Why do 5 year relationships break up when they say they break up? Can anyone comfort me?

Comfort, you should realize that it is whose responsibility it is to end this relationship, of course, in fact, we don't have to delve into this problem at all, if she backs you, it is inevitable to be sad for a while, but it is not worth it when you calm down and think about it.

Every relationship has its final result, and I hope you will start your heart's emotional journey as soon as possible.

That means that you are just his emotional sustenance when he is lonely, and when there is a person who is stronger than you, you are not important. He or she doesn't really have feelings for you.

Look at the opening point Ten or twenty years of feelings are the same.

Focus a little more on other things, keep yourself busy, it's not a big deal, you can meet someone you like again.

Wishing you an early time.

Breaking up is not a bad thing, if that person is really worth your service for her, then you keep chasing it back.

It's a pity, I hope you can find your happiness soon.

Feelings and time are not directly related, right?

Fall into darkness......You will find strength.

Breaking up, in the eyes of others is a very normal thing, but for the parties themselves, breaking up is a very painful thing, some people can come out but some people are always in that alley to flip, and even pay for their own lives, the time of falling out of love after a breakup is an experience in our lives, very precious but not worth losing your life for this, when you break up you can learn to come out of the following methods.

Method:1. Broke up, learn to take care of yourself :

Breaking up is most afraid of being paralyzed, and any self-care action is good medicine: go to play ball, go to dance, go to the mountains and the beach to shout, go to walk the dog, go to the park to bask in the sun, go to the movies. Many people use rituals to complete psychological mourning, such as burning old letters, and such farewell acts have a healing effect.

2. I don't want to do the original thing: I am most afraid of breaking up, especially settling old accounts, regretting not being at the beginning, in fact, it will not help. Think of the golden words of the love saints:

I am fortunate to have it, but I am not killed"、"If you have loved before, why should you have it"、"If love is held in the hand, it kills this lovebird"，"The past is gone, and the future can be chased"……Collect the good memories and draw an end to this karma with blessings.

3. Strive to confide in others: Breaking up is most afraid of self-withdrawal, closure, and imprisoning yourself in a sad and lonely castle. Find someone to say, write it yourself, tell your heart online and netizens, and have an outlet for your emotions, otherwise you will break the embankment.

However, because I am afraid that it will be more sad or"The ugliness of the heart should not be publicized", afraid of other people's jokes, simply shut up, but I don't know that saying it is a kind of **, and it can be said that it means that you can face it calmly psychologically.

4. Divert attention: Breaking up is most afraid of being stuck in the quagmire and unable to extricate yourself, there are many ways to withdraw from the mood, leave the sad to travel, listen to the paragraph**, read the book, pray, or transfer the love, to help those stray dogs who need love, to care for the elderly and children around ......Young people most often use the Internet, TV, and chat to transfer.

5. Learn to grow and introspect: Breaking up is most afraid of rigid thinking, completely losing the ability to introspect or find meaning in pain, introspection is not to count whose fault it is, but to objectively evaluate the growth and learning of both parties after the loss, and can be used as a reference for the next relationship. The pain of breaking up is everywhere, touching the scene and hurting, the old days are vivid in the middle of the night, it is really miserable, sometimes it becomes a psychosomatic disease, chest tightness and heart pain, insomnia, anorexia, lack of concentration, etc., life is greatly affected, you need to come up with some ways to relieve your pain, in short, it is to accept the termination of the relationship between lovers, admit that it is in the past tense, over.

However, life can continue its journey of freedom and abundance.

If you don't love it, only points are the best choice for everyone, dragging it up will only hurt each other deeper, and you will meet a better him.

If you don't love it, why don't you divide it. Being together like this will only hurt both parties.

It's like a piece of clothing, it looks very beautiful, but you can't wear it or put it on, but you just like it, you buy it home, put it for a month, a year, and finally lose it as old clothes, you are ruined and it still doesn't belong to you in the end, so what's the point of keeping this dress! Do you understand what I said, don't force it if you don't belong to yourself, the result is the same as making your heart ache, when you continue to break it, it's messy, it's better to look up at the person who really belongs to you in front of you! It's like finding clothes that suit you, as long as it suits you, what kind of clothes are beautiful, it's okay to break up, give you a chance to choose again, a chance to experience again, a chance to be yourself again, depending on how you look at this problem, don't be angry, don't love and dwell on this relationship.