I broke up, I was very sad, I knew that it was impossible to be together again, but I couldn t forge

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A man who has experienced a failed romance finds a monk.

    Q: How do I let go of this relationship?

    Without saying anything, the monk handed him a cup and poured hot water into it.

    The loser of the romance puts down the cup when he can't stand the heat.

    The monk said: If it hurts, it will naturally be put down.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Distract yourself. Put it on a tour, or whatever. Don't you have any hobbies?

    After I fell out of love, I played the piano every day... Unexpectedly, the piano was played, and my buddy introduced me to a girl, and I played the piano for her, and it slowly got better. We registered in October this year...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You yourself say it's impossible, what else can you do, look ahead. When the wound heals, you will be relieved, and those who can't be together can't forget and can only hurt yourself, and if you live well, you (her) will rest assured.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'll teach you, if you're looking for one, you'll be distracted when you find one.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time can dilute everything. But there are people who can't be replaced, what he gives you is never a momentary sadness, it's a lifetime; If you really love, try your best to redeem it, it's not easy to meet someone you really love, cheer up!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Try to find something to do and enrich yourself. When you're busy, you don't have time to be sad

    Time can dilute everything ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you want to forget about your past relationship, you can only start a new one, which is the fastest and most effective way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First: Why did you break up? If you break up and let you do this, then you can try to redeem it, if it really doesn't work, then there is no way, because no one can control the emotional matter.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everything must be left to chance, not forced. Find something meaningful. After a long time, you will forget. Try not to think about it. Go to the Internet and watch war movies.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Work hard, even if you don't get affection, at least get your own career.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, compared with boys, girls often care more about feelings, for many girls, although they know that being with their boyfriends will not be fruitful, and the relationship between two people is difficult to go to the end, but they often still let themselves ride the tiger first in the passive, and the heart has never been able to give up this relationship, and has never been able to completely break up with each other, so in the face of this situation, I personally think that you should try your best to keep yourself rational and rational.

    First of all, you should realize that if two people are together without results, and they have proposed to break up, in this case they are reluctant, this relationship is completely meaningless, if two people get back together, two people are destined to break up, and this will only hurt both people, bye-bye, wasting two people's time and energy is worth the loss.

    On the other hand, since the two people have reached the point of breaking up, it means that there have been great contradictions and differences between the two people, in this case, if you say that you go back and choose to reunite the two people, then the two people will be more embarrassed in the process of getting along, after all, the previous breakup has made the two people have a mustard in their hearts, and the two people are likely to break down the relationship between the two people again because of a small contradiction in the future process, which is obviously not what the two parties are looking forward to.

    And I am already an adult, I have to be more rational in my feelings, and I can't let myself be angry anymore, because in this way, I will repeatedly hurt myself in the relationship, and in the end it is not only you who will be uncomfortable, but also the people who love you the most, including your parents.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is a very lucky thing that two people can fall in love, but after being together, due to the differences in the living habits and personalities of the two people, there are some small contradictions, especially those who have experienced long-distance love, and they may often feel reluctant in the face of abandoning this relationship. At this time, it is up to everyone to judge whether there is an irreconcilable difference in this relationship, in this case, only to be ruthlessly separated, after all, it does not make much sense to stick to the end, and if it is just a determination made in a fit of anger, then you need to calm down 2 people to communicate well.

    1. Calm down and solve difficulties according to communication.

    It is normal for couples to have disagreements, after all, no matter what kind of relationship it is, it will be a process of a run-in period, and it would be a pity if you decided to give up just in a fit of anger. If two people who love each other often quarrel or have disagreements, and then want to give up this relationship, you must calm down and think twice. At this time, when getting along with the object, we must learn to think from each other's perspective, if you encounter some differences, don't be idle, it is important for the two to communicate well to deal with them, if the differences are handled, then the emotion must not choose to give up.

    Second, a clean and neat disconnection.

    However, in most cases, everyone is in a hurry together because of love, but ignores the living environment, habits and other aspects of the two people. Constant disputes have caused a lot of damage to each other, at this time I can't hold on to this relationship, but it's not necessary to be reluctant, after all, the two will enter into marriage in the future, spend the rest of their lives, if there is already a disagreement that can't be reconciled when they fall in love, so that from the future, they will also consider for decades, and the two will not be able to be together again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you ask him if he has any new plans. If not, block it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The breakup was fruitless, but I still have to give it up. Because the breakup proves that the relationship has broken down, there is no room for recovery, and it must be abandoned. For the sake of the happiness of the two people, for the sake of the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    broke up with Guo Degang, and only then did he meet Lin Zhiying. The end of a relationship is not necessarily a bad thing, it can also be the beginning of the next happiness ...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    She doesn't love you so much, it's the 21st century, dear, sleeping doesn't mean anything, the next day she officially announced her new boyfriend, there are 2 possibilities, the first is that you make her angry, she does it and is angry with you! The second is that I really don't love you so much, the relationship is not cultivated by nature, it means that they were ambiguous before, brother, don't be sad, at least let you see her clearly, she is only suitable for falling in love, not suitable for marriage, sleep well, wake up and look for the other half of your life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You certainly shouldn't be upset.

    Because this breakup is something he has been planning for a long time, he already has a new boyfriend just after the breakup. And all the promises he made were meant to deceive you.

    So it's an honor for you to break up with someone like that, and you should be happy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    broke up, and the next day they officially announced that they had a new boyfriend, which shows that she has been talking about the breakup between you for a long time, and she has already split her legs, so you shouldn't be sad, because she is no longer worthy of you to feel sorry for her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you break up, there is nothing you should not be sad about, if you invest too much emotion, you will naturally feel sad, and if you don't love each other so much, you will naturally not be too uncomfortable. Whether it's sad or not, the heart will tell you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You don't need to be sad at all, a person has a new love immediately after breaking up with you, it seems that she has wanted to leave you for a long time, and what she said is just a pretext for leaving you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your girlfriend is such a person, I think you shouldn't be sad after the breakup, your girlfriend actually doesn't love you for a long time, and the day after you broke up, you officially announced a new boyfriend, so you forgot about her and started a new life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Break up, in fact, you should feel sad, because what, after the breakup, there is no connection between the two couples, so both parties are not used to this way of getting along, and naturally there will be loneliness, sadness and sadness, but your ex is not worth feeling sorry for her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you break up, you must be sad, unless you don't pay a lot in this relationship, so you won't be sad, and if you give your sincerity, you will definitely be sad and painful after the breakup.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think you need to be sad, such a girl's attitude towards feelings is very disloyal, and it is not worth cherishing, life will go on, don't be sad.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you break up and you don't know whether to be sad or not, it can only mean that you don't care very much about this relationship, because you don't know it, you lived, then when you get along, maybe you don't care about him very much. It doesn't matter if he appears in life or not.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's okay to be sad, but it shouldn't be too long.

    Learn to let go, let go of the past, and let go of yourself. can break up, probably not the right person, there is no need to care too much.

    Think about opening a point, and the next one is better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you are not sad about falling out of love, it means that you have not loved, but anyone who loves with sincerity will be sad and sad, and the more you love with your heart, the more sad you are. People are emotional animals, sadness is the expression and catharsis of emotions, these negative energy must be allowed to be released, otherwise it will hurt the body greatly. It's normal to be sad after falling out of love, don't force yourself not to be sad, you can go if you want to cry and make trouble, you have to vent it in a way that suits you, slowly time will heal your wounds, make yourself better, meet the next better him, you will be grateful for this sad time. Come on!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When two people are in love, they will definitely make a promise to stay with each other for a lifetime and never give up, but once they change their minds, these promises will also pass away with the wind in the future, and after breaking up, it is the same pain for everyone, but he found a new boyfriend and wanted to make up for this pain, after all, as a woman, it is impossible to withstand this kind of blow.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course, you should be sad after a breakup, because this is saying goodbye to someone you used to be closest to, and there is no way to go back to the past.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    She should have fallen in love with other men during her relationship with you, so she can connect seamlessly. Since she can put you down ruthlessly, then you don't have to feel sorry for her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't think there's really any need to be sad after a breakup, because you've just lost someone who doesn't love you. Now that you are single again, you have a better chance of meeting the person who loves you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The other party has never paid sincerely, maybe she has been performing by her for a long time, she wants to get rid of herself and wants to find the life she wants, then let her go free, at least you have been together, but it is impossible to turn back, it doesn't matter if you are sad, it will pass soon.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If two people break up and have real feelings, then sadness is inevitable, but if he finds a relationship again, it means that his feelings for you are not deep, and there is no need to be sad at this time, for the sake of people who don't like themselves are not worth it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should be sad, but you should only allow yourself to be sad for one night, this kind of girl is not worth it, you should cheer up and meet a better tomorrow.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you break up because you are not satisfied, you will definitely not be sad, and if you are abandoned like this, then you must be very sad.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you break up, you shouldn't feel sorry for such a person, because he will break up with you because he has a new love, and such a person is not worth your sadness.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You shouldn't think of her like that, your thinking is not very correct, breaking up is breaking up and being said by you is not pure, in fact, you can feel that you are annoyed by the sadness of the breakup and don't want to say those words, since she chose to leave like that, you bless her, a man must have a mind.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This kind of woman is not worth being sad about, she officially announced her boyfriend the next day, indicating that she already has a spare tire. I have done everything that should have been done, and I should be happy if I don't lose anything at all.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Dude let go of yourself, she is not worth it, he will officially announce his new boyfriend the day after he can break up with you, and the two of them may secretly Chen Cang when he falls in love with you! It's just that you don't know, don't feel sorry for her like that kind of scumbag, get high, you will meet someone better and more worthy of your love!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Hello, it is indeed very sad after being broken up, especially in this case, after the breakup, he can re-announce that the damage to himself is also relatively large, since this is the case, I think you should still love yourself well and let go of the past feelings.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Should. People are people with feelings, not to mention the other person who has loved each other together, even if it is just some good friends who have left you, you will be sad. The bits and pieces of living together, the joy and sweetness of living together, whether it is the ups and downs, they are all faced together, and that feeling will remain in my heart for a while.

    People are very nostalgic for the past, especially feelings.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since lovers have broken up, they should learn to let go, they should learn to bless each other, and hope that the other party can be happy, since he has a new relationship, it means that he no longer likes you and no longer cares about you.

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