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First of all, here is an introduction to the so-called counselors. Counselors refer to teachers who are engaged in students' ideological and political education, students' daily management, employment guidance, mental health, and student party and league building. Each tutor generally manages one or more classes.
According to the standards of the national education authorities, colleges and universities are generally required to have one counselor for every 200 students. Therefore, counselors are one of the teachers who have the most contact with students and have the closest contact with them in colleges and universities.
What do you do if you encounter a nasty counselor? Because in colleges and universities, each student basically determines his or her own department and major as soon as he or she enrolls, and the possibility of transferring to a university or department is relatively small. So, I'll give you the following tips:
1. If you are not a student cadre, you will have relatively little contact with the counselor, so at this time, you should try to be a good student, so that the counselor will basically not find you. As an ordinary student, if you don't have any interaction with the counselor, you won't feel hateful. Clause.
2. Find out the reason why you dislike him, whether it is because of his personal problems or your own problems, if it is because of the counselor's problems, you can respond to the superior leaders, because the counselor also has the deputy secretary of the college (generally the department leader who focuses on student work), and the secretary. If it's your own reason, then you have to see if it's necessary to correct it.
In short, in daily life, we can always meet some people that we like or dislike, because no matter the school or society, it cannot be perfect.
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When I went to college, there was such a thing as a counselor, and to be honest, the counselor didn't care about the class he was responsible for, and he mainly had the final say, and many times the counselor left the work to the class leader.
Let's start with my thoughts on counselors.
I also have a counselor in the university.,This counselor for me,It's not good to say good.,It's not bad to say bad.,He won't let us add WeChat or QQ like those counselors in other classes.,It can be said that it's basically only a one-line contact with the class leader.,Many times you have something to do can only come to him through **.,It's nothing less to manage.,It's convenient to skip class, ask for leave, or something (bad students pass by),But if you don't hit the ** angry thing, he won't pay attention to you.,Send QQ, send text messages, those, don't reply, It's melancholy.
However, the counselor is still very useful in the university, the internship point is arranged by the counselor in my school, if you are familiar with the counselor, a good internship point can basically be done, this problem is very realistic, and then the dormitory arrangement is also the counselor's final say, as long as he wants to manage, the general arrangement of the university has to go through him, so it can't be very stiff. <>
I don't know why you think the counselor makes you annoying, if there is a dispute, I suggest you still complain behind your back, since the counselor is arranged, he also has a certain right, this can not be easily offended, if he is more talking, you can try to chat, there seems to be nothing in the university to say come back to gather to see the teacher like this, and in the past few years of study, you need to say hello to the teacher, just bear with it, if you really do it too much, you can complain like the school, But you have to be sure that the counsellor doesn't know what you did or can't do to you.
It is recommended that you bear with it if you don't have frequent contact and the plot is not serious, it has already happened. <>
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When I saw this problem, the first thing I thought of was our roommate's counselor, first of all, let me tell you about this wonderful counselor around me. We are an e-commerce major, there are a total of six classes of e-commerce, the counselor is Han, the original counselor is Han.
It's really no harm if there is no comparison, it is what kind of person who is particularly good at talking, but Han has a state of being a menopausal woman.
Let me tell you a real thing, we are divided into classes on duty in the health area, a class on duty for a week, from the beginning of the shift, (because each class is 58 people, there are more people, the health area is not large, and there is no need to clean the shift is divided into two large groups, Monday two groups go, Tuesday, Thursday is a group to go, Wednesday, Friday is two groups to go, no matter whether on duty or not, there is no need to go to morning self-study.) And when it is the turn of the shift duty, it is often necessary to go every day, and not a day can be bad, otherwise moral education points will be deducted. Isn't it weird?
Also, because we have people who check the morning and evening self-study, so we can't be late, (six classes are on the same floor) my arrival time is not the same, and the class time is often five minutes earlier than us. Every day, remember to be every day!! Every day!!!
Every day!!! I can only cry for my classmates.
But in fact, we are just students, what can we do in the face of the "hateful" counselor, we can only endure it, and then secretly pray that she will be transferred away quickly, and when it is particularly unbalanced, I will complain and complain with my classmates and roommates, after all, he is a counselor.
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Summary. When you encounter a counselor, you should first tell yourself three times not to be angry. After calming down, you have two paths, one is that you have enough energy to be able to change the rules, let the result change the direction you expect, and finally reach your expectations; The second is ninja!
Really give me a ninja, time will dilute these grievances and unfairness, power is a thorn on the road of life, and there will be a rainbow after crossing. Colleges and universities set up the orientation of counselors, who are the mentors of students' ideological and political, academic guidance and life planning. So the counselors basically work around these three aspects.
If there is a conflict or misunderstanding with the counselor or teacher in life, we first understand and communicate with each other. After all, a teacher has to deal with more than 200 people, and there may be some places that cannot be taken care of. Be yourself and don't worry too much.
The counselor was disgusting.
When you encounter a counselor, you should first tell yourself three times not to be angry. After calming down, you have two paths, one is that you have enough energy to be able to change the rules, let the result change the direction you expect, and finally reach your expectations; The second is ninja! Really give me a ninja, time will dilute these grievances and unfairness, power is a thorn on the road of life, and there will be a rainbow after crossing.
Colleges and universities set up the orientation of counselors, who are the mentors of students' ideological and political, academic guidance and life planning. So the counselors basically work around these three aspects. If there is a conflict or misunderstanding with the counselor or teacher in life, we first understand and communicate with each other.
After all, a teacher has to deal with more than 200 people, and there may be some places that cannot be taken care of. Be yourself and don't worry too much.
Dear, what are the specific problems?
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If the counselor is disqualified or seriously violates the teacher's norms, then you can go to the principal's office with several students to file a complaint. But if the counsellor is just something you don't like, then you can only have as little contact with him as possible.
Basic conditions for counselors:
1) Have a high political quality and firm ideals and beliefs, resolutely implement the party's basic line and various principles and policies, and have strong political sensitivity and political discernment;
2) Have a bachelor's degree or above, love the ideological and political education of college students, be willing to contribute, devote themselves to educating people, and have a strong sense of professionalism and responsibility;
3) Have a broad-caliber knowledge reserve in disciplines related to ideological and political education, master the basic principles and basic knowledge of disciplines related to ideological and political education, master the basic theories, knowledge and methods of ideological and political education, master theories and knowledge related to the sinicization of Marxism, master knowledge related to the practice of ideological and political education work for college students, and master knowledge of relevant laws and regulations;
4) Have strong organizational and management skills, language and writing skills, as well as educational guidance skills, investigation and research skills, and have the ability to carry out ideological and theoretical education and value guidance work;
5) Have a strong sense of discipline and rules, abide by the law, be honest, have a decent style, and be honest and self-disciplined.
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Here's how to report a counselor:
1. The head of the student section reflected
The section chief will usually simply remind the counsellor that the counsellor will converge or correct the incident so that the incident will have the least impact on both of you.
2. Complain to the vice president or deputy secretary of the party committee in charge of student affairs of the college.
Directly find the secretary of the primary college, the dean, the leader in charge, the best effect, the secretary has a lot of things, many activities do not often sit in the office can go a few more times, the office also has a duty schedule (leadership schedule), ** can be searched on the Internet, so that the best effect of rectification but equivalent to half smashing the counselor's job, especially the contract system. But I don't have a temper with your counselor, and I don't dare to do anything more.
3. Anonymous reporting
Write a letter to the secretary's office, the student section office, call anonymous**, mailbox, pay attention to monitoring, but the general counselor does not have the right to directly adjust the monitoring, and you need to apply to the college through formal channels.
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Summary. Hello, counselor, the bureaucracy is too serious, I feel very disgusting, I must stay away from him, because people like this kind of bureaucracy are easy to like to teach people, and like to put on a show, so we must stay away from him, try not to have anything, and do not have any contact with him.
Hello, is it the army or the school?
Hello, counselor, the bureaucracy is too serious, I feel very disgusting, we must stay away from him, because people like this kind of bureaucracy are easy to like to teach people, and like to put on an official show, so you must stay away from him, try to prevent or nothing, and don't have any contact with him.
Good school.
Hello, University?
I also drank too much and played drunk in the dormitory.
That's right. Hello, college counselors don't have much real power to put little shoes on you! If the other party infringes on your interests, you can collect evidence through video and audio recordings, report and complain to the school, or report directly to the Education Bureau.
Okay, thank you!
Hello, you're welcome! [than the heart] [than the heart] [than the heart].
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I am most afraid that students will be complained to the Education Bureau due to personal problems of the counselor.
Expand your knowledge: What is a college counselor].
The main responsibility of the college counselor is to guide the students to spend the four years of college safely, without violating the law and discipline, the counselor can be said to be everyone's first "college life mentor", need to guide college freshmen to do a good job in career planning, student affairs management is also the counselor in addition to ideological and political education, the most important core task. Each tutor generally manages one or more classes.
How do I complain about a counselor?
1. Director of the Complaint Office.
2. The deputy secretary of the party committee or the deputy secretary of the party committee of the hospital management work of the complaint institute.
3. Complaint Office.
4. Complain about the school Youth League Committee or school mailbox.
My University. The counselor is a more casual person, and he is also more humorous, can be a good friend with us, and when we have some difficulties in life, he also prefers to let them help, I feel really like a friend, and not a teacher's attitude towards us, but also can give us answers when we have questions.
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