How can I be a person who loves to make friends?

No, no, no. Actually, it's really effortless.

You need to find more topics to talk about and talk to your friends. Really, it's easy to talk about it. Let him know that you are a talkative and insightful person.

Good at listening and analyzing. Just say what you want to say, it's actually very easy. It's much easier to get along with each other.

Find more topics, such as feelings, surfing the Internet, movies, etc. And if you don't have a friend who is familiar enough to a certain extent, don't talk about topics that he is sensitive and don't want to mention.

Also, if you're always trying to make friends with the intention of asking friends to help you, it's hard to be sincere. And the most important thing between friends is sincerity. You may not have to tell your secrets, but when it comes to feelings, you must be real in order for others to feel your personality.

For example, when I was studying on my own, I was always with someone I didn't know well. But we talked a lot, and he told me some secrets about him. I mentioned that I wanted to open a bar in the future (really casually, without any purpose at all), and then he said that he would give me money or a partnership or something, and he could also help me get wine from France.

Another point is to pay attention to your personal image, maybe you don't have to be too handsome and beautiful, but you must be clean and tidy, in order to leave a good impression on others, so that you want to talk. Have their own personality traits and don't follow the crowd.

If it's me, my principle, a person's three chances, help a person, give him three chances, if after three chances, he seems to be completely inappropriate, this friend doesn't matter. Before these three opportunities, I was sincere to people, and I believed that people were sincere to me...

First of all, you have to remember that the purpose of making friends is not easy to do, and such friends are not real friends. To be a person who loves to make friends, the focus is sincerity, I have quite a lot of friends, from my personal point of view, enthusiasm, optimism, humor, is the key, so that friends will naturally come to the door (hehe) to let friends help, you have to really make friends, maybe you are introverted, maybe you love to be suspicious, to change, open your heart, I believe you will find many good friends.

If you are sincere, you will make friends! There is trust between people. If you want to get close to someone, you first have to sell yourself and make others trust you!

Cheerful and loving.

Love to help (good or bad).

1. Making friends is sincere, which is undoubted, whether the other party is a boy or a girl, it is the most important.

If you start to contact each other because you like them, try to forget your purpose to make friends and make friends with each other sincerely. People's hearts are made of meat, and if you are interested in her, as long as the other party is not deliberately invisible, you will generally not know it.

Article**22, the best way to make friends is to make an appointment, interact, and chat, so that it is easy to understand others and let others understand you.

The first point is that sincerity is just the attitude that making friends should have, while the second point is the point, friends should interact more with each other and chat more. The vast majority of feelings come from this way, and the decades of friendship that those talk about are actually accumulated bit by bit.

If you want to mingle with the person you like, you have to get familiar with her first, just start dating as a friend, be sure to pay attention to your eyes, the opposite sex can easily detect that you like her eyes.

Article**33, to remember the good of others, to learn to repay others, respect the former others.

If you make friends, it doesn't mean that others are just tools to help you. Friends should learn to be respectful and considerate of each other, and understand the difficulties of others. Some people ask their friends to help, but their friends can't help them, so they feel that the other party deliberately doesn't help.

This is a big mistake, and we need to understand the reasons for the matter before thinking about it.

The help of friends, always remember, a lot of friendship is what you come and go, don't always take advantage, sometimes you have to suffer a little loss. No one wants to be in a bad relationship with someone who wants to take advantage of you all the time.

There is a saying that "those who like solitude are either beasts or gods".

We can't live in isolation in this society, we need friends, no matter what status we are in or how difficult the circumstances we live in.

So how do you make someone that a lot of people like and will make friends with?

In He Jiong. and "Longing for Life" hosted by Huang Lei

, there was an issue of Sun Honglei who unexpectedly appeared, bringing everyone an unexpected surprise. So much so that after the show was broadcast, Sun Honglei decisively became a hot search.

In the show, Sun Honglei said "Friends are things to see", a simple sentence, clearly said what to do with friends.

Yes, a friend is the one who will accompany you whether you want to cry or laugh, the one who will appear in front of you desperately when you need to say nothing, the one who treats your difficulties as their own business, the one who does not participate too much in your glory but does not hesitate to help you when you are down, the one who picks you up rain or shine when you come, and the one who will send you off without complaint when you want to leave.

Therefore, we must treat our friends with righteousness and sincerity, so that we can exchange sincerity.

In addition to righteousness, you also have to learn to listen, friends are sometimes trash cans, you have to be ready to ** friends at any time negative emotions.

Preparation, silently accompany friends, can not empathize, at least to do silent companionship.

To be an empathetic person, you have to learn to see the situation clearly, and you should know when your friends need comfort, when they need silence, and when they need to share their hatred.

When a friend encounters troubles, it is never a sentence of "relaxation", this kind of popular or unconstructive broad-handed words, others have said enough, as a friend, you don't need to add more, but put yourself in her shoes.

When you make friends, your own personality is also very important. If you are a person who always emits negative energy, then no one is obligated to always take your negative energy.

Your sad face, your complaint, your self-pity, it is your luck that others can accept these, and it is human nature not to accept them.

So you have to be a sun, bring energy to others, even if you can't be the sun, you want the moon, and relieve your friends. Don't be that sensitive, weak person, too sensitive person, whether you are a good friend, you will be physically and mentally exhausted.

The last point is that you have to have attractive thoughts and have a certain level of cognition.

You have to have a mature mind, have your own perceptions and cognitive abilities.

Don't blindly follow the trend and won't be narrow-minded, you have to have your own personality charm.

Two people may feel compatible after a few words when they get along, but if you really want to last for a long time, it must be an ideological fit, so you must establish a correct world view and outlook on life.

Values.

A person should know how to pay, know how to think about which dust position, and like it slowly, so he should think about each other everywhere, respect each other for a sense of responsibility and love, which will be better and more generous.