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The death of the elders, whether it is a big or small one, is the choice of the parties themselves, trying to see off the elders in the most appropriate way they think is most appropriateI don't think there is a question of whether it should or shouldn't, at most I can say it: do what you can.
Like our family, when an elder dies, the family generally goes in a normal way, but the richer people will do a lot of pomp. I remember that last year there was an old man in our village who passed away, and her grandson was very rich, and when she came back for the funeral, several people from the village came to watch.
For example, when someone else's family holds a funeral, at most invite two people who can sing, and then sing for half the night. This is not the case, I directly found two troupes, set up a stage to sing a duet, and sang for several days, from the death of the old man to the day of the burial, it can be regarded as tossing the old men and old ladies in our surrounding villages, and rushed to his house after dinner one by one.
Some people say it's extravagant, but I don't think so. The so-called waste is that those things are thrown away after they are done and are not used by others. However, these things, whether spiritual or material, are talked about by people, and they are not wasteful, at most they are just a little more expensive.
Because the old man who passed away was over 90 years old, everyone said that it was a happy funeral, so there were fireworks for two or three days in a row, which is really rare on our side.
Although the person has passed away, butIn the view of the inherent concept of the Chinese, if the old people's posthumous affairs are not handled properly, they will be criticized by people, especially those who have money and do not want to do it, and will be poked in the backbone and scolded by the villagers for not being filial
So I think it's okay to do what you can. Moreover, now that the average village has begun to implement the ban on doing things in vain, it should be a decision made after considering many aspects.
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People have the ability, so they will do it, if he doesn't get angry, it is estimated that no one will know about it.
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I think it's okay to do it according to your own situation, if you have the ability, you can do it big, and if you don't have a small size, it's all your mind.
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In the countryside, it is very popular to hold large funerals, and I personally feel that I can do my best.
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I remember that it should be, after all, it was the mother who gave birth to herself and raised herself.
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This kind of thing depends on the individual, if you have the ability, you can do it in a big way, and you can do it within the economic scope.
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It's not necessary to do a big job, I think it's okay to get your heart. Putting on a big show will only make people feel that they have money and nowhere to spend it.
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In fact, the red and white ceremonies in the countryside are all very big, and they are just local characteristics.
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It depends on your own environment and ability.
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There are many factors involved in the question of whether or not to do so, and the most intuitive is the economic reason. Many families don't have this ability, but most families just need to respect local customs. Nowadays, a lot of white things have been simplified, especially in the big cities, where the rituals have slowly faded.
Now the white affairs in the countryside are still relatively multi-layered, and those who can have the conditions will naturally not be stingy, after all, this is the last nostalgia for the elders.
The psychology of the elders, in fact, most of the elderly were extremely frugal during their lifetime. It is indispensable to save nature in life, and after death, I hope to be able to save some resources. Many old people want to be buried in the earth and keep everything simple.
Not everyone wants to be buried in a grand way, but more to see the idea of the old man. In rural areas, many elderly people have been planning for their posthumous life since they retired, and in fact, death is an acceptable thing for them. What process do you want to go through, and they will be buried in ** in the future, they all have their own ideas.
As a public figure, Baoqiang's mother passed away, and the whole village came to see him off, and this kind of scene can be regarded as a kind of aftermath. After all, the customs are different in different places, and who doesn't want to use it to have a good ceremony. Baoqiang has the ability to do it, so what is there to say.
In fact, most people feel that it is not necessary, and they are more inclined to rules in their hometown. While young people may not care, the older generation does pay attention to these etiquettes.
Whether it should be a big deal has also become one of the topics now, in fact, we can do our best for the handling of etiquette. It's much bigger than Baoqiang's battle, but the current netizens are too exaggerated to describe things.
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We should be filial to our parents and spend more time with them so that they can live comfortably in their old age.
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People's health is very important, and many people have lost their lives because of illness.
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If the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, it is still necessary to find time to spend more time with your parents.
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In life, if you can live for yourself for a while, you can play more.
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Life is precious, cherish the people in front of you, and don't regret it until you lose it.
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It turns out that after a divorce, it can be divided so thoroughly that you can't even participate in such a thing.
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I can see Ma Rong's ruthlessness, and I can also see that the world is unpredictable.
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I saw that Baoqiang now has another girlfriend.
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There shouldn't be yet, I don't think Wang Baoqiang will get the certificate so quickly.
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I think the two of them must have feelings, but I don't know if they have a certificate or not.
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The two of them seem to have known each other for a long time, and only the two of them know what the specific situation is.
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I think it's possible, but only they know about it, and they don't say we don't know.
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Two days ago, Wang Baoqiang was pushed to the hot search again, not only because his mother died, but also because his new girlfriend was found at his mother's funeral.
So why did ** push Wang Baoqiang's new girlfriend to the entertainment hotspot? In fact, there were reports of Wang Baoqiang's new girlfriend before this, but it didn't attract too much attention.
But this time is different, Wang Baoqiang's new girlfriend's behavior of wearing linen and filial piety at Wang Baoqiang's mother's funeral violates common sense, so it has attracted much attention.
People with a little common sense of life know that wearing linen and filial piety is something that only family members can do, so there are many ** people who are speculating that Wang Baoqiang has secretly married. Actually, Lemon personally thinks that no matter what, as long as they are doing well, it's okay.
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I don't think so, the biggest hot spot is Wang Baoqiang's grief-stricken performance at his mother's funeral.
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It's not all, because Wang Baoqiang also took his girlfriend to his mother's funeral, so it's not strange to write the two things together.
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Maybe people don't think about it so much, some people just like to magnify things that don't need to be said
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The main thing is that the baby brought his girlfriend to the funeral, ** borrowed the topic to play.
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In fact, this is not to rub the heat, it may be a kind of filial piety.
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As long as the star is in the wind, it will be hot, don't doubt anything.
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As long as things about Wang Baoqiang will be dug up, everyone wants to find hot news.
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Because Wang Baoqiang became the object of everyone's comfort after experiencing the divorce, and now his mother is dying, which is normal.
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is because Wang Baoqiang is more popular, and everyone loves to watch dramas.
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After all, it is the family of the star, and Wang Baoqiang has also had a lot of news in recent years.
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Of course, it's because she has a celebrity son, so the attention is high. If there was no star son, it would have been just an ordinary funeral.
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Because Wang Baoqiang is the object of many people's attention, what happened to Wang Baoqiang will naturally be concerned.
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Because Baoqiang is now a first-line star, Dou Wei's affairs at home have also attracted a lot of attention.
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Of course, it is because Wang Baoqiang is relatively popular and his current reputation is also good, so he will receive such attention.
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Mainly because of Wang Baoqiang's mother, Wang Baoqiang himself is very famous, and he has experienced a lot of turmoil.
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Wang Baoqiang is a filial child, it is said that he went to spend Mother's Day with his mother with his brother last month, when the old man's condition was not bad, perhaps it was the sudden deterioration of his condition, which led to such an ending.
For Wang Baoqiang's mother's funeral, but she didn't see her granddaughter Wang Zishan, I don't know if she didn't know, or Ma Rong deliberately concealed this matter from her daughter and didn't let her granddaughter attend her grandmother's funeral? If Ma Rong is only temporarily unaware, it can be said, but if he deliberately does not let his daughter attend his grandmother's funeral without knowing it, I have to say that her behavior is despicable, after all, abiding by filial piety is the virtue of Chinese children, no matter what grievances adults have, don't affect the children.
Wang Baoqiang, who is currently dealing with his mother's funeral in Hebei, is still in infinite grief and has not yet come forward to respond to the matter. I hope that Brother Qiang's festival will change smoothly and not be too sad, so that his mother can leave with peace of mind.
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Even if she is divorced, her granddaughter will always be her grandmother's granddaughter, and Ma Rong will not let her daughter go, which is too immoral.
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Wang Baoqiang treated Ma Rong like that at that time, she would definitely not let the child go to the funeral.
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I didn't participate, it's a pity that I didn't look at my grandmother in the end!
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Ma Rong is a bit immoral in doing this, after all, it is her daughter's grandmother.
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It's really ruthless, but it's also to blame Wang Baoqiang for being too much for Ma Rong at that time.
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didn't go, Ma Rong definitely won't let me go, after all, they are all divorced, and they are so stiff.
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The grievances of the previous generation should not affect the children, they are innocent.
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I think Ma Rong is doing too much. When someone's grandmother died, they didn't let the family go to the funeral.
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It seems that there is no, Ma Rong will not let him go.
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It is reasonable to go to Baoqiang's mother's funeral, after all, this is a treasure of the past. In the love life with Baoqiang, Ma Rong is the more advantageous party, and there is no such thing as Baoqiang's mother being sorry for Ma Rong. For this incident, we should ask Baoqiang for advice.
In fact, as two more topical figures, Ma Rong will become the focus of attention if she attends or not. Perhaps, as a past tense, Ma Rong's choice is right.
In fact, it is not so simple to want to attend, for temporary identity reasons. Ma Rong had a lot of trouble before, and the divorce incident had been fermented for a long time. Such a thing happened at a time that has not been forgotten by the public, if Ma Rong appears in Baoqiang's hometown, she needs to face more than just Baoqiang.
Just from the battle of Baoqiang's mother's trip, Baoqiang's family should have more say in the village. Ma Rong probably didn't dare to go.
Ma Rong responded positively that she couldn't accept the news because she was still on the plane, and immediately responded after getting off the plane. Now many people are suspicious of this statement, after all, it is very suspicious for Ma Rong to travel at this time. And there is no new action of Ma Rong in the follow-up, so naturally there are many people who come to spray Ma Rong.
Moreover, the settlement between Ma Rong and Baoqiang is separated from the law, in fact, there are too many disagreements in the handling of individuals. This time Baoqiang's mother died, what identity did Ma Rong come to? Whether or not Baoqiang's consent can be obtained is a question.
In fact, we can't ask Ma Rong to do well, it's just that we think it's right to go, but Ma Rong may also have her own reasons.
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I should go, because I feel that I used to be his daughter-in-law, and I must do such a duty.
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I should go, after all, if I want my child to go, I won't take my child abroad.
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I won't go, since they are all divorced, they have nothing to do with them.
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I think I'm her words, I won't go. I was afraid that I would be embarrassed to meet, but I would send my child over and let him attend my grandmother's funeral.
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Out of morality, I still went back to participate, but they are already divorced, so even if Ma Rong doesn't go, there is nothing to say.
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I guess I will take my child to participate, after all, there is still a child, and I can't make decisions for my child because of adults.
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I won't, because I'm divorced, and Baoqiang has a girlfriend, so I still have to avoid suspicion, but the children have to participate.
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After all, it was his ex-mother-in-law who should have attended this funeral.
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None of them are fuel-efficient lamps! What is the significance of the hype that is full of support for society?!!
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It's very simple, she is not an artist, and it doesn't make sense to be on the hot search, but as long as there is her topic, Wang Baoqiang is inseparable, so it's really hard to say who filmed her and who fired her.
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Ma Rong is also unwilling to be lonely, he also wants to be famous, and being on the hot search is also a kind of hype for himself, just wanting to be famous.
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It's still in BB. These are the things they do. It shouldn't be pulled out again. It's just an ordinary family matter. As for the fart knitting.
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Ma Rong is famous, but her reputation is that rats cross the street, everyone shouts and beats the name, notorious, cheating money and sex, who dares to use her to enter the entertainment industry, it means that there is really no one to find it, and the quality of the actor will be greatly reduced.
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If it's not marrying Wang Baoqiang, she's nothing, who else knows her, her good life has been ruined, and now she's gaining popularity everywhere.
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Maybe it's just to get everyone's attention, to get a certain economy, this kind of behavior is also very fascinating, and the personal pursuit is different.
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Tearing Baoqiang's new girlfriend to take the baby to the airport "catwalk", Ma Rong's frequent hot searches will bring a certain amount of heat to her, that is, economic benefits.
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People just earn the click-through rate of your curious babies, no matter whether you scold or envy, jealousy and hate, people won't care, the more you click, the more people will earn.
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It is estimated that I still want to rub off on a wave of heat. After all, she still wants to mix in the entertainment industry, this is a ready-made hot search, and she doesn't have to spend money to buy it.
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