Debate Is the test of emotional intelligence or IQ when college students fall in love?

Debate is a test of one's logical ability. Since it is a logical ability, it is very important to determine the basic concepts of the debate before begining. Be clear about the concept that is beneficial to you, and vague or even replace the concept that is not good for you.

So what is "falling in love"? It usually refers to the emotional communication activities of young men and women for the purpose of marriage, with sexual intentions and interest preferences.

So what is IQ? IQ mainly reflects a person's cognitive ability, thinking ability, language ability, observation ability, calculation ability, rhythm ability, etc. That is, it mainly expresses the rational capacity of man.

So what is emotional intelligence? Emotional intelligence mainly reflects a person's ability to feel, understand, use, express, control and regulate their emotions, as well as their ability to deal with emotional relationships between themselves and others. Emotional intelligence reflects an individual's ability to grasp and deal with emotional problems.

Combined with the debate topic, when a person falls in love, he is definitely not just testing emotional intelligence or IQ, it must be that some aspect is more important in this kind of big test.

As far as human behavior is concerned, all his actions are done in a crowd, that is, human actions must be done through communication between people to produce results. Whether you succeed or fail, whether you are happy or sad, once you are out of the crowd, it does not exist. Therefore, from the perspective of universal human behavior, emotional intelligence ability is more important, and it plays a leading role in human interaction behavior.

Well, the same goes for falling in love. It's more advantageous to focus on emotional intelligence!

Judging from the debate question, "College students are in love with emotional intelligence or IQ", since they are both college students, their IQ is basically the same, right? Therefore, college students must give priority to EQ over IQ when they fall in love. Whether the so-called pair of lovers is good or not, we have to say that they are "a good match or not".

What is a general match? General, knowledge, experience, basic values are also quite also; Matching, temperament is also like-minded. So, in this particular environment, it is decided that emotional intelligence is more important.

Unless it's a college student in a relationship with an elementary school student (equivalent to elementary school culture), it's not in the discussion because it's not universal.

You can find the specific materials on the Internet by yourself!

Love in college is still emotional intelligence. IQ is the intelligence quotient. Intelligence is often called wisdom and is also called intelligence.

It is people's ability to recognize objective things and apply knowledge to solve practical problems. Intelligence includes many aspects, such as observation, memory, imagination, analytical judgment, thinking, adaptability, etc. The level of intelligence is usually expressed by the intelligence quotient, which is used to indicate the level of intellectual development.

Emotional intelligence (EQ), also known as emotional intelligence, is a concept that has been proposed by psychologists in recent years to correspond to intelligence and IQ. It mainly refers to the qualities of a person in terms of emotions, emotions, will, tolerance of setbacks, etc. In the past, it was believed that whether a person can achieve achievements in life, the level of intelligence is the most important, that is, the higher the IQ, the greater the likelihood of achievement.

But now psychologists generally agree that the level of emotional intelligence also has a significant impact on a person's success, sometimes even more so than the level of intelligence.

Men and women who are in love should not first notice how smart and good at learning each other are to fall in love with him (her), right? He (she) likes each other, and the first thing he or she notices should be the charm of the other party, both in terms of emotions and qualities. Of course, in today's society, there are also girls who love vanity, money, and love.

But the students in the university are relatively simple, and most of them are together for the sake of feelings. And what attracts the other party is first of all personal charm, which is mainly reflected in emotional intelligence.

Intelligence quotient. Analyze things more thoroughly.

First of all, you can understand the psychology and preferences of the other party clearly and make corresponding judgments, so as to gain the favor of the other party from the small aspects.

Again, in love, the other party really relies on and believes, not by the so-called love, but by the wisdom in it to deal with the problem, so that the other party has a sense of dependence on you.

And things are not absolute.

It can't be said that one side or the other is the case.

Complement each other, only which is more dominant.

EQ 70% 30% IQ After all, affection is the foundation.

As long as you have money, EQ, and IQ, you can do without it.

Intelligence quotient. Generally like people with high IQs.

That is the ability to analyze a lot of things.

The man was very sensible.

But there is a premise (don't be a nerd).

For a long time, people have been accustomed to IQ as a measure of talent, and modern research has shown that the determinant of talent success is not only IQ, but also emotional intelligence. A significant number of those who have succeeded in the field of management are those who are considered to be not very high IQs in school. We often see such a person, highly educated, whose IQ gives him a very rich knowledge that enables him to successfully get a job in an office or engage in a research job.

If he has high emotional intelligence, emotional stability, strong ability to adapt to the environment, is not overly demanding of the outside world, superiors and colleagues, has a proper evaluation of himself, and is not influenced by the outside world"Thermal expansion and cold contraction", when frustrated"Regroup", and can continue to improve their psychological quality, never complain or pessimistic and disappointed. In this way, his IQ and potential can be fully utilized, and he will be able to succeed in his work. On the contrary, although a person has a high IQ, he is conceited, has low emotional intelligence, and is troubled by the unsatisfactory environment around him day and night, then his end is either cynical and self-appreciative, and he cannot integrate with society, the company, and colleagues; or high or low, a lifetime of inaction; Or they go down the wrong path and are ruined by high-intelligence crimes.

It can be seen that emotional intelligence is as important as IQ when a person is successful or not. People tend to value IQ and ignore emotional intelligence. As can be seen from the above example, people with high IQ can achieve results in their majors, while people with high emotional intelligence can achieve results in management and operation.

No matter what kind of career they are successful, successful people tend to have both IQ and EQ. Therefore, in modern management, managers should learn more about emotional intelligence. Although emotional intelligence is innate, it can be continuously improved by continuous learning and accumulation of experience, so having a high emotional intelligence is not an unattainable thing.

If you want to become a successful person, you should not only learn new knowledge and skills in related fields, but also constantly and consciously improve your emotional intelligence level, which can affect the full play of other abilities. IQ (IQ) is a tool used to express the level of intelligence, and it is also a common method to measure the level of intelligence, and the level of IQ reflects the level of intelligence. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to recognize, control, and regulate one's emotions.

The level of emotional intelligence reflects the difference in emotional quality. Emotional intelligence plays a more important role in a person's success than IQ.

Love is divided into two types: love and friendship.

Love is the foundation of reproduction and is great.

Friendship is harmony, people will be happy when they have feelings, peaceful coexistence, and feelings will make life and the world colorful and fiery.

And IQ is just a tool or a machine, which belongs to coldness, and IQ is just an ant when it is high, and it will always be surpassed by others.

High emotional intelligence can make people's lives meaningful and fulfilling.

Zhigao is not as high as you, but he has emotional intelligence, knows how to use the power of the masses for his own use, and unity is strength

Because it's useless if you only can't speak, if you want to make friends with someone, you have to speak, and you have to speak.

A large part of IQ is innate, while EQ can be cultivated.

If you want to fight back sharply, I suggest grasping the core, that is, IQ is born and is usually difficult to improve, while EQ is different and can be improved through continuous learning.

Specifically, in terms of possibility, it is very difficult to improve IQ, and even in the past, IQ was considered to be innately unpromotable, while EQ can be improved completely, and it is not difficult to improve.

The advantage of this question is that it does not explicitly say that EQ is more important than IQ, but when one party's value does not improve much, or even is locked, the value of the other party is reflected, so that the other party falls into your rhythm.

You can grab this point and debate it, and change the concept.

For example, if you change who is more important, EQ or IQ, it becomes that IQ can be greatly cultivated without any changes in IQ, and it is obvious that it is important to cultivate EQ.

Of course, this is just a matter of changing concepts for the sake of debate, but in fact, they are all very important in modern life.

Believe me, you will be invincible in such a debate.

Thesis: Emotional intelligence is more important than IQ.

Argument: If a person has excellent grades, very high reaction speed and calculation level, then we will generally say that he has a high level of intelligence and good learning ability. But a high IQ does not mean that he can adapt well to society and be liked and loved by everyone, and another point is that he needs to have a certain emotional intelligence, so that he can really gain a foothold in society.

The impact of emotional intelligence on people is mainly manifested in the strengthening and improvement of interest, perseverance and will, and it will also have a certain impact on social life, interpersonal relationships, health status, and even marital status.

Conclusion: IQ and EQ are both opposites and unified. IQ and EQ are two human abilities. In modern society, the relationship between material and spiritual is becoming more complex and diverse, and people's emotional life is more vulnerable to destruction.

And emotional intelligence is important for facilitating people and people. The relationship between people and things plays an important role. The development of society and the progress of science and technology require people's cooperation and collective intelligence. In this case, emotional intelligence is more important.

The importance of emotional intelligence

People are faced with a fast-paced life, a high load of work and complex interpersonal relationships, it is difficult to achieve success without a high EQ, and emotional intelligence (EQ) will affect the performance of IQ (IQ). People with a high EQ like to associate with him, and they always get the support of many people. Interpersonal relationships are also an important resource in life, and good interpersonal relationships often lead to more opportunities for success.

Under the pressure of exam-oriented education, parents always do not hesitate to spend a lot of time, energy, and money to invest in their children's education; As a result, it often fails to achieve the desired effect, but instead leads to children's boredom in school, poor learning independence, willfulness and selfishness. In recent years, students have been running away from home and committing suicide due to academic pressure, communication problems with their parents, and many other people's eyes.

Psychologists say that it is more important for children to learn to be human beings than to learn to learn. However, many parents only focus on the cultivation of children's intelligence, and ignore the training of emotional intelligence, resulting in more and more children with low emotional intelligence.