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The problem you are facing is a state of mind that most young people have today. The first is that you learn to face the society independently, set the right goals in life, know yourself, understand the concept of life, and our life is a process of adapting to different roles. People must have self-confidence, find their own reasons from the source, and drive away their own shadows.
Originally, there was nothing, and I was afraid that I would lose something) generously face your life and future, everyone has their own different values and highlights, and summarize yourself. Know yourself and surpass yourself. You're going to really mature.
It is necessary to increase knowledge and physique, and exercise one's desire to show. Prove your worth with practical actions. Just work hard to do everything, you will be full and confident, at present it is just a part of your life, you don't have to look very seriously, find yourself and have everything, recommend this book to you Zhang Defen's [Meet the Unknown Self] to read, I hope you can be happy.
Get out and enjoy the festive spirit. The world changes as you change. Feel the joy that life changes bring to yourself and the people who care about you and love you!
Everything is outside of your ego over time. Don't waste too much energy on some things. Go and do something hard for the people who love and care about you, and you will be happy.
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What's the use of dwelling over what didn't happen and what might have happened? Since those things can happen, we should try to solve them, no matter how difficult it is, there is nothing that cannot be solved, and what will happen when those things happen? Imagine what it will be like when it happens, and then how to fix it when it happens.
Envision in your head, figure out the solution, and when you encounter those things, you won't be without mistakes, because you've already met them once! It's useless to be troubled, action is the only way to solve the problem, let's take action now!
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Let the past pass, and start to be a new self from now on.
Personal stains refer to a wide range. Maybe you've been in jail, you have a criminal record, maybe you have a bad credit history, or maybe you've ruined someone's family.
In the long life, who can guarantee that we will never make mistakes. A successful life is to learn from our mistakes, not to give up on ourselves, and to face the new day more optimistically and correctly.
A person's life is very short, and no one is perfect. It's important not to dwell on the past, but to look to the future. Although the stain can't be washed away, we can let it fade away slowly.
What others think of you and how they discuss you, let them say it, face them bravely, face yourself. The rest of my life has to go on, forget my past, and be a new self.
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Sometimes it can affect a lifetime. Therefore, when something happens to a teenager, the legal authorities try not to deal with it as much as possible, leaving them a chance so as not to affect him for the rest of his life.
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Yes, low self-esteem is a negative attitude towards life that can have a bad impact on oneself, and even affect one's own life, and to a greater or lesser extent, it will give a bad impression to those around you.
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It's not big, it shouldn't be based on whether there is a stain or not, isn't this too harsh, it should be compared with the stain and kindness, and the countless great goodness can't compare to a stain.
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Look at what the stain is, the impact is different.
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How to look at the stains in life, most people will talk behind their backs, make irresponsible remarks, and even add skills to mock, watch jokes, ridicule others, and some fall into the ground. This kind of treatment of a tainted person is very immoral behavior, in fact, each of us will inevitably make more or less mistakes and go the wrong way, no one is perfect who is not wrong, in fact, people who make mistakes and tainted people, not worse than you, may be smarter than you, we have to look at people squarely, don't make things worse, and don't look down on others or go indifferent to others. In the heart of each of us, we must have a feeling of "if", so that we can call being an equal person, then on the contrary, we must be close to the body and considerate of others.
Face up to others, send the truth, sincerity, send charcoal. First, those who have a stain will slowly cheer up, so that they can muster up courage and confidence to move towards the state of regular work. Second, it is likely that you have made a good friend, a reliable and trustworthy lazy friend, which is called seeing the truth in adversity, and this is called transmitting positive energy.
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First, the best choices in life start with accepting yourself. This includes accepting our shortcomings and the stains on our lives.
Second, with everything we have experienced in life, bad things may hide good things, and good things may hide bad things. A loss may turn out to be a gain.
Third, in life, everyone will have different failures and regrets, but life cannot be repeated, so we can only move forward, be down-to-earth, adhere to our own ideals and beliefs, and we will be able to do what we want.
Fourth, the stain is not important, what matters is the mindset that looks at the stain.
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When I was in high school, there was an ugly,-like disgusting guy who liked me, and then I somehow just talked to him for a little while. It's not about falling in love, anyway, we had lunch together and took the bus together. Later, during the winter vacation after the first semester, I suddenly felt very disgusted with him, and I felt like throwing up when I thought about it.
Super invincible hates him, why is this man so ugly and obscene? I have been confessing in the air for three years in high school, and I still have a ghost when I come out of the science class and go to the liberal arts class. I think I think I think back to having a chat with him now, and I wanted to hit myself for a little while.
And my high school classmates all guessed that I was in a relationship with him, which made me the most angry. I've never been in a relationship with him at all, and it's all a stain on me.
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I ran away from home for three days with a few classmates in junior high school, and I also went to the local news and entered the police station. The whole junior high school was depressed, and all my relatives knew that they would often use this matter to teach me a lesson in the next three years. There are still records in the archives, and there are stains on the future job when I am admitted to high school, but fortunately it has been removed.
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Everyone has more or less had some stains on their lives, such as me, who was poor at the age of 23, picked up a Nokia** mobile phone in the bathroom lounge, I didn't return it, I hid it. The waiter came in and asked, and I didn't say anything. The next day I went and sold it for 400 yuan.
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I forgot to bring my wallet this morning, and I ran out of money on my transportation card, and I was in a hurry to go to work and didn't want to withdraw money, so I evaded the ticket, and I was found to be fined. For a dollar. I lost my face, and I didn't know what I thought at the time, but my head was hot, and that's it.
You have to learn to look forward, you can't always stay in the past, as long as you put in and put in the effort, everything will be there.
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