May I ask who has a higher education than my boyfriend and finally got married

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A good relationship is really good!

    Do you think you would be happy if you didn't have feelings and only other aspects matched each other?

    In addition, if you have a higher education than your boyfriend, can't you have feelings?

    Those are secondary, don't be swayed by the world, go your own way and let others do the talking!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm an undergraduate, my husband graduated from high school, and I'm a very poor student. He loved me very much and often showed off to his friends that I was a college student.

    We are also very different in age, so when we are with each other's friends, we will find that each other's lives are very different, but should husbands and wives have their own lives?

    I don't think that's the case, and besides, academic qualifications don't speak for ability.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Education is not the key factor in determining marriage, in today's society, material conditions are the absolute key factor in determining marriage, of course, there are exceptions to everything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My girlfriend is a famous university, my technical school, and has worked! When I was in junior high school, we pulled together! We're going to get married after she graduates! It's really all what era to pull, just like it, and what kind of education is not educated!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What age are you still thinking about it? If your relationship is good enough, these non-emotional problems cannot be called problems! Have you thought about it, do you love each other? If you are deeply in love, isn't marriage the best choice?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My wife is more educated than me, so she is just as good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I will, because education level does not fully represent a person's value and charm, nor can it be the only criterion for measuring whether two people can love each other. In love, the most important thing is whether the feelings of Shuangsan Zheng Fang are sincere, mutual understanding, respect and support. When two people truly love each other, they can overcome the barriers caused by cultural differences together and explore the joy and meaning of life together, so as to build a deeper and long-lasting relationship.

    Of course, education level and education level play an important role in a person's growth and development, which can help a person better understand the world, improve their own quality and ability, and can also provide more opportunities and challenges for a person's career and career. However, education level is not the whole story of a person, and it should not be the only criterion by which people judge and evaluate a person.

    In short, when choosing a love partner, you should pay more attention to the other party's quality, personality, personality, values, etc., rather than just paying attention to the other party's cultural level. When two people have similar concepts, concepts, and pursuits emotionally, they can go further together and create a better future together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. Because falling in love is necessarily conditional, not unconditional. We are all within the corresponding range, to find someone who can accept each other.

    A little girl told me that her parents were opposed to her marriage. When I asked her the reason carefully, it turned out that she had a boyfriend who graduated from junior high school, and her parents lost their temper after hearing it, thinking that their daughter would definitely suffer if they lived with such a man.

    I asked her about the specific situation, and the little girl said that her boyfriend was bigger than her, but she still had nothing, it could be said that she had nothing, no car or house, she was in her thirties, graduated from junior high school, and she didn't even have a serious job. The girl is a graduate of a prestigious university and has a stable job. There is a big difference in education between the two.

    I asked her if there were any good points? The girl said that she was very good to her, and that she was kind people.

    I say bluntly, your parents are right against it, if you continue to be with him, and then get married and have children, your life after marriage may be similar to his current life. There is also the fact that there is too much difference in the degree of Wenshan and material transformation between you, and there will be no topic or no topic in the future. If you can tolerate this life, then you can get married, and if you can't stand it and want a higher standard of living, it can be tough.

    When what you want is not proportional to reality, you will quarrel over money, and then it will be difficult for the two of you to communicate, and the relationship between the two of you will change.

    Because it is very realistic, men in their thirties, and then they still have nothing, plus their education is not high, basically life is like this, and it is difficult to make big changes.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Well, first of all, that's a good question, but it's still not good enough. Well, I'll start by talking about my opinion, in today's society, competition is fierce, although academic qualifications are not a reflection of competitiveness, but it is definitely an important component. In the case of the same conditions, the higher the education wins, of course, such a premise is not true, people are each with their own strengths and weaknesses, so many people are more respectful of "character determines fate, details determine success or failure".

    Since ancient times, lovers have come out of Xi Shi, and for people who are in love, it is often difficult to perceive the shortcomings of the other party, so we should have a more comprehensive understanding of our other half. For example, what is the reason for his low education? Is he motivated?

    What are the advantages and disadvantages? We need to look not only at the results, but also at the causes that led to them. Many people have low educational qualifications, but many of them are successful; Many people have a high degree of education, but there are also many who spend their lives mediocre and mediocre.

    As a man, I personally feel that a sense of responsibility is very important, and a person with a sense of responsibility will do whatever it takes to shoulder his due responsibilities and make himself constantly improve. In this sense, academic qualifications ≠ knowledge. There was such a size comparison:

    Knowledge and experience, although not 100% correct, but at least we can see how important a person's vision is, therefore, the value of a person is not determined by his position (here can be understood as academic qualifications), but by the direction he really takes and puts into it. That's how I think about academic qualifications. In short, I will value the qualities of the other party more than the academic qualifications, provided that these qualities can stand the test of reality.

    The question should have been answered at this point, but it is still not solved. It doesn't matter what we think of your boyfriend's lower education than you, the key is what you think, what your boyfriend thinks and what your family will think. If you solve these three problems, then your doubts should be relieved.

    I hope that through mutual communication, your problem can be solved as soon as possible.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The key is how you feel, if you have a common language and love each other, that's enough, don't live so tired in life, whether you live happily or not is completely your own feeling.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Low education, but don't have low ability, as long as you can earn money and are willing to spend it on you, I think you can be happy, as long as you don't be careful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To be honest, I will mind a little, but the main thing is to look at his ability, now is the information age, there are many channels for learning, and academic qualifications are not the standard for people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    All I know is that the first person who taught college didn't go to college. = =

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As long as you have the mind to make a fortune, you don't need to be so serious.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on how you choose, whether you like the appearance or the inside. If I choose, as long as I really like the other half, I won't care about this, not to mention that the current education doesn't mean anything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I talk to my friends about a topic, I find it very interesting. This topic is, are couples with large differences in educational backgrounds happy? Fundamentally, couples with different educational backgrounds are also one of the keys to marital happiness, but this key is not absolute.

    In fact, many people have not seriously considered the issue of academic qualifications before marriage, thinking that as long as both parties like each other, what if the educational background is low? Just like some people, they are college graduates, and the wife they are looking for is a primary school graduate, they may be sweet before marriage, but they may become unfortunate after marriage! Therefore, before marriage, you must take into account the issue of academic qualifications.

    <> current views on love and marriage both advocate emotional freedom. When it comes to choosing a love partner, most of us think that as long as there is love, everything will be fine. Dreams are always beautiful, but the reality is much crueler than we think.

    Immortal love is certainly enviable, but it can be a rare case. We are defeated by the realities of life.

    What exactly is the point of a degree if you don't have spiritual needs? However, I want to tell you that you must choose to be mentally strong and can work hard to earn money when you get married, and the record of formal schooling is on behalf of a person or even his original family learning cognitive ability, which is formed under the ideological education of two hundred and three, once you develop your low-grade spouse with you, and want to change him again, it is absolutely impossible!

    The degree is different, the pass is generally not the same, the angle is also different, and more importantly, the IQ of the next generation cannot be guaranteed, so everyone has to learn, it can only be said that the degree is low and not because of other reasons, most of them are because the IQ test is not appropriate Speaking of which, IQ is still a bit of a gap, don't tell the truth.

    When both sides have an advantage that the other party absolutely does not have, and this advantage is irreplaceable, the gap in academic qualifications will be smoothed out, otherwise you try, if both people are ordinary, there is no outstanding advantage, and there is no outstanding disadvantage, what will happen? They will eventually encounter some figures in society that they admire, voluntarily or involuntarily thrown back into their original circle of class life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Education is not the only criterion, the more important three views must be met, if the three views are different, anything will quarrel, together will be very tired, and academic qualifications can be improved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, because marriage does not depend on academic qualifications, what is important is the three views of two people, and if the three views are the same, it is very happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It will be happy, because if two people can be together, two people will attract each other, so they will be happy.

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