Just fell out of love, and actually wanted to find his cousin, can you save it?

Yes, of course, falling out of love can be lonely, it's inevitable.

Your cousin is 13 years old, you are 24, probably you have a kind of love and beauty for her.

She comes to your house every summer, so you still have a certain impression of her.

Your mentality should be that you are out of love, you want to find someone to accompany you, that's all, or you think that your cousin's simple youth is more unburdened to be with her, you can still take care of her, you may have the simple and youthful mentality of missing your girlfriend before, and there is salvation, you are nothing, you just want to vent and soothe the irritability.

What is saved or not, think too much about you. If you break up, you will break up, and what else will you think??? Of course, maybe you think about the past, some of the past and your previous self's fantasies about the future.

I actually want to go out with your little cousin.,I don't know if what you want to bring is a "daughter" or a "wife".。。 It's okay to take your little cousin out to play, just have fun, don't let chaotic thoughts mess up your life. When you are unhappy after the breakup, you must put your mind on other things, throw it away, and have a good happy eleventh.

It's hopeless, find a piece of tofu and hit it.

Uh, no. She's so small.

Summary. Second: Correctly understand love A new assessment of love is also a good way to get rid of the pain of falling out of love.

Think more about the contradictions between two people, and tell yourself that maybe it is really inappropriate for two people to be together, and maybe the love that happened is wrong and irrational. And if you wait until the future when the two really come together to find out that it is not suitable, it will be too late, so maybe it is a good thing to break up when you are in love. In this way, having a correct understanding of love and evaluating broken love from a new perspective will reduce a lot of psychological pressure and make you feel balanced.

My sister who just fell out of love came, and I really couldn't control what to do.

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First: self-soothing method After falling out of love, you must learn to self-soothing from the source of the banquet. You have to tell yourself that it is not because you are not good that you fall out of love, but that the other party has no vision, no blessing, and it is the fault of the other party, and he will definitely regret it in the future.

Or the person who rejects the other party first in his heart is that he has already planned to not want him in the first place, but he just spoke later than him. This mentality of "the grapes you can't eat are always sour" will regulate the pain of falling out of love to a certain extent and help you regain your self-confidence.

Second: Correctly understand love A new assessment of love is also a good way to get rid of the pain of falling out of love. Think more about the contradictions between two people, and tell yourself that maybe it is really inappropriate for two people to be together, and maybe the love that occurs in the grinding scum is inherently blind and irrational.

And if you wait until the future when the two really come together to find out that it is not suitable, it will be too late, so maybe it is a good thing to break up when you are in love. In this way, having a correct understanding of love and evaluating broken love from a new perspective will reduce a lot of psychological pressure and make you feel balanced.

Third: Reasonable catharsis You can talk to your friends and get their persuasion and comfort, so that you can gradually figure things out, or cry when there is no one, vent all your grievances, and quietly reasonable catharsis will make you feel much more relaxed and comfortable, and adjust your mentality well, so that you are no longer so sad and painful. Remember not to keep all your grievances in your heart, which can cause severe depression and even lead to a mental breakdown.

Spread your energy as much as possible, read more books, listen to songs, participate in some recreational activities, connect and chat with former friends, play together or pick up books again to learn how to learn, you know, this is a rare opportunity. In short, you should transfer the energy of your experience to other things, work and study more, strive to prove that you are a strong person from other sensitive aspects, adjust your mentality, and let yourself forget the pain of falling out of love. You must know that in addition to love, there are many things in life that many people deserve to cherish and pay.