Women often talk about breakups Can you ask for it

She is very selfish and only thinks of herself, although it is right for men to take care of women and accommodate women, and she takes it for granted, she has not been grateful for your efforts, and often says that she broke up, which is very inconsiderate. Do you think you can ask for it? You want to get married and worry about it all day long, and after you want to think about everything, you are afraid that you will make a mistake and cause her to quarrel and say divorce, do you feel so tired?

Divide it!

It's the boys who accommodate too much. Now girls are acting like everything should be, and they don't know how to be considerate at all. Try to ignore her for a while, and if you do, divide it! There is nothing nostalgic.

She's self-centered and selfish. I don't know how to empathize with other people's feelings. She thinks her boyfriend should do everything for her. If you don't go along with her, she'll fight with you. I agree with Mr. Xiaoxiao. Don't be pretty, kick early.

If it's not pretty, kick her as soon as possible.

I can't ask for it. The reason is simple, she doesn't love you at all.

After talking about breaking up or when you say that you are breaking up, do you have a painful expression? 》

Do you regret it after saying it?

If you regret it, you didn't mean it.

I've always said that before.

Say it when you're angry.

I don't even know what's going on.

Now it's changed. Don't know how to be considerate So do you know how to be considerate? 》

If you're very considerate, he'll do the same to you if he has a little conscience.

You try to change your own way of doing things...

For example, you also deliberately don't understand him** hang him**.

Then Xiaozhi persuaded her to change with affection...

Hehe, it's like me. I was like that when we quarreled, however, I was never willing to hang up on his **. However, if it's as serious as you say, I think she doesn't love you anymore, so it's not necessarily a good thing to leave her!

Don't say much, if you want to die, just want it.

Why is it so similar to me Although I often break up with my husband, it's because I'm afraid of losing.

Anyway, if she doesn't love you, you don't have to stick to it.

Ask yourself, do you love her?

1. The influence of the family of origin.

For example, this girl has not received the attention of her parents since she was a child, and her parents themselves are emotionally unstable people, so she naturally does not know how to express her emotions correctly.

2. Fragile heart.

Behind each of our emotions lies our inner fragility, helplessness, fear, and sadness.

If we don't have the ability to recognize this feeling ourselves, then we will bring this vulnerability and helplessness into our lives, into our intimate relationships.

But in fact, it may not be the immediate events that cause the conflict, or it may be the immediate events that have inspired the inner trauma of the past.

3. Not good at expression.

Since childhood, I have not learned how to express emotions correctly, and I have not actively learned communication patterns in adulthood, so I will try to express my feelings with certain behaviors when there is a conflict.

On the one hand, this expression is ineffective, and on the other hand, the inner grudge cannot be handled, so it will explode in the form of a breakup.

What do I do if I want to get back together, you ask? I'll give you a few suggestions:

1. Non-violent communication.

You need to know that there is something wrong with your communication model, and you need to learn to adjust your communication mode and stop controlling, blaming, and complaining.

2. Be the master of love and stupidity.

You have to know how to control your emotions, don't always be messy, you have to know why it's messy, it's messy.

3. Lower your profile.

Don't expect the other person to take the initiative to contact you when there is already a rift in the relationship, you can also take the initiative and don't launch a second attack because the other person has a cold attitude.

If you're like her and you've missed out on someone you like because you love to break up, you can DM me and I'll help you find the reason for the relationship failure and tell you what to do to get him back to you.

People who often talk about breaking up often have these kinds of psychology:

01 wants to scare and scare the other party, and retreats as advances.

When a couple quarrels, if both parties insist on what they have seen, cannot tolerate and be considerate of each other, and have to compete with each other, then the other party will say "break up!" in disappointment or urgency! ”

At this time, if the other party does not give up, shouting, "Whoever is afraid of whom, divides it!" "Then, as soon as the two sides are angry, they may really be divided.

In fact, the party who says "break up" first just wants to use the breakup to scare off the other party, end the quarrel, and win a game. He didn't really want to break up.

If the other party doesn't know how to back down at all, it may be self-defeating, and Hui Chan will really be divided because of anger. After that, both parties will be mired in pain and regret.

So, don't make any decisions on the gas head. Couples should know how to tolerate and give in to each other, winning a quarrel, but losing the relationship, it is not worth it.

02 Test the other person's attitude towards you.

In order to test their position in each other's minds and see if the other party really cares about them, some couples will tentatively propose to "break up" when they quarrel to see the other party's reaction.

If the other party is mature and steady, and cares about the other half very much, then he will definitely stop arguing immediately, soften his tone, and turn the conflict into a jade silk.

If the other party doesn't care or already has an idea, then, when he hears the message of "breaking up", he will be silent for a while, and then agree. The relationship really ended.

This kind of person grasps the weakness of the other party's "reluctance to break up" and threatens the other party to "if you don't (how) satisfy me, I will break up with you" in order to achieve their own goals. This is also a coquettish approach.

No matter what kind of psychology it is based on, it is not advisable for couples or couples to often talk about "breaking up".

Once in a while, the other party may be really nervous and will really obey you and satisfy you, but if you talk too much, the other person will feel bored and distrustful. Once you lose trust, you will really have the idea of giving up.

Couples should be more tolerant, considerate and cherish each other, and never hurt their feelings because of momentary anger or happiness in their mouths.

If a person often talks about breakups, it does not necessarily prove that the person does not love himself so much. Some people like to break up from time to time, just to make the other party have a sense of crisis and make the other party cherish themselves more.

1. Often talk about the breakup, maybe you just want the other party to have a sense of crisis.

Since the two trapped individuals are together, they must be running for a happy ending, but some people often talk about breaking up, and some people who are more sensitive in their hearts may be more concerned. It is recommended that the person who cares about it must speak up, because the other party may just want to let himself have some sense of crisis and make himself put in more effort to make the relationship better, rather than really wanting to break up. In fact, you can try to communicate more, make it clear that you don't like to hear this sentence, if you still often talk about breaking up, then two people can only break up, I believe that the other party will definitely change this habit.

Some couples, especially those in long-distance relationships, may often not see each other, so they are more insecure, and can only threaten each other with a breakup, and cherish the relationship more.

2. Let the other party cherish themselves more.

Presumably, everyone wants to be the one who is loved in love, and if the other party often talks about breaking up, it doesn't actually prove that the other party doesn't love him so much, but this person may want to make the other half cherish himself more. Because two people are equal in the relationship, there is nothing that can make the other party excited, so it can only be said that the breakup lets the other party know, and if you do it again, you can only let the relationship end. And some people are really more contrived, and they want the other party to coax themselves, especially when they say that they break up, the other party will coax themselves very happy.

Finally, I suggest that you must try to communicate, don't think about it yourself, otherwise it will only make the relationship worse and worse.