College love in! Hurry, hurry!

If you are not sure if he is special to you, don't show it, and sometimes it is not good to show it, because there is a saying that you can't go back to the old days after talking about it! If you cherish this friend, I personally think you have to wait, sometimes replying to your message does not necessarily mean that you have a good impression of you! Of course, it is not excluded!

You can test it with your own ideas!

This has to be tried to know, but it should have some good impression of you, otherwise it will not be different for you and others, you can develop contact and see.

You can come to me to see my problem, it may help, and by the way, you can help me too

I didn't speculate whether she would refuse.

If she really likes you, she will gladly accept you.

Rejecting those two people only means that it really doesn't mean anything to the two of them.

Definitely doesn't mean I don't accept you, hehe.

I advise you to try to confess, try to pursue.

Whether she accepts you or not, she should cherish what she likes.

You shouldn't miss it for nothing! Tentatively know if she's willing to accept you.

It's better to accept you, not to accept, at least to confess, and it won't cause any regrets.

Give it a try! I don't know if I don't try. If you are rejected, you will be rejected.

If she doesn't try, don't embarrass her, and tell her that you will still be her good friend and don't have to be a burden.

When choosing a first love partner, it is best not to choose the following three types of people.

Clause. 1. Stay away from greasy, official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people.

If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing.

When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty appearance in the eyes of those around you.

When you fall in love in college, you can go to those who are capable of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent. But you must not look for those who "have no ability, only put on an official and read hail shelves", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and those who are close to ink are black.

Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

Clause. Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I'm just suggesting that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and a good way to deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.

But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating.

After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love. When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.

Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

Clause. 3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years.

If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become useless and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement.

To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany Chi Fan and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities.

If you want to fall in love in college, first of all, you must see clearly what kind of person the other person is, whether he is a person who does not take love seriously, or a single-minded person.

Second, if you really want to have a good talk, you must not look for someone who is far away from home, in short, try not to start if you can.

Third, don't take this cynical heart of Liang Nianzai, and treat feelings well.

I think college students should pay attention to two points in love, the first point is that He Mao talks about taking into account the actual situation of the individual, to do things to the extent that they can, and the second point is not to delay learning, although love is beautiful, but the main task of the university is to complete the study.

The success rate of natural development together is 10 out of 10 and the happiness index is 20 out of 100

If you insist on being together, the success rate is 30 percent, and the happiness index is 30 points.

If both parties stick together, the success rate is 70 percent, and the happiness index is 60 points.

You face three major problems.

1. Graduation is separated from each other, which will inevitably test your dedication to love, and it will also go through the washing of time, which is undoubtedly a severe test.

2. You have to go to Beijing for men, this is a more difficult problem than anything Why do you know If I love me, I won't throw my roots.

3. You have to endure too much gossip and the ideological work of your family.

4. After graduating and coming into contact with society, the dynamics of students' thinking change rapidly, and no one dares to guarantee who will still love whom in the future, and perhaps everyone will meet another future him or her.

These 4 realities can undoubtedly boast of too much love.

It is advisable to break up early and get rid of it early, the wrong love is wrong at any time, persistence or just a struggle.

But if there is a love that transcends reality, maybe your love is really that strong, or bless you.

Friend, this still needs to be analyzed.

It's not clear, and points are your only option.

The success rate is definitely zero.

Even if you come together, you won't be very happy.

But in the end, how.

It's better for you to decide.

Kid, I'll help you analyze and analyze:

First, the success rate of long-distance relationships is 20%.

Second, the conditions are almost the same, the family will not object, the success rate is 50% Third, one goes to graduate school, one does not go to graduate school, and the success rate is 30%.

Fourth, you can influence him, with a 70% success rate

Fifth, the success rate of the transition period is 20%, and the success rate is 30% for all going to Beijing, and the family environment is affected, and the success rate is 10%.

To sum up, the probability of your success is 20%x50%x30%x70%x20%x30%x10%=126 1000000= about 1 in 10,000.

The success rate depends on yourself. If you think you like it so much that you can't do it, then try it. You're all that young anyway. Easy**. You have to think about whether he really likes you or not.

I think you're going to split it. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. I trust your sister better.

You can't go to Zhejiang, but is it possible for him to stay in Beijing?

Also, if you go to the United States after graduation, it is impossible for him to go, you will not be together for a long time, maybe you will not change your mind, but you can't guarantee that he will not change. Over time, everything will change.

The chances of the two of you being together are slim.

Your sister is so opposed, I think your family will be even more opposed.

If you think about it, it's best to decide quickly and don't delay each other.

This ......It's really not good for the little sister to care about whether she is in this era now, and it won't be a ...... to get a man to be excellentEven if it's not necessarily true, love is beautiful because of impulse, if you really have deep feelings, don't think so much, let's talk about it when you're together, if you think about this and that during the love period, don't you feel uncomfortable?

In real life, it is difficult to be together if two people have different aspirations, and there are many college relationships that break up after graduation because of different places of work and paths in the future. If you really care about this relationship, you have to give up something for the sake of the other, but you need to think carefully about whether it is worth it! Whatever you choose, don't let yourself regret it later!

Spend every day happily ...

Everyone is in a different position and will have different ideas. Find a good time, close your eyes, give yourself three seconds and give yourself a choice. After choosing, then finalize.

Because that's the only way you remember it years later and don't regret it. People live their whole lives and be their truest selves. It's just a personal idea.

Oops, what does it matter, love is your own, as long as you trust a man next to you, and you really love him, you shouldn't care about his past, but create a world of your love with him, and give it to those who only gossip, and see, I'm not wrong.