My girlfriend s friend s man likes to watch jokes and mess with her, and I feel bad about it

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your feelings are normal, and the encounters are sympathetic. I'm sure your girlfriend loves you, but what's the problem? Ha, I'm glad I met this expert on this issue.

    We have an important principle in our interpersonal interactions: the "principle of reciprocity"! The essence of the principle of reciprocity is to pay attention to the feelings of the person in whom you are interacting.

    For example, if you go to a friend's house, if they are very particular, then you should dress appropriately. If people are very casual people, then you can be casual! Now we understand that we should be more particular about dealing with people (weddings, ceremonies), and we should also be particular about people (leaders, lovers).

    From the above principles, we can see that your girlfriend doesn't think too much about your feelings. A girl should try to avoid jokes with other men when she is with her boyfriend; And she shouldn't tell you indirectly about things she jokes about - there's nothing wrong with that, it's just hurtful for other people's feelings. As a man, you should also try to avoid talking to your girlfriend about her social situation.

    Doing so can avoid some unnecessary psychological distractions!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal, seeing your girlfriend joking with other men, and sometimes laughing so happily, if you're not jealous, it means that you don't care about her. But you can also be humorous, after all, everyone likes humorous people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sweat.. This is a sign of jealousy.

    If you don't like your girlfriend, communicate with her well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There's nothing to be afraid of You think too much ——— En, I believe your girlfriend is right, if he really has an annoying idea, he will do him, hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After all, it's good that she has you in her heart, and you can do better than her friend, isn't it! Or she'll still be with you! ~~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's normal, no need to see a doctor. It's selfish to be in love!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No way, that's how the Internet is

    That's how you know, too

    Besides, you are not together in reality

    Do you want to manage it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Khan: Since you think he's frivolous, look at him again! If you really can't do it, just divide it, people have to be sensible! But you have to master this degree, don't be too stingy, be generous.

    Your boyfriend is just joking with someone else, and if you say a few words, you're upset! That's what you're wrong! It is recommended to enrich yourself more and don't let yourself be too idle!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I don't think such a guy is very reliable. Since he told you that he loves you very much, he should have a sense of responsibility, at least. But he was laughing at other girls in the space, and if it were me, I wouldn't be able to stand the same behavior.

    I suggest that you can talk to him about those girls as if nothing happened, and you just say that I think you know so-and-so well, you are classmates, right? This can show your generosity, and you can also understand their relationship, whether it is what you imagined, don't misunderstand others; In view of his zodiac sign, I think it is normal for this kind of behavior to happen in his zodiac sign, and the Aries boys around me are also like this, often making painless jokes with the girls around them, and in the eyes of others, they are indeed very ambiguous. But I've talked to them, and I have directly proposed that you like to play ambiguous, but he is serious, saying that they are all friends, they are all very familiar, and everyone will not care, but they are actually quite affectionate, so you don't have to take it to heart, as long as he is sincere to you, he is good to you, and you feel happy.

    I bless you all!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no way, men hate their women and laughing with other men, let alone women. You're behaving normally, all you need to do is just tell your boyfriend that he's upset when he's like that, it's as simple as that.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Internet hypocritical romance landlord, please don't take it seriously, what you say likes is just a dependence on him, because he often chats with you, and you know he says he says he loves you? The movement on the Internet is not credible, and you have not met at all. The landlord still finds love in reality!

    Hope it helps.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tell him that you are very upset, and if you don't change it, you will fly him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Online dating? This girl, wake up, classmates.

    How can I love you like that.

    Compare your heart to yourself, when you will be like that, that's what that person thinks.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Just tell him that maybe it will work better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, do you lack self-confidence and feel that you can't compare to those men? You want to give up when she talks to other men? There must be bees around the flowers.

    She's already your girlfriend! I suggest that you tell her your worries clearly, that you are jealous, and I think she will be happy because she knows that you care about her. If she cherishes your relationship, she will definitely keep her distance in the future, if it is still the same, then break up as soon as possible, otherwise, she will definitely have a big green hat in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, you are not steady, a little jealous, can't stand her and many boys so close, in fact, girls are cheerful is not a good thing, but also have a degree, think from another angle, if you have many female friends, the relationship is also good, your girlfriend's heart will also be a little twisted, the key depends on whether your girlfriend has a degree, if she would rather chat with them again and again, than accompany you, it means that she doesn't care about you, you are just a spare tire or ornament, how to do you know how to drop, If she chooses you when you're looking for her at the same time, or tells you to clean up (lie or tell you if you want to be true) and then leave to find them, you should be suspicious.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Have time to communicate with her, if she doesn't care about your feelings, it means that something is wrong, divide, if she pays attention, it will be even better. ~

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should give up, because her heart is uncertain, and she chooses the most suitable for her among so many people.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Cheerful girls will be liked by anyone, but since it's a girlfriend, it's better to take the opportunity to take her for the first time So that at least the psychological burden will be much lower

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's a bit serious to give up, but if you don't give up, this flying vinegar is enough for you, so communicate well and talk to her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Give it up, the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not necessarily, if your girlfriend is naturally very cheerful and popular, if it were me, I would tolerate it, but once I found out that she had betrayed me, I would not hesitate to choose to break up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You tell her you're going to be jealous.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course. If I were a man, I would definitely be upset. A man's self-esteem is very strong, especially in front of the woman he loves. If I'm a woman, I don't like any big money, find one that is good for me. People who are good to the family can get married.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Accurate!

    What does it mean to go out together?

    You should call your boyfriend to come along.

    Can't go alone!

    See, I said no, no, it shouldn't.

    I just can't.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is estimated that men will be unhappy, and the best way to deal with this kind of problem is to give her trust and space, and as for the final result, you have to prepare for the worst.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    "She will tell you every day that everyone goes out to play" This kind of woman is sick and self-righteous! Die!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, but everyone has their own space, and if you decide to be with her, you have to stop it from the side

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I can't get used to such a woman, a gold worshipper!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you want such a girlfriend too??

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Scare you and make you nice to him, or he'll find someone else. Maybe he wants to tell you that I'm very careful, if you are willing to find me, you will bear the consequences, don't blame me. You have to ask what the reason is.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Maybe he's a friend who likes you.

    Or maybe you want to test your reaction.

    But the former has a good chance of what kind of person he is.

    You should take a closer look.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It may be a flower heart, or it may be a test of whether you really care about him and don't want to leave him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Flower heart man. I've never seen a boy like this. Maybe he won't want you if he finds a better one in the future. Be careful.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I also like to meet my female friends.

    Ay... Pretty Men Over Flowers: I guess your boyfriend is a meteor garden, and I've watched too much idol TV. I want to learn.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Halo: If he really wants to find a girlfriend, will he let you find it? He's kidding you! Don't take it seriously!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You'd better give up on him, it's not worth it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He probably doesn't really like you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Normal mind.

    I'm like that too.

    My girlfriend laughs at me a lot.

    But you don't have to worry.

    It's human nature.

    If only it didn't feel like that.

    That means you don't have feelings for your girlfriend anymore.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Or don't think too much, it's natural, it proves that you really love her, because love is selfish, it's normal

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's a normal phenomenon, as long as you really like that woman, you will have this kind of psychology, but the difference in degree is a manifestation of jealousy, but it doesn't mean that you are careful. Keep your emotions under control, or talk to your girlfriend.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This kind of psychology of yours is understandable, but you think, she is nothing more than that.

    There's no need to feel bad when you play.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Do you think he is reliable, there are many life choices, why should you find yourself an unreliable person.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    No, he's just playing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Personally, I feel that your girlfriend has a tomboy heart, and the male classmates in the same class are good buddies, every time you see this, as long as you think that her male classmates don't treat her as a woman, it's fine, so that it won't be so uncomfortable, and the hurdles in your heart must be overcome by yourself, I hope this will help you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    This kind of behavior is very normal, it means that your girlfriend has a very important place in your heart, otherwise you would not be jealous. Brother needs to remind you that jealousy is jealousy, but you don't want to make a big deal with your girlfriend because of this, it will be very bad for your relationship, but you can communicate with your girlfriend and express what you want to say to her, pay attention! Be sure to say it kindly, otherwise it will bring bad results, good luck brother.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's a man's possessiveness. You can communicate with her and see for yourself, after all, she still loves you no matter what.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Your heart is too small, you have to be open-minded as a man.

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