What words have never appeared unintentionally, but have become your lifelong beliefs?

I don't forgive you" - BoJack Horseman

There has always been some baggage that resides in my heart with the passage of time, and why do others say sorry, as if I must forgive?

When I was subjected to verbal violence on campus in my third year of high school, the girl at the head apologized to me and said "I'm sorry", and she said that she was finally relieved. But what about me? I didn't want to forgive her, but I was forced to forgive, forced to accept her relief, and I was still in pain.

I happened to see "Bojack Horseman", which has such a sentence in it.

You can apologize to me, but I can also choose not to forgive, no one has ever stipulated this, and an apology will be forgiven.

There is only one way to succeed--- to live life in your own way. ”

Friends who have not read "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" may think that this sentence is chicken soup and ordinary, I think that "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" is sprinkled with millions of words, and almost all of the rise and fall of the Ming Dynasty in the past three hundred years are paved for this sentence. When Mingyue told all the history, this sentence was what he wanted to tell the world.

When I read this ending a few years ago, the ending character of a history book was not a prince and a general, but a Xia Ke who traveled the mountains and rivers.

That's young, I don't understand, I always feel that living according to my own will is the simplest thing in the world, but it's just brave, strong, and not admitting defeat, why use the history of a dynasty to pave the way. As I get older, I understand that it is too difficult and difficult to be strong enough not to be afraid of the eyes ......of others, not to succumb to the persecution of reality, not to waver in the original idea in my heart, and to have enough ability to implement and realize it

What is "your own": the way you choose is born from your own heart, and has nothing to do with society and external objects, it is the fullness and strength of the heart, and it will not be easily changed by the world, yin and yang psychology--- the starting point of everything is the voice and call of your heart, the heart has no external reason, and the heart has no external objects.

What is "spending": it is a state that lasts throughout life, it is a success but not a wedding, a notice.

What stages does a person need to go through if they want to achieve such success?

First of all, we must really understand the definition of success in this sentence.

Don't be distracted by the outside world, listen to the voice of your heart, and know what "you" really want.

Jump out of your comfort zone, abandon worldly concepts, have the courage to pursue goals, have strong executive ability, and not be afraid of hardships and obstacles and other people's doubts. Spend a lifetime to carry it out and stick to it to the end!

At least prove that we are alive

<> life, it is impossible to make you happy and happy all the time, there will always be some difficulties that make you sad and sad, and it will also make you cry silently.

Each of us is different, some people like to travel on their own, some people need to be taken care of, some people are very stubborn, they will get through all the difficulties without saying a word, obviously they are very bitter and tired, but they don't ask anyone for help.

Maybe after a long time, they talk to you about the old days, like they're telling someone else's story. You think they are open-minded and chic, but you never know how they got here, how much they suffered, how many sins they suffered, how many tears they shed, but they adjust their emotions and don't let anyone worry.

Do you think they're really that strong? No, because they have less to rely on behind them, and if they don't keep going, they will fall.

In fact, the meaning of many people's hard work is not only to make others look down on them, but also to prove themselves. Prove that you will not run away from difficulties when you encounter them, but will make the people around you live happier and happier.

Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life even after recognizing the truth of life." ”

At some point in your life, you feel that life is difficult, and you want to give up, but as long as you carry it, you will feel that everything is just like that.

As long as you get through it, everything is fine.

There is a sentence that I once occasionally read in a book, and he made me feel that my life has changed because of this sentence, this sentence says: In the scarcity mentality, our minds are often firmly controlled by scarce things, and do all kinds of things that outweigh the losses.

Too short of money, often give up their long-term career development for some petty profits.

It's too lacking in love, knowing that the other party is a scumbag or a scumbag, but he refuses to let go (what if I break up and no one loves me anymore?) ）

If the time is too tight, I will work or study all night, which will affect my health in the end.

"Scarcity mentality" is actually a cognitive obstacle that "does not know the true face of Lushan, and is only born in this mountain".

If you want to get rid of this mentality, you have to work hard to make what you crave no longer scarce.

If you are short of money, you should plan your career reasonably and pursue a career and skills with a "wide range of money", rather than knowing that there is no way to develop this position, and still fighting for thousands of dollars per month.

If there is a lack of love, it is even more important to distinguish what is true love and what is falsehood, you give up a scumbag or scumbag, maybe the next one is the true destiny. Dwelling on an inappropriate relationship and not letting go will only make you more and more desperate for love.

If you lack time, you should simplify your life process, improve your work or study efficiency, avoid unnecessary time expenditure, and not fill your day 24 hours a day without allowing yourself to take a breath.

As long as you find that the things you care about are no longer scarce, you can truly get rid of the mentality of being controlled by such things.

I overheard a sentence, "Only when you become stronger, others will respect you and improve your strength", this sentence touched me a lot, and I continue to grow stronger, in order to stand to a higher height, and to have better development.

What words did you say that Wu Yi once appeared in the heart of a piece of heart, that is, you like a sentence very much, that is, your role, that is, you don't like it, just say. Your own freedom, no matter how good these things are, are others, so you don't have to envy yourself, just live your own life.

I read the passage of Deng Chaoshang in the Galaxy cram school, "Life is like archery, dreams are arrow targets, if you can't even find an arrow target, what's the point of pulling a bow every day." Although this sentence has inspired me a lot, I have not found my dream so far.

One of my favorite sayings is that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and this is also a quote that has been verified by my life experience, and it is very true.

There is nothing difficult in the world, as long as I am willing to climb, diligence can make up for my clumsiness, as long as the kung fu deep iron pestle grinds into reality, these words have become my lifelong belief.

Everyone is destined from the moment they are born, the meaning of life is not how long you live but what you leave for this world and society, from Gershwin to Yang Mingxue, although God is jealous of talents, but as long as Blue Rhapsody and Hyunmu sound, people will always remember them.

There is no absolute thing in the world, everything in the world is relative, this sentence is what one of my junior high school teachers said, in my life on the road when there is no tangled in things, I recall this sentence, I will see a lot, it can be said that this is one of my life beliefs.

There is one sentence in particular. There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid that people who have a heart will succeed as long as you have a heart for this matter. Unremitting efforts specify rewards, and I feel that this sentence has become my belief in life.

Of course, it is like Nezha said that my life is up to me, because I can break out of my own life by myself, if I rely on fate, sometimes I can't break through many problems and self, and I have to rely on myself to break out of my own way.

A lifetime of faith, in fact, there are very few such words. QQ said. The sentence that the son wants to raise and kiss you is an ancient saying that I have heard it relatively rarely, but if you really understand it, it really is. A kind that hides deep in the heart. State of consciousness.

When I was a child, I learned a sentence, Lu Yao knew that the horsepower has been in the hearts of the people for a long time, but this sentence is not very profound, and gradually began to understand the meaning of this sentence, everything is inseparable from the washing of time and the washing of time.

When I was the most helpless and helpless in my life, I suddenly saw a sentence that gave me courage. Whenever I feel down, I think about this sentence I saw at the time, and this sentence goes like this: "You will find that the little blessings in life are all around you". Share it with everyone.

If you want to live a better life, then you have to rely on your own hands to create, and you must achieve the goal of living a good life through perseverance and hard work.

My lifelong belief is not to be stupid, not to be afraid of failure. Because I was a stupid kid myself, some people laughed at me, but I also saw Aoki in their eyes after I won in the end, so it strengthened my faith. If I am not afraid of being stupid or failing, I will become better and better.

If the heart is sunny, it is a sunny day, people must have a kind heart, give people roses, and keep the fragrance in their hands, which is to make us friendly to others, but also equal to having a good blessing to themselves, plum blossom fragrance from the bitter cold, so that we can hone ourselves in the predicament and suffering, exercise ourselves.

One is not afraid of hardship, and the other is not afraid of death, which is also a word that once appeared unintentionally, but it has become my earthly belief, because this spirit allows people to overcome difficulties and achieve success.

In everyone's life, many things are destined, it is given to us by God, when luck comes, nothing can be stopped, and no one can keep when luck goes, so we must work hard to improve our ability, welcome and send off luck at any time, don't be bound by fate, we should really be ourselves, if you work hard to live, luck will accompany you for life.

Someone once said to me, "Your other half is the person you should value the most in your life, the person you love the most, your parents can only accompany you to adulthood, and your children can only stay by your side until they get married, as long as your other half is the person who will always accompany you in the future, please cherish the person in front of you" This sentence has really changed me a lot.

Too deliberately finding time to prepare what to say makes people feel that there is something false and untrue. And what is said unintentionally is easy to penetrate into people's hearts. An inch of time is an inch of gold, and it is difficult to buy an inch of time; The young man does not work hard, and the boss is sad.

I can't tell you that. What about that person? Wait for each of us to be there.

Because the personality is different, the seat is different. What is faith? How do you get the car to the target?

There's no faith yet. Now it's time to earn money and study hard. So the technology to make money.

Nowadays, money can measure the ability of each person, and it is important to represent social status. It's really important. Hurry up and make money.

People who do love are more introverted, withdrawn, unwilling to trust others, very defensive, afraid of getting hurt, and very dependent on their friends and family.

One can be poor, but one must remain kind. This phrase is overheard by people. But it became my greatest faith.

When my cute boyfriend felt that I was unhappy, he said to me that if I was happy, things would go smoothly. It's so cute, but it's true, do things happily, just like the lovely Yu Shuxin, she told us to be happy with makeup, so that the makeup can be more beautiful, hehehe.

The road is long, I will go up and down and seek, Xianyuan bean curd Dalian Jinzhou petrochemical system is the direction of the sea, is the lighthouse shining on the ocean before dawn, great love is boundless, Jin Wei reclamation.

I once saw a sentence when I was reading a book in the university library, that is, don't remember when you give grace, don't forget when you receive it.

I accidentally read a sentence from Mr. Lu Xun that said: The so-called genius is to use other people's coffee drinking time to work, which has become my lifelong belief.