The person I loved the most in the past wants to reconcile with me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Someone you loved before?

    This person is the one you loved the most in your heart, but not the one you love the most now?

    If you always want to be together, then you should still have some expectations in your heart.

    If it's more about prevarication, it means that you're resisting in your heart, but this can also be another manifestation of people to the person they like, because there are many people who will resist in front of the person they like.

    So you still have to think about whether you're resistant, whether you're constantly thinking about the past and thinking about getting back together.

    And he wants to reconcile with you, which means that you have separated, so you should also think about the reason. Whether it fits or not.

    Actually, I don't know much about love, just a little opinion.

    It's up to you to decide, and often the casual thinking in your heart is the most real.

    Lovers eventually become married.

    I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then it depends on whether you have feelings for him, and also to see whether the reason for your breakup is impulsive or the accumulation of contradictions, if the latter, you have to be mentally prepared, once you decide to hold hands with him again, the same contradiction is likely to happen again, since you asked, it means that you hesitate, hesitation largely means that you want to get back together, people are so greedy for the beauty of their past, so you have to see your heart rationally, people just live like this, it's okay to step on the same boat twice in your life, maybe this time is your harbor of happiness! Well, I wish you happiness....

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What did you break up about before, was it her reason? Maybe it's because she realizes that she was wrong and feels that she can't find a man who treats her like you anymore, so she wants to go back and cherish you. What matters is whether she loves you and do you still love her?

    If both questions are yes. Then I think you can try and reconcile. As long as the two love each other, the others will not be too important.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You will ask this to show that you lack love, whether you have a lover now or not, maybe it can prove that you are not satisfied with the status quo, people always miss every good thing in the past, but they don't know that the most important thing in the present is to grasp the present, according to their own situation, make the real choice in their hearts, but before making a choice, you have to think, you did that, will you regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ask your heart, do you still love her the most? Do you still have what it takes to love her? Are you still willing to love her (both past and present)?

    If you think about these things clearly, you can make a decision. The problem of feelings is always your own business, and only you can give yourself the answer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on how you live now, how you feel about him, and sometimes a lot of things are in the past, and there will be gaps in the union.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How can you ask about something as important? Your own heart is the best balance.

    However, I believe that your heart is more inclined to no, because you still have a good memory of your previous relationship, so you came to ask. If you're inclined to and, you don't need someone else's answer.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it were me, I would refuse without hesitation, things are wrong, are you sure you still love this person the most?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on whether you still have feelings for TA now, and if you do, you will continue the front edge, and if you don't, forget it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can't be a couple and still be friends, you will only find trouble.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hey, it's the same thing with me now, and I'm bothered by that.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If Shenghu hurt her, why did he go to her?

    You are doing this with Li to hurt her again.

    I think the chances of you getting right are slim.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Only time will tell.

    If a person has been hurt, it will be hard to believe.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe you should talk to him first, some things have to go with the flow, maybe some things are not what you think, that group is the person you love the most, so is your relationship lovers, if not, then he can add someone he thinks is important, isn't it?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe you think too much, and he cares about everything related to you, and there's nothing wrong with that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're too sensitive... You can ask him about it. Maybe he's having a good time with your best friend

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's okay, you and your sisters should talk about this and keep their distance from each other!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Note that lovers are developed from friends. Crying is not the solution to the problem, you should solve it sensibly, it is better to talk to your boyfriend, not too aggressive.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let each other be quiet and reflect on the reason for the breakup in the first place.

    If you still love her, try to find her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Chic, the more twisted, the more looked down upon, if she is divided, you can order it directly, so that you may be able to keep it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As long as there is fate, yours will always be yours, and you can't force it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you love her, ask her to change her mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How to get out quickly? Forget yourself first, from now on you will not be the same person you used to be.

    To forget that person, it is better to forget yourself and tell yourself, not that you are afraid that he will forget, but that you are afraid that he will remember you again one day. The years take away the memories, but the memories will become clearer and clearer. If one day, he goes back and tells you that he has been thinking about you, don't believe it, because he is no longer the original him, and you are no longer the same you used to be.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Find a better man than him.

    Okay, why did you break up?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not all Fu Chong Sun Bi will get the return we want, be generous, just consider it a good deed, Xiangkai has been in the letter for a long time, they will understand and understand you.

    May you have a happy life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Use your actions to influence her

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's like she and Xi'an, Haoyue, and Zhao Lei are having fun together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I'll help you pull, friend, you're a post-80s generation, love her, love her very much, come to her city for her, well, you're embarrassed to say it, don't hit**, hit **I guess you can't say it, right, you send a message, or you will QQ and her for a day, tell him what you think, you were wrong before, you really, really love her, really, really want to get along with her, see what she does, if your girlfriend has a hard attitude and doesn't forgive you, then you're trying, you see if she's angry, deliberately angry with you, If she really doesn't forgive you, then work hard, give up if the last effort is useless, oh Okay to digress to me, you send her a message, I send a message for everything, rarely hit **, send a message that you dare not say, embarrassed to say, usually can't say all the words, and then after sending the message, make an appointment to meet, be together, chat, and then I guess it's okay, I think you love your girlfriend Le, hey, I wish you a successful friend, happy Lantern Festival

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Friend: Seeing that your question is really a headache, can you give me a punctuation mark?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If it's because of you let him go. Then you should cherish her this time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't know whether to say that you are lucky or unlucky, in the final analysis, it is to meet the right person at the wrong time, if you still love the boy before, you will break up with the current one, if you don't love him, then simply keep the current relationship. I don't know if that's right or wrong to tell you, but I think it's at least a sane approach. You think about it, opportunities don't wait for anyone, happiness will slip away at any time, it's better to cut through the mess quickly.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Have the right conscience!

    One is my favorite, and the other is my current boyfriend.

    It's really embarrassing.

    I can only say to you: cherish the people in front of you. Don't regret it in the future!

    Now that you have a boyfriend, don't think about anything else, your current boyfriend should be good to you! Cherish him! It would be a fool to give up loving your boyfriend for the sake of an unreliable sentence. Believe in reality!

    I'm asking you: Are you happy with your boyfriend now?

    If you feel happy, don't throw away this happiness that belongs to you!

    I'm sure you'll make a smart choice

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What I have never understood is why there is so much confusion when someone who has left the person who is now to be reconciled should come back??? Do you have to be his girlfriend when he comes back?

    Why don't you spend more time getting to know each other first and being ordinary friends first? If he truly loves you, he will cherish you and give him a chance to be close to you. And you just need to know more about him and observe him, if you think you are suitable for each other and then make a decision together, the decision is not now.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't look back, the past is gone, let him become a good memory, find one that suits you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Do you want to fall down twice in the same lane?

    Experience tells us that he doesn't really love you, otherwise he wouldn't have left you easily.

    He just wanted to find someone who was good to him.

    Think about it, it's better to think it through.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Determine your own feelings

    Don't hurt the two of them by then, that's the last thing you want, isn't it?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I remember a friend of mine said something to me, and he said that he didn't remember it either, but just told me that it was better not to change than to change. - #

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