How to choose between home and work

First of all, you must know that for Yingyu who is married, especially for women who have a baby, it is a luxury to have time to bet on themselves, and the baby is still young and must spend a lot of time taking care of it.

Secondly, you didn't talk about your mother-in-law's attitude towards you, but you are very good to your mother-in-law, which means that the relationship between the two of you is good.

Now the only problem is that you don't think your husband wants to make progress, but you still want to go on with him, which means that you still love him, I can already guess, you have talked to him face-to-face many times, but have you talked about it very quietly and seriously? It is still recommended that you talk to him, add your future or everything to the content of the conversation, be more serious, and tell him that you are trying to weave your beautiful future, but it is not enough for you to rely on your unilateral efforts, whether it is a relationship or a marriage, both parties need to work together.

It's hard to quit game addiction, so it can be a long process to take some time out every day to participate in some outdoor sports with him and your child, pull him nagging, and slowly infiltrate real life into his life and get ready.

Your problem is so big that you only give 30 points, it's too stingy, you have to know that she's a word, this word is explained separately, your statement is that you also want to be a strong woman, why don't you lie to your husband and say that you only have half of his monthly salary, so that at least he feels better than you in his heart, because men are more stingy and love face than women, and besides, you don't put all your thoughts on your bb and housework at home, so that your husband thinks that you are snubbing him,

A few questions: First, do you still love him? If you love, please relax your mind and take care of these family chores.

Second, do you have faith in him? If so, please communicate more, husband and wife always have a sacrifice to take care of the housework. Third, are you happily married?

If you have reluctantly matched, you will be separated if you can't get together.

It's a big problem, you have to make him feel pressured, it's a sign of irresponsibility. You have to talk about him often, and you have to be tactful. Good men are taught.

You can don't think about the distance from home, find a job that you can adapt to first, don't derail from society, friends say that you may be a bit like a woman because of family factors, just contact with different people.

Girls are family-oriented first...

Have a shop at home? Then inherit it and carry it forward, believe in yourself, you can do it!

Only with family harmony can we work with peace of mind, and only when we work smoothly can we build a better family! Both are good!

I have a friend in Shanghai who has the same job as LZ, who is older than LZ, but is not married yet.

Whether or not to do a job, in addition to the considerable level of salary, the prospect of the job is another important consideration. LZ now needs to make a plan for your life, after all, you are different from the part of the group that "was born and grew up, worked in Sri Lanka, and married in Sri Lanka".

The so-called planning is not the kind of 2 million in 3 years, but what kind of social position you hope you will be in at each stage of your life. You say that you need money at this stage, so when this job can basically meet your needs, of course, you should continue for the time being.

You said that your parents-in-law don't want your wife to come out, so is there any specific reason other than that you have to travel frequently and they don't want their daughter to suffer?

Your wife wants you to go back, in addition to the desire for a family reunion and her love for you, is she prepared for a temporary drop in living standards and your inexplicable emotions?

I mean, it's not really your problem. But at the end of the day, it will affect your life primarily and the most. So it's not a good idea to make decisions that are rash, or emotional, or someone else's own.

It doesn't require you to be calm all your life, but to make a plan, it's better to be calm.

Finally, I wish you a lot of money. This seems to be the quickest and best solution, hehe.

A big man takes on the heavy responsibility of supporting his family, staying away from home, and working hard should be nothing, don't be a mother-in-law.

My wife wants you to go home, right, but wives all over the world want men to stay by their side, which is normal, women, can't stand loneliness.

Do a good job as a wife, don't be emotional, be sensible, work hard for a few years, and you will be happy. Best wishes.

Come out and do it yourself! If you don't have capital, start a small business! From small to large.

You can mix it up all the time!

Let's see how you develop over there, whether the work treatment will be improved in the future, or will it always be like this, now it's only 25, it's still young, it's always running around outside, and when you can't run after you're thirty, you will definitely not be able to stick to your current job at that time, and after forty, home will be very important to you, if you go back at that time, what else can you do, If you want me to say, while you're young now, come back early, and now you still have the cheeks to look for a job, and when you go to thirty in the future, Do you still have that cheeky skin to beg someone? Unless you have some great ambitions when you come back, hehe, so come back now, you can think about doing something for yourself after you come back from the experience and insight outside, it's better not to work for others, even if you work for others, start mixing now, and when you are mixed, it's hard to say when you're older, to put it bluntly, it's because of money, if you're outside for you now or feel important for your life, then don't come back, but if it's so good outside, I don't think you will have any doubts now!

Why don't you bring your wife and children to you? Nowadays, people who go out to work usually deal with this kind of problem either by going home or taking their families with them.

But a long time alone outside the struggle, not only often worry about their family, but also the family will not be at ease with you, this is a relative can not avoid trouble, if all the economic pressure as a reason is not clear, the key is whether you have the determination to make a trade-off, the family together is happy, the cost is a little more nothing!

I ask you, what do people live for?

Then let me tell you, people live for the sake of living, since they are all alive, why not live better, people live hard, what is the use of money, can you buy time for you to spend more time with your family? What if the salary is small, as long as people are happy and happy, and they have the care and encouragement of their families every day, what a happy thing it is.

You are only 25 years old, and there are opportunities that people will always have things that do not go their way, and if you think about it carefully, this may be the one thing that determines your life.

Family it! No matter how much money you have, it's useless if the family doesn't get along!

If you can't make enough money, let's go home! My husband is just like you, hey!

From the perspective of your loved ones, they will not stand in your way, and they want you to have a good future. Your consideration is not wrong, then look at your loved one's physical condition, economic conditions, and their rapport. If you promise your wife, don't worry about it, keep in touch with your family, and come home often when you have time.

When the conditions are good, take your relatives over.

You talk to his dad.

What to say.

Is it useful to figure it out on your own?

Family is more important than work, and you can find it again if you don't have a job.

Neither is missing. Work should be backed by a healthy family, and if the family matter is very serious, it is necessary to take care of the family first.

A fire in the backyard is a taboo for soldiers.

When these two issues come together, no matter which one you choose, you will have regrets, work and family are equally important, and they are also inseparable. It mainly depends on which side you care more about.

Think about each other from a different perspective, whether it is for children or the elderly, reality is inseparable from material.

Don't have internal spears, don't be too tired when you work under pressure.

You can talk to your lover a lot, and it's best to do both.

Hello, able to understand your feelings. You can feel the tangled in your heart. At work, although you work hard, you are still not recognized, the leader clearly points out that he will not train you, and he skips you in front of many opportunities, and his peers persuade you to leave, but you yourself are very unwilling.

What I want to know is: your unwillingness is because you are dissatisfied with the lack of attention to the leader, and you want to prove yourself? Or is it because the work is unwilling to give up within the system?

Ask yourself yourself: What do you want to live your life like? Keeping an unhappy but stable job?

Or do you want to find a job that you love and can reflect your value? Which is more important to you, work or family? Choosing is painful because choosing actually means giving up.

But only by giving up some shackles can we create more opportunities and possibilities, and only then can we keep our lives closer to our ideal goals in the choices we make again and again. At the crossroads of life, choice is important. If you need psychological assistance, you can do it privately.

Family is more important than work, and in a family, both men and women must have to pay a little for the family. It is better to stay with your husband. Separated from the two places for a long time, it is not a home. You can get a job at your husband's place.

Everyone will face a choice between work and family in life, and each of us is in the midst of them, undecided, whether work or family is important?

Work and family, the two are often always placed in opposing positions, as if "the fish and the bear's paw are indispensable."Both". In the eyes of the ideal person at work, the family is a factor that restricts the development of the individual. Choosing a family does not lead to the achievement of the ideal job.

You have to understand the relationship between family and work, and work is the guarantee of familyLet's ask a family, if they can't even solve the basic food and clothing problem, and live a life of not having enough to eat and sleep, how can she be happy, and there will definitely be a big family conflict. Family is the driving force of your work, just like your goal, and when you think of our home, you will have the strength to work hard. Therefore, I think that family and work are dialectically unified, no one is more important, only who is more important at that stage, and we will be very comfortable with each time period.

Whichever choice you make, you should not absorb the negative thoughts of others and think that you are a failure and that success is out of reach. Believe that you will be able to handle the relationship between the two, and you will definitely work smoothly, have a happy family, go to the highest point in your career and life, and let yourself have no regrets.

People have limited energy and can't do everything. We need to think hard about what we really want and be prepared to face the consequences of our choices today.

Try to balance and make sure that you take care of your family and work hard to get things done.

I would definitely choose a job, and for me it is the work that matters.

Generally speaking, I would choose my own family, and I don't want my work to affect my family.

I would definitely choose family, or family first.

I would choose family because home is the most important thing in my heart.

I should choose a family, and I can still struggle for my career.

I think you should choose a family first, if you don't have a home, what are you working for, no matter how well you work without a home, the boss will just give you a position, and if you have a home, you will have a harbor to rely on.

As the saying goes, the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist, as a woman, you have to be more family-oriented! Men should go out a little more.