Will the separation affect the relationship, and what should I do?

It can be seen that your relationship has reached a flat period, and both of you are not good at adjusting.

Since you have both decided to get married, it means that you both plan to live with each other for the rest of your life, but for the time being, the two of you feel that life is too dull and you have no feelings. Personally, I think that at this time, if both of them pay attention to cultivating their feelings and adjusting their lives, they will still go on well.

In view of the current situation of the two of you, it may be a good time for both of you to think about things between you for a long time, sometimes two people stay together for a long time, it becomes a habit, and it may suddenly be separated for a period of time, so that both people will remember each other's goodness and the importance of each other. Moreover, he also sincerely wants to make an effort to change your current situation, otherwise he would not say that you can register first. So, you should also think about what the problem is between you, neither of you has any principled mistakes that the other party cannot accept, so maybe it is something that lacks a lubricant, adjust your feelings, and after this hurdle, it will be fine in the future.

What's more, even if you don't separate and keep the status quo, it will get worse and worse.

Of course, after separation, you also have to grasp a degree, which is not to say that if you don't live together, you won't have much contact. On the contrary, you can give the other person more care as you did when you first started in love, and occasionally surprise the other person so that he can remember your goodness. After all, you're all trying to get to an outcome.

Hehe, maybe you're too willful! Because he is older than you, he should be more mature and should feel that he should put his career first. And you still want to have that kind of fairytale love, he should feel that you are and can't accompany you, and see you suffocating.

Let you go for a break, because people of their age are very committed to their careers. In that case, you should try to be considerate of him!

Don't separate, even if you are at home, you have to give him independent space, for example, you can be busy with your own things, if you want to go out, and he is busy, you can go out by yourself, occasionally get used to being alone, in fact, it also feels good!

So that you are comfortable with each other, you are 10 years apart, your man must not be young, it is estimated that there are 30! A man in his 30s doesn't need a woman to stick to himself like a little tail! If it's a boy when he was a student, he would like to have a little tail sticking to himself to show off!

Why can't you find a job to do by yourself, even if it is to enrich your life, so that a man can afford you, he supports you, you have nothing to do every day, of course you will feel flustered and bored, and he has to work every day, he is already very tired, you don't arrange yourself well and accuse him of not accompanying you, don't you want to be bored and find a job, no matter how much it is paid, just to pass the time, to enrich the boring life. At the same time, it also enriches itself.

There must be an impact, but it's okay to think of it as an assessment between you, to see if the other party occupies a very important position in each other's hearts, and you can also see if you are really inappropriate.

You all have a sense of pressure on each other, otherwise he wouldn't have said that, but I'm telling you, there will definitely be problems when the two places are separated, it's good for you to give each other some space together, just think, no one wants to live in a depressing space If you don't separate, try not to separate! Bless you!

Why don't you want to think about why he wants you to live?

If he is happy with you, will he not want to live with you?

He definitely loves you. But you may always be dissatisfied with him, complaining, and ignorant on weekdays, which will affect his mood, right? It's hurtful to always fight when you have nothing to do, and it will also affect each other's lives.

Talk to him. When two people get along, they have to endure it.

You have to have an ego.

Don't lose yourself.

Even if you leave him, you can't.

Don't let him know!

Restrain yourself, too.

He will cherish you even more!

Feelings will affect You don't want to be too far apart, it's best to see each other every 2 days!

Separation will definitely affect the relationship Distance produces beauty This flower is wrong Distance can only produce strangeness Misunderstanding I personally experience Don't have a long-distance relationship.

How did you get along for two years, and you don't feel like your personality is suitable?

Why is he reluctant to go out, too busy or doesn't like it?

If it's the former, that's understandable, and if it's the latter, and you like to go out and about, have you ever wondered how this problem will be solved in the next few decades?

After getting married, the husband and wife often disagree and have conflicts over trivial things in life. After a conflict, there is a lack of communication and understanding between the husband and wife, which leads to the deepening of the conflict, which can lead to a state of separation. However, separation is not a good phenomenon and can have a significant impact on the relationship between husband and wife.

After separation, what are the effects on the relationship between two people?

In fact, most of the problems in a marital relationship are very simple, so simple that many people think that a temporary separation will solve the problem because there is a bit of a contradiction. But I don't know,It is precisely because of the hasty choice of "separation" that some couples end up in a marital crisis.

After a long separation, it's only a matter of time before the relationship disappears. This requires both spouses to take the initiative and not let the relationship survive or die. I hope that couples in life, if not necessary, try not to be separated for too long, and do not let intimate lovers become familiar strangers.

Acquaintance is fate, staying together is a blessing, and companionship is the longest confession. I wish all couples a happy marriage. The so-called partners need companies.

When there is no one to accompany you, this feeling loses its original flavor. For couples, companionship is even more important. It is the best lubricant for maintaining the relationship between husband and wife.

No matter what happens, it's customary to carry it alone. No matter what happens, I'm used to digesting it alone. Separated couples are most afraid of creating conflict.

As long as there is a contradiction, it is difficult to digest.

Parental separation can cause children living in harsh home environments to experience tension, distress, and insecurity. Constant conflict can also lead to physical and mental exhaustion of parents, which will inevitably reduce the level of care for their children and reduce the efficiency of handling various affairs. Long-term separations can easily lead to suspicion and distrust between couples.

After a quarrel, the husband and wife choose to separate beds or separate. Such an approach will only further deepen the contradictions. After the argument, the two did not face it rationally and did not solve the problem in time.

The emotional needs of both parties cannot be met. Over time, what started as a simple problem can slowly turn into a big problem. Finally, it may be difficult to reconcile, so the marriage may also end.

Only in heart-to-heart communication can you know each other's misunderstandings, better understand each other's thoughts, and know whether you are doing well or not. Then, it is also a process of expectation to be consumed gradually.

When you need it, the other party can't send it or can't send it in time. In the future, even if you send it, you don't need it anymore. Couples need proper communication, which is an important and primary way to maintain affection.

After separation, two people have no way to communicate in time, which will make the relationship between two people weaker and weaker, and it will also make two people become very strangers, if you don't send messages often, it may break the relationship between two people, and it will make two people quarrel often, and after separation, the relationship will be unstable and they will often quarrel.

Two people may be separated, and their relationship should slowly fade, and they will have some complaints about each other, two people will be very unhappy, and they will slowly no longer want to share something with each other and then break up completely.

Separation will make both parties suffer from lovesickness, easy to cause dissatisfaction, due to physical or psychological needs, to provide opportunities for third parties, easy to produce mutual suspicion, distrust, affect the relationship between the two parties.

After separation, the relationship between two people will slowly fade, and there is a high probability that there will be a third party on both sides, and the relationship between two people will be in crisis, and even divorce, which will break the family.

The cases of separation for two years due to emotional discord are:

1. Separation emphasizes that the husband and wife do not fulfill their marital obligations to each other, rather than unilaterally failing to fulfill their family obligations without knowing their relatives;

2. The reason for separation is due to the discord between the husband and wife, not the separation of the two places due to work, study and other reasons, and the husband and wife cannot live in the same room due to housing problems.

[Legal basis].

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.