Do you know what to pay attention to when chatting with girls?

Boys and girls are different both physically and psychologically, and there must be a certain limit to chatting with each other. It's like you can use this phrase well when talking to girls.

And as far as chatting is concerned, I think a very important premise is that the basis of everything is whether you have a lover or not, and there is a difference between having a lover and not having a lover.

Let's start with the case of lovers. Your lover should be one of your most important people at all times, and she will be the one who will be with you the longest besides your parents, so you must take into account her feelings when doing something, and it is natural to think about it when chatting with other people. And chatting with different people is naturally different.

The first is to talk to your lover, because it is a lover, you can naturally talk casually, you can treat each other as a family, an indispensable person for daily life. Because each other is used to each other. Treat each other as an inevitable person in daily life, ordinary but indispensable, good morning and good night every day, and wake up every day with each other's warm messages.

This is how you and your lover talk to each other, and at the same time, the best way for you to get along with her.

Secondly, no matter what, a person will definitely have some friends of the opposite sex, and chatting with these people should not be like you chatting with your lover, not that you shouldn't, but you can't at all, even if you are used to saying that, but if your girlfriend has shown disgust with this matter, then you have to change it as soon as possible. After all, that person is the most important person to you.

Finally, chatting with girls is simple but not simple, you have to carefully grasp the level of talking to them so that there will be no problems.

At the beginning, if you just added QQ, don't say "Beauty, send a ** to see!" "As a girl, I think it's a manifestation of hooliganism, why do we send you ** to see, continue to talk if you like, and don't talk if you don't like it? Is it okay for you to judge our looks casually?

Then, if you think that the other party has a good impression of you, don't say some hooligan words earlier, because you really hate a little bit of affection, you feel that you are amazing, and we can have a good impression of you. It can also be an action, and there is no good feeling in a word. Respect women and don't say that kind of hooligan talk earlier.

Also, don't spit out pornographic jokes casually, other people's families post a talk in the middle of the night, saying that you can't sleep, you just spray all kinds of pornographic jokes, don't take lack of quality as a joke, and don't think that others can't afford to joke when they are angry, obviously you are too unqualified.

Secondly, if the girl likes idols. If you don't like it, for example, some girls like Luhan, but most boys don't like Luhan, but don't talk about their shortcomings directly, because some girls are crazy if they like idols, and they may quarrel with you. If it's serious, you might break off your relationship.

Don't talk about girls' makeup, because they all care about these things, and you can't say that people's makeup is too thick and lipstick is too red, and this kind of thing is disrespectful. Don't even comment directly on the girl's makeup in public, he will settle accounts with you afterwards!

It's different to pay attention to different things, but you can't joke about other people's pain and other people's dignity, and that's fine.

<> "What to pay attention to when chatting with girls.

1.Be polite.

A person with a positive and optimistic attitude is often more popular with others, bringing positive energy to others, and getting along with such a person will also be infected, making the listener feel that this stool state person is more charming. Jujube poor politeness is the embodiment of a person's quality, and most of us like to get along with polite people, relaxed and harmonious.

2.Be considerate of your feelings.

Pay attention to your expression and tone of voice when talking, feel more about the other person's emotional changes, remember to ignore the other person's feelings, and talk to yourself!

3.Steer clear of sensitive topics.

For example, topics such as weight, body and other topics that girls are more concerned about, try not to keep asking, or even force them to ask unless the girls themselves take the initiative to talk about it, you can talk about it appropriately, but don't demean or complain. At the same time, remember not to comment on questions or areas of knowledge that you don't understand.

4.Don't rush to deny.

Don't interrupt the other person in the chat or jump to a negative conclusion. After listening to the other person's point of view or talking about the topic, first affirm what is right, and then point out the problem in a calm tone. Or so to speak:

I have a different opinion"At such times, girls are also more willing to listen.

I believe that when boys can better care for and take care of girls, then Lu Duan will allow boys and girls to be better together.

So for boys. If he wants to have. If a girl is her good friend, then he should treat the girl well, and also actively care for and take care of the girl.

Only in this way will girls be more willing to be in contact and communicate with boys. In this way, in the end, boys and girls can have a happier and sweeter relationship, and it will also make them more intimate friends, and it will be easy to annoy, and the direct girl will send you to the Diaoyu Islands. Don't step on this minefield; Don't not contact you for several months, don't contact you for more than two months, busy girls may need to react for a while, who are you?

Unless there is a certain amount of emotional accumulation between you, this kind of thing is normal. Don't cheat people, don't often make jokes with pits, or keep playing games with pits. Girls may not remember much about your kindness, but you cheat on other people's things, hum.

The game can be fair, but remember to take care of her sometimes, because girls sometimes just don't have an advantage. But you must respect others, if they don't want you to let them, you have to think about it, don't say anything, respect should be the most basic for everyone. If you're just friends, don't be very ambiguous with others, it will make girls misunderstand, and if you don't get it right, it will hurt each other.

And there is one special note. If you are ambiguous with her, it will make the male ticket think that you have something with her. Then you will be pitted to carry the black pot.

It even leads to a breakup. It's not good for girls' reputations either.

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Of course, it needs to be noted. First of all, don't say topics she doesn't like. Try not to be cold.

Be sincere, humorous, and flirtatious.

What I would like to share with you are ten details that you must pay attention to when chatting with girls.

1. Be humorous.

This is the easiest way to open up a chat with a girl, but don't be deliberately humorous, it will be embarrassing and the girl will not like it, especially the pornographic jokes.

2. Do what you like.

What you like, what you want to talk about is not necessarily what the girl likes, or what you want to talk about at this time, you have to find out her emotions at this time in advance, or to understand her interests and hobbies and topics she likes, and then chat, and after opening the chat atmosphere, it is best to do what she says you listen, as long as you ensure that the decision of the general direction is in our hands.

3. Self-confidence. Even if she is your favorite girl, even if she is better than you, you should not easily lower your attitude and style. Confident and optimistic boys are never bad luck, but be careful not to turn self-confidence into arrogance.

4. If you really like to roll with the other party, you should persuade the other party to go to bed early and not stay up late.

This is our attitude, which means that we sincerely hope that she is good, but don't interfere too much, if you always insist that girls don't stay up late, don't go out to nightclubs or anything, it will become a cross of the line, and the girl's good impression of you will be zero, or even negative.

5. Know how to stop in moderation.

If a girl says she's in a bad mood and doesn't want to tell you, then don't ask, lest the answer you get will break your glass heart, just show your concern appropriately and establish the image of a listener.

6. Don't deliberately talk awkwardly.

What is a deliberate awkward chat? It's "good morning and regret", "good evening", "are you there", "are you busy" and so on, and you send her the ** that the sun comes out in the morning is better than saying good morning.

7. Take the initiative to chat with girls.

Don't expect a girl to take the initiative to talk to you, even if she wants to talk to you, she won't take the initiative unless she has something in mind for you. If the other party is a little interesting to you, as long as you take the initiative to chat with her, she will find a topic to cooperate with your chat. If the other person's attitude is cold, it means that she doesn't want to talk to you, or she doesn't want to talk now.

9. Have your own position and ideas, and don't blindly go along with girls.

Some guys may think that as long as they go along with girls, it's right, but if you just blindly go along with them, then you will never succeed in getting on top. You have to occasionally put forward some ideas to the girl that are different from the other person's concept, which will make her more attractive and will find you more attractive. But be careful, it's okay to put forward your point of view, but don't do it, leave some leeway, and don't try to suppress the other party.

10. Let each other come into life.

Sharing a state or anecdote in your life can involve some information about a topic you've talked about. For example, a girl once said that she likes to eat a certain kind of sugar, and you take a ** and send it to her with the accompanying text: "Last time you said you liked to eat this kind of candy, and today I happened to see it and bought a ghost to try it, and it was as delicious as you said, praise!" ”