There is a give and take to see who says it well, and what it means to have a give and give

There is a give-and-take, a relaxed body Gao Jianyu has a word, willing. Willing to let the child trap the wolf, how can you make me sad, haha. Now looking at it separately, there is a give-and-take.

So sometimes, giving up something is actually a harvest. If you have some wrong ideas, you are naïve, you should give up, the sooner the better, the more thorough the better. And learn from your mistakes, and your heart is relaxed.

I originally wrote an article "Netizen - Big Waves and Sands - Friends", which is a process and a result. Through the process of big waves and sand, the result is achieved. Discard some or be discarded by some, and the rest is the essence.

Perhaps this process needs to be repeated. It's so hard to know someone and be known by someone. But the process is required and worth it.

Watching TV that day, it seemed to be a lady in Shenzhen, a woman with a pseudonym Xu Lian, the school arranged a job for her and sponsored her brother to go to high school, because the school was short of funds for a while, and she did not pay the money to support her brother on time, so she complained about the school. This incident caused a strong shock in the land of Guangdong. Since when has people's greed grown, and people's sense of gratitude and shame has greatly decreased?

That is, when the snake freezes and the kind farmer puts it in his arms, it feels warm and nothing, and when it is hungry, it forgets that it was the farmer who revived it, and it was its instinct to bite the farmer to save his life. There is also Mr. Dongguo and the wolf, the same thing. However, snakes and wolves are generally vicious animals, and animals do not know civilization.

The difference between humans and animals is that people have a sense of civilization, and they should also have a sense of civilization, and they should have a grateful heart and a tolerant heart. Therefore, everyone blamed Ms. Xu Lian for her ungrateful, calculating, and ungrateful behavior. Xu Lian's final situation was not ideal, and no one dared to accept her for employment.

Because of her character problems. She didn't know how to give up, so she didn't get it. If there is giving, she will be relaxed, she is not reluctant, there is no gain, so as a result, she is not easy.

Ha ha. Therefore, she is a negative teaching material to the world. But the Xu Lian incident has taught the school a deep lesson.

Why do you pay for your heart to fund each other, and your kindness is not rewarded? Should we be good people and good deeds in the future? The explanation from the school side is:

Keep going. I don't believe that everyone in society is Xu Lian. The school is right in this way.

In the big waves, there will always be those who can't stand the washing, and there will always be real gold. Don't choke on food. Through the process of washing in practice, the floating dust is discarded, and the real gold is obtained from it, and the process of washing is also a process of experience, insight into the world, open-mindedness, and distinguishing friend from foe.

Who is the enemy, who is the friend, who is the force that can be relied on, and who is the power that can be fought for. It's so important for your career, your mood, your life. Give up when you should give it, get it when you deserve it.

For floating dust and dirt, it is easy to give up; For real gold and true friendship, it is easier and more enjoyable.

I found it on the Internet, in my opinion, giving and giving is like people looking at things, right is right, wrong is wrong? Right and wrong are all about one heart, and so are trade-offs!

When you want to gain something, you have to pay some price, and these costs are often accompanied by the loss of something.

The meaning of giving away is that giving up one thing will inevitably get another thing, just like the course of life, giving up the prosperous and chaotic world, you will get a peaceful experience and a peaceful life, life is like this, give up the people who don't love you, you will get the people who love you, rather than the pain, it is better to give up, and return yourself a peace, and will not suffer because of not love, because of the sacrifice, you will find that there is a true love around you, and you will not be able to get the person who really loves you.

When you know something, you should say it.

Willing, willing, giving will be gained. This is what the ancients often said, and many times I will disagree with it, and I will think stupidly: what kind of theory did the ancients have, and why do you have to give to it? It was only now that I understood the meaning of this sentence.

In many cases, when we decide something important, we need a willing heart, and at this time, we should look at this issue from a comprehensive direction, if we make the wrong decision, maybe we will lose big because of the small. For example, once upon a time, there was a rich merchant, one day when he went to the sea to do business, unfortunately encountered a big storm, the sea wind was howling, at this time, the ship was about to sink, the captain shouted: "Sir, throw away the **, or you will sink".

But the rich merchant did not listen to the well-intentioned advice, and in the end, he sank to the bottom of the sea with his ** and died forever. Yes! In daily life, we are not like this, because of a little profit, and lose the most important thing, if the businessman gives up **, then he can continue to see the beauty of the world, but he does not have this kind of psychology of giving and taking, so he died.

The third year of junior high school: Gray exclusive & bell.

The superficial meaning of giving up is to give up some ideas and practices in order to get a happy ending, so when dealing with a thing, if you want to achieve an ideal goal, it is best not to start out of thin air, and sometimes you should give up when you should give up, so as to make the result better.

The ancients said: You can't have both, especially when you are willing to pay for others, you can also let yourself get more help in the future, and some people just want to blindly ask and never be willing to give, so they will not get a good ending in the future.

When you encounter difficulties, others will also help you, so don't be too stingy, and don't be too short-sighted.

Only by relics can we gain righteousness.

Those who are selfish and selfish do not have a few trustworthy friends around them, and some of them are also friends of alcohol and meat, they all have their own ghosts, and they all think about how to get benefits from others, and in the end, no one can get benefits. True wisdom is to know how to give up some interests in exchange for the sincere treatment of others.

Zi said, "Let it be profitable, and complain." "If you only value your own interests and only think about yourself in everything, then it is easy to attract the resentment of the people around you. Everything is mutual, you get benefits from others, but you don't let others get any benefits, others will think that you don't treat yourself sincerely, you are unkind, don't blame others for being unjust.

The people around you are unrighteous to you, so no matter how much you get, it can't last long, if you want to be long, you only have to give up some benefits to exchange for other people's repentance.