope you can be positive and adjust your mentality. Doing business can be a comeback.

You should regain your confidence in life and work hard to improve yourself to become better, so that you can find a better job and pay back your money as soon as possible.

Don't be crushed by this small 200,000, you should face it with more positive energy.

I'm not afraid of death, I'm afraid of being alive. If you find a job, you can earn 50,000 yuan a year, and if you are willing to endure hardship, you can get 100,000 yuan a year. If you have a debt of 200,000 yuan, you pretend to be depressed and want to die. Is your life not even worth 200,000, or that your family's affection for you is only worth 200,000?

Two hundred thousand is enough for you to commit suicide? It's too unbearable, right? I was twenty-eight years old, had failed to start a business, had nothing, and was in debt of 600,000 yuan.

Now that your wives are separated, all your relatives are betrayed, and you are still trying to live, what really crushes people is not how high your debts are, but that your own heart is not strong enough. What are you afraid of, who knows what tomorrow will look like? What we need to do is to work hard to solve the current dilemma!

Don't scare yourself.

It's not terrible to be in debt of 200,000, put your mentality right, work hard, save appropriately, and everything will pass.

I also owe 200,000 yuan, mix well for two years to pay back, I also failed to start a business, the child has been sick for a long time, spent all my savings, I am now starting again from scratch on the construction site to learn carpentry, 300 yuan a day, next year to go to a friend to his construction site at least 400 to 500 yuan a day, pay off the debt and start again!

What about debt, just make money on the ground, I now go out every morning to sell paper towels, each price is 4-5 yuan, sell 15 taels, there are a lot of people who buy, easy to sell hundreds in the morning, earn hundreds is not a problem, brothers, don't feel that the future is bleak, there is no hope in life. You can make money doing anything, don't underestimate the stalls. [Hey-ha].

Find your own value, put down your face, do what you can do, the road is out of your own, 200,000 is not a thing, the important thing is to find your self-confidence first! Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds, old and strong, rather move the heart of the white head, the bottom of the ordinary people, as long as you climb up, there will be a day to emerge!

The most tiring thing is not the huge debt, but the family and lover. I also thought about death, I was also vulnerable, and the person I once loved was suddenly heard from me. However, death is a coward, and I have to face it bravely.

I believe that I will be able to come up, don't gamble, do things steadfastly, I have the courage to die, why don't I have the courage to live.

The mood is understandable, but don't commit suicide, your life is full of ups and downs, find a job well, make money and pay off debts in a down-to-earth manner, you are still young, and youth is capital.

As a stranger, I can only encourage you, in fact, 200,000 debts are not much, I was also the hero of the story, although once decadent, but still survived, life is especially precious, think about your parents, as an adult, live well is responsible for yourself and your family, everyone comes to this world to go through some hardships, and only in this way can it be called a perfect life, today's debt is your story tomorrow, if you can't repay it now, then put down everything in your hands and go out for a walk, Look at the old people begging on the street and the disabled who have lost their ability to work, see how strong their desire to survive is, there is only one life, no one will pay for your vulnerability, after planning, overcome yourself first, and then learn to survive, come on!

As a boy, my attitude is very resolute, I think resolutely should not ask for a bride price, there is a song that sings, love is not what you want to buy and you can buy, hehe, the main thing is that I can't afford it.

In fact, from the perspective of the mother-in-law, the bride price must be justified, after all, it is hard to pull such a pearl in the palm of the hand, and the manpower and material resources consumed, a flower has been cultivated, and the result is taken away by a person called the son-in-law, which is indeed a bit unfair to the woman, but then again, this is not a question of fairness or unfairness, there is love between lovers, this is the original intention of marriage is also the foundation, and you can't beat the mandarin duck because the bride price is not enough.

In contrast, I was lucky, I got married with 20,000 yuan in my hand, and my father-in-law also added a lot of money to me, my father-in-law said to me, as long as your young couple live a good life in the future, I hope that you are happy, not sell your daughter in exchange for a bride price, such an old father-in-law, can not get the respect of the son-in-law, this I know.

You see that my father-in-law is very sensible, and if I am not good to his daughter in the future, I feel sorry for my father-in-law.

Let's take a look at the man's side from a different angle, he just graduated from college and joined the workforce, and got married at the age of twenty-four or five, where did he get his savings? If the father is a salaryman, where can the family get these hundreds of thousands of bride prices if they don't have any foundation?

Even if it is to smash the pot and sell iron to borrow foreign debts, who will pay the burden in the future, isn't it still uncomfortable for the little couple, and they can't be left alone after squeezing the old man's bones.

So I think that love is originally a pure, clean and sacred thing, don't take a utilitarian and secular vision to mix something full of copper smell, I still say that money can be earned again, but people miss it, it's a lifetime thing.

I think that the bride price should be given when getting married, because for women, the bride price is also a kind of security, but also an attitude!

1. The bride price has existed since ancient times.

In ancient times, there was a saying of bride price, and in ancient times both men and women were the main laborers of the family. Parents have raised their daughters for more than 20 years, and after getting married, they can't always be filial, and it is natural to give some bride price.

2. The bride price represents an attitude and a woman's retreat.

In many places, there is a custom of bride price and dowry, that is, the man gives the woman a bride price, and the woman's parents will do the dowry for the man. Most women ask for a bride price not for greed for money, but as a companion to the woman, so that their daughter will not be wronged after remarriage.

Marriage is not a family, in addition to firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are also medical education, human sophistication, there are places where you need to spend money, how can you live without a little financial preparation. Sometimes parents ask for a bride price not for themselves, but for their daughters, so that you can live a better life after marriage, even if the marriage is unhappy, you can have a way out. And sometimes the in-laws are not unable to pay the bride price, but they are unwilling to spend money for you.

3. Marriage without bride price is easy for men not to cherish.

When the cost of marriage is too low, the man will not feel distressed. Marriage is complicated, and it does not mean that a marriage without money is happy. If you don't ask him for a bride price, he may kiss you for money and end up despising you and not treating you as a human being.

Many things have been proven afterwards: what is too easy to get, people don't know how to cherish.

4. It is not important how much the bride price is, but the attitude and intention of the other party are the most important.

When a woman asks for a bride price, it doesn't mean how much it must be. Too much bride price is not a guarantee, but a deliberate embarrassment! If you want to be happy in marriage, of course, a woman doesn't want to deliberately embarrass you, and asking you for those bride prices is the confidence and attitude she wants you to spend her life with.

Yes. 1. Traditional forms must be respected.

One of the ancient Chinese marriage customs, there is the custom of giving each other a bride price and a bride price when the marriage agreement is initially reached, which is commonly known as "bride price". The bride price is a kind of objectification of women, and in the old days, people were valued as commodities**. In today's society, bride price has become a way to express the sincerity of marriage.

In respecting marriage, respecting the woman, and using the bride price to marry the woman. A traditional form that I think is worth keeping. This is a form of marriage that is in line with the Ming media.

Make marriage more ceremonial.

2. Bear maternity and housework compensation.

The voluntary union of two people to form a family is completely equal and mutually beneficial. But after the woman married into the man's family, she lived with the man's family. It is necessary to honor the man's elders, do their laundry, cook, take care of the housework, and have children, this kind of marriage is indeed unequal for women, so it is not too much for the man to pay the bride price.

After all, the woman has to bear the responsibility of childbirth and family responsibility, and the cost will be greater. The bride price is a kind of comfort, a kind of care, and a manifestation of yearning for life.

3. Modern love, the woman is upside down.

The bride price itself increases the woman's dependence on the man, and in the era of the rise of women, women can support themselves, and they do not need or even resent this dependency, and the bride price becomes a constraint on the woman. For young urban women with superior material conditions, they are still more willing to marry love, minimize the cost of the man's bride price, and reduce this dependence on the man.

Most women are willing to empathize with the difficulties of the man's family, believing that marriage is a matter of two people, and marrying herself is to create a happy life. Since the man has expressed his willingness to pay in one form, there is no need to hold on to the question of the bride price. There are even some successful women who voluntarily put a large amount of money backwards to start a family, pursue equality between men and women, and create a better life together.