Broke up Why do you want me to chat with him

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, you are already a habit in his life, but he is not willing to live with someone like you for the rest of his life, and at the same time, he has no new love to start, only to find you to vent!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Two situations 1 may be to reconcile 2 may be to be an ordinary friend that is to fish you show demeanor This is the legendary B person You feel it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He still likes you ... I can't bear you...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're not that selfish person, if it doesn't cause you any trouble, then consider it a kind of after-sales of love, don't worry too much!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Although we broke up, we may still be living in the inertia of this relationship, which should be just a transition.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He was an empty and lonely man!

    Once there is another new love, he will quickly disappear from your world!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's see who brought up the breakup!

    If it's you, then he wants to be reconciled with you.

    It's him, it's because he's lonely.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I want to be friends with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ignore your ex-boyfriend, he's just a momentary emptiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it really a breakup??

    It may be that he still wants to reconcile.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's also a problem that bothers me, we are still like a couple, he will hold my hand when we walk together, but why does he not speak when I want him to come back to me. At that time, it was the breakup I proposed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Regret pulling! If you still love him, accept him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In general, it is recommended to break up on a case-by-case basis, and the other party may be for the purpose of being friends, That's why I will take the initiative to chat with myself, not getting back together may be to lay a foundation for the relationship, and then choose to get back together after cultivating the relationship, it is indeed largely because I really can't let go, so I will take the initiative to find myself. On the other hand, it may indeed be because of the cultivation of feelings, so they will care, so we can think about the problem from the following aspects. <>

    1, I have to say that after the breakup, the other party always chats with him, and does not mention the reunion, probably because the other party feels embarrassed to propose the reunion, so it is precisely because of this that he wants to cultivate the relationship first. In fact, I have to say that after the breakup, the other party always chats with him, but he is not allowed to take the initiative to get back together, largely because the other party may feel embarrassed and afraid of being hurt again, so this is because of this will choose to cultivate feelings, so that when the time is ripe, he will choose to get back together. <>

    2. If you don't take the initiative to break up, then the other party chats with you and doesn't take the initiative to get back together, largely because you really can't let go of yourself, so you want to accompany yourself as a friend. In fact, I have to say that if the other party takes the initiative to break up, but is unwilling to choose to get back together, then it is largely because the other party really can't let go of himself, so this is because of this, it is precisely because after the breakup that he will take the initiative to choose to chat by himself, but on the other hand, he is afraid that the proposal to get back together will bring very bad pressure to each other, so it is precisely because of this that he will choose not to mention a word. <>

    3, on the other hand, it may be because they have been together for a long time, so the feelings they have cultivated are precisely because they can't let go of each other, even if they don't love each other, they will take the initiative to care about each other and treat them as confidants. In fact, I have to say that there are a lot of couples in life now, and they will still keep in touch after breaking up, largely because they have been together for a relatively long time, and it is precisely because of this that they do have strong feelings for each other, so this is because of this, we will not let go of each other easily, so we will continue to accompany each other as friends and confidants, but although they no longer love, but this relationship is indeed worthy of respect, so they will choose to wait as friends.

    In fact, I have to say that after the breakup, the other party always chats with him, to a large extent, it may be that he really can't let go of himself, so the reason why he didn't propose a reunion may be because he feels that the time is not to promote his brother to the level and he still needs to cultivate his feelings, on the other hand, it may be because he is afraid of bringing psychological pressure to each other, so he chooses not to mention the reunion, on the other hand, it is also the purpose of friends, so there is no idea of getting back together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That means a problem, that is, he can't let go of you, and he wants to get back together with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello dear, you broke up between you, but the other party is still willing to chat with you, which proves that the other party has not forgotten you, but is still willing to pay for you. It also shows that the other party still cares about you very much, and hopes that one day you can reconcile as before.

    Dear, hello, you broke up with each other, but you are still willing to chat with you, which proves that you have not forgotten you, but are still willing to pay for you. It also shows that the other party still cares about you very much, and hopes that one day you can reconcile as before.

    We had been talking for two years, and after almost a year of breakup, he suddenly came to talk to me.

    Have you talked to the other person? What did the other party say?

    I haven't started talking yet, but now I want to ask him what you think.

    The teacher feels that he wants to get back together with you, so he wants to talk to you.

    Because it's been a long time since I broke up, I suddenly came to me.

    Explain that the other party has not forgotten you for a year after the breakup.

    After all, it's been a year, and it's quite sudden.

    So do you think he loves me very much?

    It may also be that the other party has been unhappy in the past year, and now I really can't hold it back. So choose to confess to you.

    In this case, you should still love very much, otherwise you won't be able to forget you for a year after breaking up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, it's normal, and many people can still be friends after breaking up.

    If you and your partner break up peacefully, then there will be harmony between you. After the breakup, everyone is friends, and they talk about the face of their friends. After all, we have known each other for several years, and we just broke up, and everyone is smart and knows what to do and what not to do.

    And if both parties have not been so passionately in love and have not experienced any heart-rending breakups, then chatting will not be good.

    Like me and my ex, both of us are friends, classmates for several years, and we are still classmates and friends. The two of us chatted a lot, just like regular classmates.

    It won't be particularly embarrassing to see at the class reunion, even if everyone wants to joke about us, as soon as they see us open, they won't joke anymore.

    But if the two of you are very intense when you break up and still talk after the breakup, then this is a bit abnormal.

    It shows that both of you have the intention of wanting to reconcile in your hearts, and maybe you are both waiting for the other party to speak first about reconciliation. You both may still like each other, but you're just too embarrassed to say it again. The one who mentions the breakup wants to reconcile but feels unreasonable, and the one who is broken up wants to reconcile but feels faceless, and the two can only consume.

    It may also be that both people feel that it is too exaggerated when they break up, and now they are chatting to relieve and want to continue to be friends in the future.

    If you think about it, if one of them feels sorry for the other person, then he may want to continue to be friends and forget about the unhappy ones. It just so happened that the other party felt the same way, so you reached a good consensus and began to chat happily.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can chat calmly after a breakup, then you must have loved each other, and the other party may have let go of that relationship or may still miss you. And I think the second possibility is not very likely, if you notice that the other party still has feelings for you, and you no longer like her, you will not be so patient to talk to her, of course, it is also possible that you still have feelings for her. If you can continue talking, you must have a sense of openness to each other, and you rarely feel that way for other people.

    I think it's more that you feel that you know each other well, and the tacit understanding is relatively high, but the love between men and women is slowly fading, and you don't want to lose each other, let your insistence on feelings be wasted, and thus transform into friendship or family affection other than love. This kind of friendship is very beautiful, and having someone who understands you and understands you can talk freely about how many people want but can't get it.

    Now that you can talk, and you're sure you're not going to be a partner, what about having some free time to chat? At least you don't lose anything because of an unsuccessful relationship, and you won't hurt others because of your small talk, but you can get understanding and support from the other party when you are not understood, and you will also be released because of each other's three views.

    Of course, if you both have love in your hearts, you can be together again, it is too difficult to meet the right person, you have to seize the opportunity. But even if you can't be a couple, it's good to be friends with your tacit understanding.

    No matter what you choose, no matter what others think, I think only your opinion is the most important, as long as you don't regret it later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is a saying that you can't be friends after a breakup because you've been in love before. People who can continue to be friends after a breakup must still be in love. So in my opinion, it is generally abnormal.

    I think one of the two of you must still have feelings for the other, and there must be thoughts about the past. Otherwise, it won't be still connected. It must be because one of the two of you must be reluctant to leave the other half.

    That's why he wants to keep in touch with you. Let's see if there's a day when you can go back to the way things were. When one day I can go back, I turn around and find that you are still there, and what a wonderful thing it is.

    It's not impossible to say normal if it's normal. Maybe you weren't so embarrassed when you broke up. Just a simple and peaceful breakup.

    So you can still be the same after you break up. Or be able to be a friend again. That's good.

    I believe that many people will envy such feelings. So it's good that you're doing that.

    Or your temperament and personality are all very good, and the people are very good. So, even after your breakup, your significant other doesn't want to be embarrassed with you. Don't want to lose you.

    Maybe you're just fit to be friends, not lovers. So I still want to keep in close contact with you after the breakup. It's actually normal to think like this.

    I don't think you should think about it so much, it's normal to chat. If you really get to the point where it's not normal, then think about other things.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think this kind of thing should be looked at separately, not necessarily all couples after a breakup will become strangers, there will be a lot of people, after separation, very calmly calm their emotions, and then with each other like ordinary friends, chatting, talking, this is normal and not wrong, but since they have broken up, what else is there to talk about?

    But I still always think that after the breakup, it is necessary to break it cleanly, don't break the thread again, sometimes after separation, there may be one party who will not immediately come out of a relationship, if this time is still chatting every day as before, it is very likely to make the person who is immersed in it more unforgettable.

    Therefore, if you really have no possibility, don't pull and pull anymore, delete what should be deleted, this is the most complete letting go of the ex, and when you meet the next one, it is also the best respect for her.

    But if you really have other necessary contact in addition to being a couple, you can keep it for your usual work communication, but in the process of chatting, the possibility of mentioning your past should be 100%, at this time it will inevitably be embarrassing or touch the memories in your heart, so it is better to avoid chatting as much as possible.

    So, if there's nothing important, just break it off and start over.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It shows that you broke up peacefully and are still friends after the breakup, so it's normal to chat, because my girlfriend and I also chat after we break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In terms of problems alone, it's normal to chat after a breakup. A large number of people are still in contact after breaking up. You should ask yourself why you are still in contact? In what capacity to contact? Friend? Or the ex? What is the purpose? What if you don't get in touch!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm separated, and I know it's impossible to be together, but I can't let go of each other, I still connect, chat, and when I think about each other, I think it's also good!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After the breakup, he still came to me to sing and shop, I couldn't put it down, but now the two of them will still come out to eat, I think he is giving him a **, he will come to me when he thinks of me, alas! But we all know it's impossible.

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