Friends, have you ever been in a long distance relationship?

I had a long-distance relationship for a year, but in the end, I didn't get through the longing, and I went back to my hometown with her. Then, and then we got married, and we were never apart again.

The long-distance relationship was dumped within half a year!! But thanks to him for dumping him, I can see his true colors clearly!! Now I am free and chic, and I am not lacking in love, in short, I am much better than then!! And I know that when he leaves me, he's nothing!!

I'm in a long-distance relationship, and it's over in about two years. In fact, I am very reluctant, I cry every time I separate, I miss it every day, and I dream of it every time I dream. I think of him every moment and believe that we will end up with a good result.

I used to think that the world was eternal, but now I don't know...

After five years in a different place, not long after I came to his city, we broke up. Although we were not together in the end, the common perseverance and hard work in the middle and the happiness of love are precious memories, experiences, growth, and learning.

I talked about a long-distance relationship for a year, when I was a junior in high school, he was a freshman, and then because I was very heavy in my studies, he slowly didn't talk to me, and then I knew that he was having an affair with a girl, and then I forgave him, and the situation was not very serious, and then I was admitted to a school in the same city as him, and ended a long-distance relationship for a year, and now we are still together.

I've talked about it, long-distance relationships are really hard to talk about, it's a lifetime to stick to it, and if you can't hold on, it's over, so I didn't stick to it.

Most of the time there are no good results, in different cities, even the weather is different, how can there be a topic to talk about.

There were three pairs of long-distance relationships around me before, and then they all broke up, and I once posted a love story about them in QQ space, thinking that they would last forever, but I didn't expect to break up in the end. Very emotional.

After a year together, I had a long-distance military relationship, and it was very bitter at that time, and the recruits didn't even dare to turn off their mobile phones, because they didn't know when he would call** over, and there was no ** hug, but I still survived those days. Later he came back, and his feelings deepened.

When he was in love for four years, he faced the dilemma of being in a different place for three years, he said, I don't believe in long-distance love, let's get married. So they got married. Texting every day, seeing each other in one to two months, and spending more time together during holidays.

It also turned out that the choice of marriage was very right, and we both felt very relieved.

It's a positive result. High school homeroom teacher. I heard rumors that she and her boyfriend had been together since junior high school. Later, when she was in college, he waited for her in their high school, and it was a good feeling.

Yes. Maintain a daily exchange with content. It doesn't matter if you're on WeChat, you have to communicate every day, not a hello of morning and good night, but a good chat about what's going on today, how you feel, and what your mood is.

Tell each other more about your happiness and sadness, and don't be afraid of trouble and interruptions.

It's okay to quarrel, don't have a cold war. It is inevitable to fall in love and quarrel, but long-distance relationships can't be cold wars, there are not many opportunities for communication, once the cold war starts, if you don't contact for too long, the relationship will be the same as a direct breakup, and a fake breakup will become a real breakup. Use a sense of ritual to advertise that you are not single.

Use couple avatars, background pictures of the circle of friends, wear couple jewelry, etc., and promote their non-single status in all aspects.

Long-distance relationships have a weak sense of existence for lovers, so on the one hand, they feel the state of love through a sense of ritual, and on the other hand, it is also to give their partners a sense of security.

See you every once in a while. The meeting can be agreed upon or a surprise without a greeting, but it must be included in the schedule. After that, I collected the train and plane tickets for the departure, and reminded myself that I could still meet even though I was separated by two places.

Speak the question. When encountering contradictions, let the problem be exposed as soon as possible, speak out, and don't sulk. In a long-distance relationship, a person sulks in life, and most of the other party doesn't know, and cranky thinking will only make him get into the horns, and then want to make the problem disappear by ending the relationship.

In fact, many times, as long as you talk about the problem, you have already taken a big step towards solving it. Progress together. There must be a reason for you to be separated from each other, maybe in order to pursue your dreams, you have to endure such a time of separation and hard work.

Don't forget that the separation now is for the sake of getting together better in the future, and becoming better independently of each other, just to come together and have a better future.

Do the same thing and let the feelings be in sync. Being away from each other is just separating the two places, but you can still do the same thing and share your feelings with each other. Watching the same movie, listening to the same song, reading the same book, and then discussing and communicating about it later is a great way to create a shared experience.

Keep track and follow the status of your respective social networks. Sharing life through major social platforms has become the daily life of modern people, and many people will neglect to pay attention to the social interaction of lovers because of the intimate identity of lovers.

But for long-distance relationships, keeping an eye on and commenting, and tracking dynamics is not only a window to understand each other's status, but also a way to communicate and interact, and it should be involved. Trust each other. Long-distance relationships can easily lead to distrust and misunderstandings, many times even if it is a trivial matter, because of the long-distance relationship, the problem will be magnified, so we should pay attention to accumulating trust, give each other enough trust, and make yourself credible enough to eliminate all the possibility of being misunderstood.

Of course there were when I was younger.

Of course, a long-distance relationship is considered a relationship, but a long-distance relationship is destined to be hard, and many people will not choose a long-distance relationship.

When two people are in love, although many people have no problems with their relationship, if two people can't meet often, it will lead to a series of contradictions and frictions in the relationship between two people, and many couples will choose to break up after a long-distance relationship. Although the two of them have not made any mistakes themselves, there are not many feelings that can withstand the limits of distance, which is why many people do not choose long-distance relationships.

A long-distance relationship is certainly a relationship.

As long as two people have established a romantic relationship, regardless of whether the two people live in the same city or region, two people can be considered in love. In a long-distance relationship, many couples will pass ** or pass **, and maintain the relationship between two people in this way. For the two of them, because the two of them can't see each other often, the relationship between the two people is relatively difficult.

Personally, I wouldn't choose a long-distance relationship.

For me personally, I personally reject long-distance relationships because I don't believe that two people's feelings can overcome distance, and I have seen too many couples who have broken up because of long-distance relationships. To a certain extent, the relationship between young people is not strong in itself, unless the relationship foundation of two people is very stable, it is better for young people not to have a long-distance relationship, because this may be the beginning of various conflicts between two people. <>

I recommend long-distance couples to see each other often.

If necessary, long-distance couples can take the initiative to meet and take each other's city life. This may seem like a very hard work, but for two people, it is a way for both people to maintain a fragile emotional foundation. A long-distance relationship will lead to a certain crisis of trust between two people, so two people need to have a strong heart, and at the same time, they need to trust each other enough.

Many people will be wronged when they are in a long-distance relationship, so two people need to tolerate and understand each other as much as possible. <>

Personally, I think it's a relationship; I wouldn't choose a long-distance relationship, I think long-distance relationships are very problematic, and long-distance relationships are both a waste of time and feelings.

I think a long-distance relationship can also be regarded as a relationship, because two people fall in love because they like each other, but they have to have a long-distance relationship because of objective conditions; I wouldn't choose a long-distance relationship.

I don't think a long-distance relationship is really a relationship, because two people are a mobile phone, but if it were me, I wouldn't write about a long-distance relationship.

Experienced. The sadness and helplessness of a long-distance relationship have the opposition of parents, the longing when they don't see each other, the separation when they meet, and the distance between them and their parents after marriage ......and so on are all the helplessness and sadness of a long-distance relationship.

Long-distance relationships are difficult to get to the end because they are separated from each other and cannot be loved. For example, I know a friend who is in a long-distance relationship. She and her boyfriend are not in the same city.

But they met in the same city, and then the two fell in love for a long time. But the family is very opposed, because the distance between the two families is very long, and the parents are afraid that they will be unhappy after marriage. So I kept making excuses for the two to break up.

Later, they had to separate. The mood of the two is feasible and knowing, sad and helpless. It's painful to know the separation.

But fate is clearly predestined. Later, they couldn't forget that they were together again. Always get together less and leave more.

It's happy when we see each other, but it's hard when we're apart. Luckily, though, they made it to the end. After marriage, the two lived happily.

The only bad thing is that there is no way to take care of your parents. The parents are old, but they are worried about their parents but have no way to accompany them, which is also the sadness and helplessness of a long-distance relationship. So there is a lot of sadness and helplessness in a long-distance relationship.

In reality, there are many friends in long-distance relationships. For example, if you know relatives and friends around you, you have chosen a long-distance relationship, and it seems that everyone's yearning for love is greater than the distance. As for whether you are happy or not, only you know.

It's nothing for the man to be in a long-distance relationship, and the woman's life may be harder. Because after marriage, I have to stay away from my hometown and friends and go to live in a strange city. Maybe there are no friends after marriage, no company from relatives, and no place to go for quarrels after marriage, which is more sad and helpless.

But if you have a husband who loves you, I think everything could be a lot better. So I think marriage is mainly about whether you marry the right person. If you marry right, you will be happy in a long-distance relationship.

If you marry the wrong person, even if you are very close, you will not be happy.

In short, I have experienced long-distance relationships. The sadness of a long-distance relationship is helpless due to the opposition of parents, the longing when they don't see each other, the separation when they meet, and the distance between them and their parents after marriage ......and so on are all the sadness and helplessness of a long-distance relationship. However, if you are married to a good husband in a long-distance relationship, the sadness and helplessness of the long-distance relationship will also be smoothed out.

If you don't meet the right person, then life is full of sadness and helplessness.

Yes, I have had the experience of a long-distance relationship myself.

A long-distance relationship is an unknown and difficult emotional journey, and two people need to work hard to grasp their love from the following two aspects to be able to come together:

1.If two people are in a long-distance relationship, they must stipulate some plans, and the most important thing for both parties is to agree on a time to meet each other, which will also allow two people to have a hope and expectation for each other. This is also a very critical point, because some problems cannot be solved if they can't meet each other, a proper meeting can allow two people to tell each other what is on their minds, and when they can't meet, the wild hall tells the two people to discuss together what to do when they meet Song Chun**, which is also a very happy thing, and slowly two people should develop the habit of meeting regularly, so that the long-distance relationship will not become so difficult, and there will be no future for no future, these two people will also work towards the future in their hearts.

2.In a long-distance relationship, Voltan can't see each other in the first place, and if the two people don't connect, their feelings will fade, and they will even slowly forget each other, which doesn't feel so important. Two people in a long-distance relationship should plan to send messages to each other every day, call **** at night, and share their daily pressure and things to each other, so that two people will not feel estranged, but the relationship is getting better and better, and they also know what each other is doing every day, and both parties will be very down-to-earth, and when appropriate, they should give each other some space, don't always contact, otherwise there will be a sense of oppression.

I have Nian Bi knew two long-distance relationships, one of which is online dating, the first long-distance relationship is online dating, I was a freshman, she worked in Guangdong, and there were endless days of chatting every night, at that time, the mobile phone was not a smart phone, and the mobile phone could only play the first version of the web page Hui QQ, and the message was also slow, and occasionally beat the ** to say, because I didn't know what birthday gift to give the girl, and then found an alumnus to learn to knit a scarf to her, at that time, it was originally agreed that I would go to Guangdong to find her after graduation, and then be together, But then in my junior year, I had a misunderstanding and broke up, because she was very resolute and angry when she said it at the time, and I didn't know what happened, and she later told me that she was in a bad mood that day.

I have not only seen long-distance relationships, but I have also known that long-distance relationships have been successful. At the beginning, my partner and I were in a different place for 3 years, and we missed each other about Xiaodongfang. It is indeed added to the pain of lovesickness, but it also strengthens the will.

Preface: In today's life, many young people do not choose a long-distance relationship when they fall in love, and a long-distance relationship can be regarded as falling in love. But when they fall in love, they generally chat together through the screen of their mobile phones, and they don't choose a long-distance relationship in life, because they are more emotional.

If you waste your time on your phone for a long time, you will also feel that this is a waste of your feelings. I don't think about long-distance relationships when I fall in love, mainly because I think that there is a windy and rainy situation in the city where I live, and my boyfriend has no way to come to his city in the first place. <>

In today's life, when many young people are faced with falling in love, most of them have to choose long-distance relationships due to geographical reasons. For many young people who choose a long-distance relationship, they can only contact each other's feelings through mobile phone communication, and a long-distance relationship can be regarded as falling in love. Because there will be a certain amount of affection between each other, use the contact method of mobile phones to contact each other's feelings.

But for myself, when considering love, I generally choose to find a nearby boyfriend, rather than choosing to stay in a long-distance relationship with a person who has no hope at all for a long time. Many people think that long-distance relationships are difficult to get along, mainly because they don't know each other's emotions when they are facing quarrels, and couples should live with their loved ones when they are together. <>

As a young person, you must know that it is already very good to be in a long-distance relationship for 2 or 3 years, after all, a long-distance relationship for a long time will also affect the relationship between two people. If young people really love their other half, they will definitely choose to go to the city where their other half lives. Working together with each other to create each other's future will motivate the relationship between the two people to develop.