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In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. ~
The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.
Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.
Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer.
A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom.
A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...
A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. A true friend will try to help you, understand you, pull you along, a true friend, and never forget your name and what you do. ,.
True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there is any contradiction, it is held in the heart, at most it is estranged from the relationship, and it will not be scolded, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends.
True friends, there are many sayings. In my eyes, this is a real friend, and if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare
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Before making a friend, observe what kind of friends he is surrounded by, as the so-called "like gathers", don't blindly make friends, but judging by appearance, you can't make true friends. I wish the landlord to find a good friend soon.
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In fact, making friends is very simple, you have to take the initiative to communicate with him (her), to have a tolerant heart, if you can't even reach these two points then you are too bad, now people have become scheming, you don't want to be naïve, some people she will use you, and you don't know, I have encountered.
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Communicate in good faith, don't have too much calculation and use. There are also some like-minded people, as the saying goes, things gather by like, and people are divided by groups. In this way, you will gain a long-lasting and sincere friendship.
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Make friends must have your own principles, so that you can find friends who are also willing to make friends with you. So, how do you make friends? Let's get to know each other together.
01 Impress the other party with sincerity.
Treat friends with sincerity, don't look like one thing on the surface, and don't do one thing behind your back. Otherwise, if you get along for a long time, the other party will definitely think that your character is not good, and thus alienate you. Only if you treat the other person sincerely, the other party will return the sincerity.
02 Move each other with kindness.
If a person is kind from the heart, can do things without violating his own principles at any time, and does not take the initiative to hurt others, then such a person will be worth associating. So when you interact with your friends, you have to keep this principle.
03 Have a few friends and confidants.
There are not many friends, but fine. Therefore, if you can meet a few friends and confidants, it is a blessing for you, and if you can't, don't force it. After all, not everyone's luck is so good. We just have to do what we have to do, and don't force the rest.
04 Don't trouble your friends.
When making friends, we should try to avoid getting into trouble, and don't think about causing trouble to our friends, which will make people get along with you for a long time, and if you feel that you are constantly troublesome, they will slowly alienate you.
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How to make friends.
1. Make friends with heart, make friends with others, and treat friends sincerely.
2. If you want to be friends with others, you must take the initiative and introduce yourself to others.
3. We must have a common language, like-mindedness, and trust each other, so that we can slowly deepen our friendship.
4. Friends should tolerate each other, understand each other, and don't always take advantage of each other.
5. Remember that gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, and you need to keep your distance from each other.
6. Don't speak ill of your friends behind your back, and don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others.
7. Don't interfere with other people's privacy, don't cross the line, just be friends.
Different friends get along differently.
Ordinary friends.
Nodding friends, general friends.
Life is inseparable from friends, friends also have relatives and distances, when facing ordinary friends, know that it is okay to be friendly, not necessarily to say something that the other party is not interested in.
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Hello dear, the role of a friend is as follows:
1) Friends bring us warmth, give us support and strength, and make us feel the beauty of life.
2) Friends can enrich our lives, broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge.
Friends are very important objects in the interpersonal circle. A friend is someone who has developed a relationship that is not related by blood, but is very friendly. A true friend is usually honest, loyal, loyal, and considers the other person first.
Their interests may be similar and they may often be active together.
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1.Being outspoken is one of the secrets of making friends, but be honest and don't be perfunctory or flattering. Being honest with others not only helps others solve problems, but also helps them to trust others.
At the same time, treat friends with sincerity and do not cheat or guess each other. Only if there is a pure friendship can it last forever in front of friends.
2.The secret to making friends is mutual respect. Good friends should respect each other so that they can gain the recognition and respect of others.
In getting along, we should respect each other, always pay attention to each other's feelings, and be considerate of each other's feelings. Respect is the most basic quality of a person, and it is also the most basic courtesy of a person. Only by respecting each other can we build true friendships and make life better.
3.Learning to listen is one of the secrets to making friends. When we interact with others, learn to listen, don't interject, and give the other person a chance to express their thoughts.
At the same time, learn to listen to what others have to say, don't rush to conclusions, and give them enough time to express their feelings. Learning to listen not only helps us understand each other better, but also fosters trust and friendship with each other. Remember, when we share something with others, we don't necessarily need you to help them, but we want you to listen quietly and communicate with them.
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If you grow up, you will find that people with too poor quality, people who say good things in front of them and people behind them, that is, people who say good things in front of them and poison people behind their backs, and there is one who is the old man who takes advantage of you, these people are not able to make deep friends, so it is better to be cautious about making friends, rather lack than abuse, and make two confidant friends with a wide pair, but there are many friends, the road is wide, this is also the philosophy of life, it depends on what kind of <> you like
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