Thinking people enter are far away, should I go back to see him?

Updated on society 2024-04-06
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should go back, what people who love each other are most afraid of is distance, and the pain of lovesickness between two places is indescribable. I understand your difficulties, you love him very much, so you are afraid that you will affect him. I think you go back and give him more of an impact than motivation.

    Sometimes you don't need so much rationality when you're in love, you think too much, if we all go rationally to your youth, then who will fall in love, it's better to study hard every day, since you love, you have to love thoroughly, don't regret it later.

    It's just that it's OK to grasp a degree after you go back, don't take up too much of his study time, cheer him up more and encourage him, just think you go back to relax and relax for him, and study should also combine work and rest. And you can also accompany him to review, tell him more about how much you love him, how much you hope he can repeat successfully, and tell him how beautiful the university campus is. Let him be hopeful and motivated.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should stay in college and wait for him to come.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, go back and open a room, Shuangshuang can be regarded as an encouragement to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget it! Love to love, really love is too tired.

    You better study hard! Half the world, oh my! It's incredible.

    That kind of feeling, really why bother?!

    It's normal to cry when you think about it, and it's normal to be sad when you think about it.

    But what if you go for a trip? The distance is still so far that it is not beneficial to the development of feelings.

    Since you have chosen a long distance, you should forget about your feelings!

    Otherwise, neither you nor he will be happy, for the past, hold the mentality you once had, choose to forget!

    Soon you will all be happy again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Haven't you been in touch with any of them? You better call ** to ask for his opinion, maybe he wants to see you too. If you have the right time, you can go and see him, and you will be back in 2 or 3 days.

    Then, after that, you can communicate how to meet in the future, how often to meet, and it's better to let him go to see you too, not always you run to him.

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

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  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you think that this man's character is okay and worthy of your life, you can marry, or that sentence. He's really nice to you. Feel that he is your dearest relative.

    But you also have to consider your parents, after all, you are an only child, marry so far away, and leave 2 old people for the rest of their lives, they will be lonely after all.

    The old man didn't really want anything, he just wanted his children to be around, and they were satisfied.

    You can go home often, and the old man will not be lonely.

    It's like a public service announcement on the first stage before. They just want to come back and see more. Full of children and grandchildren.

    I've thought of something else.

    If the man is not an only child, he can choose to buy a house in the middle of your city or where you work.

    Now the traffic is so developed. If you have filial piety, you will come back no matter how far you go.

    Parental consent is required. Think about where you settled.

    Parents also think about what to do if you don't have relatives or friends over there and are bullied. The most important thing is to look at this man.

    I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

    My previous girlfriend was from Shanxi, and her family didn't want her to come to Tianjin with me.

    I'm sad and she's sad too.

    Let's hope LZ isn't like us, with love, nothing is a problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Northerners are born with a sense of laziness.

    I'm a northerner myself.

    Married to the provincial one.

    I often think about my family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, I think the difference between the north and the south is quite big, I don't know if you have watched the TV series double-sided tape, which tells such a story. I believe in the vision of my parents, they are people who have come over, and I believe that they will definitely see more things than us.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I have to weigh for myself whether he is a person who can be entrusted with his life.

    There are a lot of details that you can find out, whether he is worthy of that person, to see if he speaks for you or something, to see if he is considerate, mainly on the parents' side, even if they agree, I don't think I can bear to leave them, I don't care, let it go slowly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What are the conditions of your family? If your family's conditions are okay and you really want to be together, you can consider developing in your home city.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hey, I'm almost the same as you, but have I ever been married? It's too inconvenient to go to my mother's house in other provinces, and it's also very troublesome to get married, and the customs between the two places are too different I just want to give up this relationship Just for reference No one can pay attention to you in this aspect of love, and you don't need to listen to anyone, and your happiness should be in your own hands.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In the long run, it is recommended that you give up.

    Especially in today's society, there are too many variables, so there is no way back. If nothing happens, either you come back by yourself or your parents will take you back, and no one else will care about you.

    Since you are in love, your family conditions, he should choose to settle in your house.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It doesn't matter, happiness is your own, as long as you feel happy with him, he will also give you happiness, I hope you don't miss it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you get married, you can't say to your family and your lover: live in his house for one year and live in yours for one year.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Male Bin North Hanging, You Southern Emperor He Northern Beggar,"Mom and Dad are now beaten to death and disagree", if you can't die, you agree.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, you have to tell your boyfriend's family what you think, otherwise you may not agree to be together because of this father and mother afterwards, although it can't be seen for the sake of money, but in the eyes of parents and parents, even the money is reluctant to spend for their daughter, how can you forget that it will be good for your daughter in the future, and don't be afraid that your boyfriend will be angry because of this, if he is angry because of this, don't want him, isn't there a saying? If he is reluctant to spend even the money for you, what else can he use to show his love for you

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're doing the right thing, and you should tell him what you think.

    Let him recognize his mistakes, and only know his own shortcomings can be corrected, right?

    Time will tell his heart

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're right to do that. First, your parents' views are not comprehensive, the quality of a man is not reluctant, your boyfriend should belong to the more pragmatic kind, this kind of person will run the family, and he will not spend money on money, but it is not good, if you separate from him for this reason, it is a pity, after all, he loves you so much, let you so much, you are sure to give up on him, will you find a better one?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you can mention it to him in your own face, for example, his money is to save for future marriage, you can ask him how long he has to save before he can get married, and then you can complain a little about his previous behavior, I think he can understand what you mean, and see how he behaves next

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Isn't there a saying? If he.

    I can't even afford to spend money for you, I can't even afford to spend money for my daughter, how can I forget that it will be good for my daughter in the future, otherwise I may not agree to you being together because of this father and mother, although it can't be seen for the sake of money, and don't be afraid that your boyfriend will be angry because of this, if he is angry because of this, don't want him, but in the eyes of your parents, of course, you have to tell your boyfriend's family what they think.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Agree with the point of view upstairs But no one wants to be a stranger or an enemy with others anyway, I am also an introvert, and now I go to school, When I first came, I didn't speak, I just silently did my own thing, there are introverts who are sure to be extroverts, and after a long time, we talked about what I think, treat everyone sincerely, no matter how he treats us, we should cherish what belongs to you You are introverted I suggest you find a job that is suitable for introverts to do Personality is difficult to change Self-confidence is a must for everyone, you have to be confident, and I wish you to get a job soon.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, I think you have to be vigilant Although you have to believe that there are still many good people in the world, but there will inevitably be people who fish in troubled waters, hehe, self-confidence is also very important, in fact, introverts are not easy to be confident, I am the same, but now I am fine, you try not to think about yourself, ** is not as good as others, and then you must do a good job of what you can do well, even if you are not confident, you feel that you are okay After a long time, even if you are not confident, you feel that you are okay I just walked over like this, and I have to know how to take care of myself when I am outside How can you have a good mood to find a job when you are not feeling well, and the mood is also very important to always create a good mood for yourself Even if you fail, don't be discouraged Well, in fact, there are many details in life If you don't feel it, you won't feel it Even if you fail for the first time, it is also a stepping stone to success in the future, you have to work hard.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Insurance is an industry that can make money, it is an industry that is not old, and it is a free industry, but it is definitely a challenging industry, if you want to do it, do it and don't think about how much money you can make, because as long as you do it, you can make money, once you do it, don't stop!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't. That's a big mistake. Love is not something that can be solved by addition, subtraction, multiplication, and division. Please think carefully. Solve your original problems and confusions first. Then rethink what kind of person you need

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