In a different place, I heard that someone liked my boyfriend but was jealous

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nothing can be groundless, even if it is not like that, but it must be that your boyfriend has a close relationship with her, or there is some other misunderstanding, alas, this kind of thing is really hard to say; I think that when LG and I were in a different place, he was in college in another place, and then he said that he had a close relationship with a girl. In the end, this matter was slowly cleared up after I read LG's diary (at that time, he wrote a diary every day), of course, in order not to make me suspicious, he still cut off all contact with the girl The best solution is that you should be together as soon as possible, don't have a long-distance relationship, so it's very hard I wish you all a speedy misunderstanding and happiness every day!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then divide it! How can you continue without a sense of security.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's normal to be jealous.

    I remember when I was in high school, that boy wasn't my boyfriend, but when I heard that there was another girl who liked him, I felt like it, my body was weak, I couldn't stand still, not to mention how uncomfortable it was.

    Jealousy is jealousy, you have to be good to him, don't blame him, don't be willful, good luck.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Introduction: In fact, in the process of falling in love, many people will show a desire for control that is difficult for them to understand. At this time, there will be some girls who feel that their boyfriends will be jealous when they see themselves talking to other boys, so what should they do at this time?

    In fact, jealousy is a normal phenomenon in emotions, and sometimes appropriate jealousy can also regulate the feelings between each other and make the feelings stronger. But if this jealous emotion is not regulated or improved, it will even lead to some bad phenomena. It is a normal emotion for a boyfriend to be jealous, and the girlfriend should take on a responsibility for adjustment at this time, Tell your boyfriend that talking to a guy is a normal thing, because falling in love does not mean possession, and he likes his boyfriend very much, let him relax, in such a situation, his boyfriend's jealousy will be improved.

    In fact, if you can empathize, then this environment can be easily solved. And if the girlfriend feels that the boyfriend's jealousy behavior has no big impact, but it is difficult to be comfortable with him verbally. Then the girlfriend can also show her jealousy in front of her boyfriend, because her boyfriend will definitely talk to other girls.

    Then you should be jealous of your boyfriend's appearance, and your boyfriend may understand at this time. Such a jealous emotion should not be taken too seriously, and it is normal for one's girlfriend to communicate and socialize with other boys.

    But I still have to remind you that if your boyfriend has some excesses in the process of jealousy, or a strong sense of possessiveness, then the girl should be concerned at this time. Because at this time, it means that the boyfriend may have some small problems in his heart, and if he can't stop the loss in time, then it may cause a big disaster in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your boyfriend is jealous when he sees you talking to another guy, then you should ask your boyfriend not to be jealous, and you should make it clear to him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then try not to contact with the opposite sex, for such things you have to learn to take care of your boyfriend's feelings, after all, love is also mutual.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should tell your boyfriend that the relationship between two people is actually normal, and you also need to keep your distance from other people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should build a sense of trust in your boyfriend and let him know that you are just talking to other boys and have no other thoughts to reassure him and not be jealous.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Talk to him well, you can't stop contacting the opposite sex when he gets angry, otherwise it will only get more and more excessive in the end, talk to him well, you also have your own social circle, as long as it's a normal friend, it's fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Be measured when talking to other boys, don't let your boyfriend misunderstand, if your boyfriend sees any boy chatting with him, he is like this, you should enlighten him, otherwise you will affect the relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you should have a good talk with your boyfriend, tell him that you like him very much, it is impossible to have thoughts about other boys, and at the same time pay attention to the frequency of contact with other members of the opposite sex, and be sure to keep your distance.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then try not to talk to other boys in front of you in the future, he won't be so jealous if he can't see it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think I can communicate with him and talk about my troubles, so that I can solve the problem very effectively.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, such a thing is not big or small, and it is not small to say that it is not small.

    I don't know what kind of person your boyfriend is, but there is one thing, jealousy is inevitable, after all, your girlfriend is fighting with other boys, so what will you do if you say it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your boyfriend is jealous when he sees you talking to other boys, then it means that he still cares about you. You should also say that you and he are also ordinary friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, the boy will be jealous when he sees you talking to other boys, so you explain to him clearly, why you talk to him or explain, you are just ordinary friends and have nothing, anyway, you have to explain it to him clearly, otherwise he will have a misunderstanding in the future, and the impact on your relationship is very bad, if he is a very good coaxing person, you can coax him to be coquettish.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Such a boy cares more about you, but his heart is smaller, maybe people who are in love are like this, because they care, so they feel so important and should be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No matter what kind of relationship it is, there will be possessiveness, jealousy, and pettiness towards the other half. How to coax a long-distance boyfriend when he is jealous? Girls should come first.

    1. Apologize first.

    Apologize first to appease her boyfriend's jealousy, and it's best to apologize first and apologize quickly before the other person attacks. For example, when your boyfriend angrily asks you where you went at night, you can apologize with a deep guilty expression: "I'm sorry I worried you, I'll definitely call you next time, okay?"

    Perhaps it will succeed in "stifling" the accusations of the other side.

    2. Show affection.

    Express love in a unique way. Show affection is not just about abusing single people, stinky showing off, high-level show affection is to see each other's unknown advantages with a unique eye, so that the other party thinks that you are the person who knows him the best, he has a lot of things in him, only you understand, only you cherish, so that he will not feel that he will be replaced, so that he will build self-confidence and become less jealous.

    3. Find someone to help you say good things.

    When a man wants to know the whereabouts of his girlfriend, he usually keeps in close contact with one or a few people around his girlfriend. If you want your boyfriend to feel relaxed, you'd better put this "whistleblower."

    Treat me as your comrade-in-arms. It's also reassuring when your boyfriend knows you're with a "whistleblower."

    4. Communicate more.

    Men who want to know their girlfriends' whereabouts will bombard them with text messages or **. At this time, instead of getting angry, it is better to go with the flow and contact each other more actively. In this way, the other person feels that they can control your behavior at any time and they will not be jealous easily.

    After a long time, trust deepens, and there is no need to contact so often.

    Sometimes your boyfriend is deliberately jealous because he wants to know if you care about him and if you still love him. He deliberately acts jealous in front of you, just to let you know that he is hungry and cares about you doing this, he wants you to be pure and can take care of his feelings, and wants to make sure that you also care about him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Call him, open him, explain to Qiao Hao Lu how much you love him, prove to him that you don't have anyone else at all, and then tolerate him more, Guan Xiaoqing cares about him, and gives him gifts, so that he won't be jealous anymore.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can give your boyfriend a sense of security, and then you can also explain to your boyfriend what is going on, and you must try to keep your distance from the opposite sex.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think at this time, two people should be honest with each other, communicate with each other, and make what needs to be said clear, so that the two can trust each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you encounter such a situation, you should coax your boyfriend, and boys are very good at coaxing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is a problem that many people may encounter. The reason why your boyfriend is jealous is that the first thing to affirm is that he cares about you. The most fearful thing is that you have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, but he never cares who you have a good relationship with.

    Explain it to him. Is it because his words and deeds are too old that he will be jealous? Or is he too tempted to treat you as his own private property?

    You know, in both cases, it allows for contradictions. Because he's a boyfriend, someone you love, and you think about his feelings, and that's as it should be. If he had a lot of friends of the opposite sex, wouldn't you?

    And he also needs to understand that people live in this world, and communication can only continue to exist all the time. As long as you only have him in your heart, think more about his position, think about it, you will understand each other, feelings, and even more harmonious than each other can endure it, I hope you can be well, it's not easy to be together!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course I'm jealous, because I don't believe in pure friendship between men and women. After entering a love life, people tend to be extremely possessive of the other half of the relationship. This is actually out of the instinct of looking forward to a happy life in the future, and this is actually a very normal manifestation in life.

    The pure friendship between men and women is difficult to trust in modern society. The rapid development of the times has made people's minds continue to emancipate, and we are always looking forward to having a better friendship experience. However, the pure friendship between artistic conceptions is difficult to believe in modern life.

    I don't believe in the existence of pure friendship between men and women, because friendship turns into love quickly in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, and in a relationship, the other half of the opposite sex friend can be said to be a person's biggest rival.

    The so-called confidante.

    It's just a reserve of love under the banner of friendship.

    In real life, few people are willing to accept a confidante from their other half.

    Of course I'm jealous, and I'll ask my boyfriend to keep his distance from his friends. I don't think it's a question worth discussing, because whoever chooses this issue will make the same choice as me. Whether it is a boy or a girl, it is very normal to be jealous after learning that your love partner has a good relationship with a friend of the opposite sex.

    If you are not jealous, it means that there is a certain problem in the relationship between the two.

    Not only will I be jealous, but I will also ask my boyfriend to keep enough safe distance from his friends of the opposite sex, and try to keep the two of them in contact as much as possible in their lives. I think this is a sign of responsibility for this relationship, and it is also the basis for our relationship to go further.

    If the other person is not willing to cut off contact with friends of the opposite sex and is not willing to keep a safe distance from the other person, I think I will choose to take the initiative to break up after weighing it.

    Love may be really selfish, and we always expect the other person to belong only to us. It's hard to do, but I don't like to be at odds with someone of the opposite sex in love.

    Whether the love wants to continue or not, the choice lies with the boyfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Of course it is, especially with friends of the opposite sex who are particularly close, because they have some past that I don't know about.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, this is very normal, as long as the relationship between two people is very close, they will definitely be jealous.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    will be jealous, because the other party's relationship is very intimate, otherwise I feel that the other party is a girlfriend, and there is no need for me to exist.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are three ways to deliberately make a boy jealous, the first is to have some chats with other boys in front of him, the second is to tell him in front of him that he is not as handsome as other boys, and the third is to tell him that his best friend has introduced a boy to him.

    In fact, men are not as mature as girls in themselves, and no girls can maintain this family more, so it is very simple to make a boy jealous, a boy is like a child, he will show if he is unhappy, and he will not be sullen in his heart, so as to prove that this boy is not jealous of you, it can prove that this boy loves you or not, or how much he loves you, and can also let you know your position in his heart.

    When you go to chat with other boys in front of him, your boyfriend will think that you already have him, and sit opposite him, you will also go to chat with other boys, it is conceivable that when he is not by your side, everything he will think clearly, he will think about everything clearly, he will have some of the haves and all the things in his mind, so naturally he will be jealous, he will have some uneasiness about his girlfriend, and he will always feel a little afraid, Fear of losing the relationship, fear of your girlfriend, abandon yourself, don't go to be with others by yourself.

    Boys actually pay great attention to their appearance, especially in front of the girls they like, they must make themselves very handsome, and in the eyes of their girlfriends, if their girlfriends feel that they are not handsome, boys are very sad, and they also attach great importance to this, he wants to become his girlfriend's hero, and he also wants to surpass any one in his girlfriend's heart, handsome is one of them, girls pay attention to beautiful boys, The emphasis is on being handsome, so if you talk to a girl, go and tell him that when no other boy is handsome, at this time the boy will think, whether the girl likes this, whether he doesn't like me like this, and so on A series of things will be reflected, naturally, the boy will feel jealous because of this matter.

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