What has been the thing that has hurt you the most by your closest friends?

Probably just graduated, no job, don't want to ask the family for money, the most difficult time, when she was dead, she went to her, she kept blaming me for not bringing gifts, saying that I don't know how to be a person, and asked me to take the initiative to charge the phone fee or something, I endured it for a long time, didn't speak, I remember that the first thing I did when I came home was to cry, and the friendship of ten years could not withstand the reality, and it hurt to the bottom all of a sudden. It's good to find a job quickly and live your own life quietly.

I think the most hurt by one of my best friends is that she fell in love with the boy I liked. I knew I liked him too, but she attacked me violently in front of me, and she shared the bits and pieces between them with me, and I felt very unbearable.

I treat her as a bosom friend, and I am willing to tell her and share anything with her. I went all the way to see her, and she also came to our school, but she didn't look for me, but only her good friend. I still watched her talk about it, ** on the last to know that she had been here.

How good is the best friend at school? When she's in a bad mood, she'll cry and call me **. When we're bored, we'll make an appointment to eat together.

Later, she fell in love with cosplay and pulled me to start a club with her. We worked hard to prepare for three months, and I worked tirelessly to plan the club, talk to the teacher and finally register the club with the Youth League Committee of the college. It's all worth it because I think she's my best friend.

Soon after, I found out that I had been blocked by her. She kicked me out of the club group as well. I called her and asked her why, and she said that I had never been her friend.

My brothers, I was very kind to them, but later I found out that they had repeatedly asked my girlfriend out in the middle of the night behind my back, and they didn't come home at night. Go to nightclubs and drink.

In my junior year, I liked a girl, and the girl told me that if I tried harder, she would fall in love with me, but then she walked with my good brother because my good brother told her that I was just teasing her.

She is the only one for me, but I have become one of her, especially when she gets married, and the bridesmaid she said is not me in the end.

I know my scar, and I touch it. Knowing my weakness, he still uses it as armor to please others.

When something happens, they come to me, but when I have something, they ignore it.

If you are confused about this emotion, you might as well sit down alone and think about it. In order to be able to jump out of the inherent perspective a little, you can try to list a**: When you were with him and entered the marriage hand in hand, what are his advantages that make you feel that this is worth it?

Now he is more suspicious of you, even harsh, what is the reason?; What would you do if he was just having a bad mood and the emotions migrated to you? If he really doesn't love you anymore, what should you do?

After thinking about it like this, if you still don't have an answer, he still hurts you again and again. Then you should have a good talk with him, and if he doesn't have the patience to talk to you, don't worry, try to create opportunities for you to talk.

He will be like this, it must be caused by a combination of internal and external factors.

You have to have a positive attitude, not to say you shouldn't think the worst, but you should try to make things go the way you want them to.

You can wait for 10 years, in addition to the shackles of external factors, your love for him is the key.

Since you love him so much, and since you can wait for him to get better for ten years, you might as well spend more time looking for his strengths and opportunities for him to correct his shortcomings. Wouldn't that be better?

After all, divorce is really the most helpless choice.

But if you spend another year or two, you still can't save the situation.

Then, the best option for you is really "divorce".

Because you are close to each other, it is easy to have conflicts, so you are easily hurt, and sometimes you don't feel as good as ordinary friends to you.

Because they are the closest, they will always love us and will never abandon us. Because it's the closest, it can be because it's probably because you're in a bad mood! Because people always want to hurt others for no reason!

Communicate more, enhance understanding and trust. Share your feelings. Create a common hobby. The greater the intersection of two people, the greater the meaning of living together. If we can't do it with each other, we will seriously consider dealing with it peacefully.

I had a girlfriend who met in the same company a few years ago, she was a finance manager and I was a sales director. Both of us have a very upright temper, and belong to the kind of people who say whatever they have, so they can talk better, and then they get acquainted and become good friends. And because we were both tired of the boss of the company we worked for at the time, who oppressed his subordinates and liked the style of arrears of wages, we agreed to resign together when we couldn't bear it.

In fact, I usually don't like to wear gold and silver, and I basically don't have any jewelry on my body except earrings. And I heard others say that the jadeite business is relatively deep, and outsiders may not be able to distinguish between good and bad, unlike ** and diamonds, which have hard reference standards and are easier to identify, so I politely rejected her, saying: At present, the hand is relatively tight, and I will talk about it after a while!

When she saw me replying like this, she should have been a little unhappy, and said: With your current income, it shouldn't be difficult to buy a bracelet like this, right?!

I can only say: yes, although my income is high at present, I have to maintain a car and a house, and the cost is also large!

She only said one sentence at the time: and said that she regarded me as a good friend! Good friends do business, you don't even cheer?!

I told her: When I or my friend needs to buy jadeite in the future, I will definitely look for you.

Then she didn't say anything.

I was speechless at the moment, it turns out that our friendship for many years is not even as good as a jade bracelet? And I think of her first when I have a business that suits her. Her behavior really hurt me deeply.

Since then, I've divided my friends and business into two things. A friend is a friend, business is a business, and it will never be mixed together again, so as not to affect everyone's feelings.

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Of course, this was there, although it was still very small at that time, but these injuries caused some bad effects, which led to some concerns when making friends in the future.

Although it's not a big deal, it has seriously affected my attitude towards my friends, and I am often afraid of betrayal and hurt by my friends, so I don't have too many friends around me now, and there are a few who are particularly confidant. It also made me recognize which ones are people and which ones are dogs.

Yes, I have a good friend who used to play together, and we used to go home together every time we came home from school. When I was in high school, I met a boy and I thought he was very nice and liked him, so I told her, but in the end the two of them got right, and I was very sad at the time.

I thought I was her best friend, but she stole the money I put on the table and didn't admit it, so I didn't want to talk to her anymore.

Yes, after I found out that she did it, I felt unbelievable, and then I was very sad.

Yes, they were the ones who made me understand that there must be hateful things about poor people.

Friends are people everyone needs, and having a mentor is also a great asset in our lives, but not every friendship can last forever, and friends can also hurt each other. <>

When I was in high school, I also had a group of friends who played well, both boys and girls, and we all played very well. But something happened later that made my relationship with one of the boys very bad. Originally, everyone was friends and had a good time, but then there was a boy who fell in love with a girl.

I had a good relationship with the girl, and then the guy started asking me to help her pay attention to the girl's actions and help him send gifts to the girl.

In fact, if the two of them could talk, it would be nothing if they could be together, but the problem was that the girl had already rejected him after the boy confessed, so he was reluctant to accept his gift, but the boy still kept asking me to help him give gifts, which made me very embarrassed. Because I have a good relationship with both of them, I was also very embarrassed, and I talked to the girl later. I asked her, is it really possible that she has nothing to do with that boy?

She told me in no uncertain terms that she couldn't be with him because she didn't like him at all. After hearing this, I told the boy, I said that since the person has refused, you should not bother the family together, you let me give gifts and make me embarrassed, but this boy still asked me to help him send gifts, I refused him many times, and he slowly stopped this behavior.

But then one time after the final exam, when we were all going home, he called me again and asked me to help him watch when the girl went out and when she went downstairs. Because the girl's dorm was right next door to me, I could see when she was going out and when she was going down, but it made me feel sad that this guy was doing that. Because I had already told him clearly before, don't ask me to help, so I was embarrassed, after all, people rejected him, but he still asked me to help him see that girl as if she was using me to spy on her.

I don't think this guy thought about my feelings at all, didn't think about how embarrassed I would be, as if the reason why he was friends with me was to make me a tool for him to confess to this girl, which really made me sad.

This is going to talk about the past with my undergraduate boardmate, that incident really makes me unforgettable.

When we were undergraduates, the dormitory management was very strict, and no electrical appliances were allowed, but at that time, our hot water room was outside, far away from our dormitory, and there was a limit on the time to fetch water every day. So we bought the hot ones in the dormitory and came back to boil water quickly. At that time, everyone said that it was found out, and it was a dormitory affair that happened, not a personal responsibility.

However, the more the person worries about what happens, the more he will post something. That day, the dormitory was boiling water hot, and the dormitory mates were watching the drama together. So much so that no one knew that the dormitory manager aunt came to check the room, I was leaning against the door, and when the aunt knocked on the door, I asked, but they watched the drama very loudly, I thought it was the dormitory next door to respond to me.

So I opened the door, and it was too late for anything, and I was caught by my aunt. The aunt asked whose it was and who would take the responsibility. The dormitory was quiet and no one spoke.

I was the only one pleading with my aunt, but the iron-faced and selfless aunt didn't let us go at all. When she left, she left a sentence, no one came out, and the whole dormitory should be informed.

The dormitory was quiet that night, and no one said anything, only to hold me accountable, why didn't you open the door without asking anyone? I realized that it was my responsibility in the eyes of everyone. The next day, they didn't speak, only one girl said something that she couldn't be punished, and then she threw up.

I couldn't stand the weird atmosphere of the dormitory at the time. Later, I went to my aunt and took the initiative to take responsibility, because of one thing, my scholarship was also canceled that year. Several people in our dorm got it, and they didn't show any displeasure to me.

I really felt like I had been hurt the most.

Since that incident, I don't believe much in the friendship between the dorms in the university, they all live for themselves, and the promises I made at the beginning are not counted at all.

When the best brothers of the year got married, the brothers in the dormitory contacted in advance, and then they went together a day in advance. He usually works in the field, it is rare to come back once, everyone was very happy that day, after meeting and preparing to leave, he found that something was wrong, this group of people he seemed to notify a person, and there was no explanation for him to notify everyone. At this time, the air was slightly embarrassed, and I asked the buddy who received the notice to call ** to ask clearly, ** and said that no one else would be notified anymore....The brother who slept on my top bunk, the best brother ever, no matter what, I'd better be happy for you.

Treat my boyfriend as if she were her boyfriend. The girl who used to play well is single, petite, and soft-spoken. I fell in love, and as a good friend, I introduced my boyfriend to her.

At lunchtime, I was afraid that she would be lonely, so we used to eat together. When eating, she wants to drink water, she wants to eat this and where she wants, and her boyfriend goes to buy it. At first, I thought it was okay.

It's all small things, and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. Then, I was still too young. Later, when my boyfriend came to me, she asked him to take the courier with him, bring food with him, and take things with him.

One time it was raining, and she asked him to bring us umbrellas. I was with her at the time, and I didn't even want to trouble the subject, and it wasn't raining heavily, but she sent a message to the subject behind my back, saying that it was raining and asked him to bring an umbrella to pick us up. Without saying a word, the subject came with an umbrella.

I was confused, but she said, your boyfriend is so nice and always available.