The helplessness of growing up, the helplessness of growing up

First of all, you don't have to give so many points, if I can help you here, it's my honor, you should understand that helping others is your own happiness, because you have achieved self-worth. The separation of classmates is very normal, maybe some classmates do not have much contact when you go to school together, but it does not mean that it will be the same in the future, if you have a good relationship together in school, you may not be able to contact in the future, life is precisely because of regrets, so let us cherish it more, cherish the current life, if you have the opportunity, whether your relationship is good or bad in school, you have to contact it, because that is part of your cherished memories.

It's just one of the many frustrations you have in your life, if you have that lifespan.

Why is helplessness called helplessness, because it is something that we can see, hear, and feel with our own eyes, but we can't do anything about it.

Therefore, what helps you solve it is not this helplessness, but how to learn to face it, face it, accept it, or bury it in your heart.

Back to the question, the separation of classmates is just a small thing, if you look back in your seventies and eighties, you will find that they are just one of the many landscapes in your life, nothing more.

You should be sure that you are genuine friends, not just classmates.

What we can and what we can't.

When you can't change others, you have to change yourself.

When things can't be solved in a straight line, you can try to solve them in a curve.

The helplessness of family, friendship and love also depends on the method of transfer.

To put it simply, it's to give yourself a reason, but this habit is very bad, and using it too much will make you very decadent.

Very inactive.

This problem is something that everyone will experience, in fact, there is no need to deliberately force anything, everything is according to fate, sucking nature. Do whatever you have to do. You will be separated from your classmates in the future, you will have new classmates, you will have colleagues at work after completing your studies, you will have new colleagues when you change jobs, you will meet a lot of people in your life, classmates, colleagues, friends.

If you want to keep them, isn't it going to be a hassle to contact them? Your classmates will be in the north and south of the river, and in the end, you won't be able to get in touch with them.

There will be a lot of helplessness in life, later life, work, love.

Wait, so don't try to force it.

No matter what you encounter in the future, be stronger.

I just want to live, grow old, sick and die, and I can't change it! You can only adjust your mentality to accept it.

I want to say that the first floor brother has said it!! The separation of classmates is not very painful dripping ......When the good friends who used to play are separated, and they meet again in a few years or decades, that feeling is sour!!

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny.

All good things come to an end.

Let go of your heart, separate from your old classmates, you will also meet new classmates, just see these as natural development, don't stay in that helplessness, think about there are many things worth cherishing!

There really is, because everyone will make more and more friends, and often do not contact the previous friends will be forgotten, this may be what people often say that time dilutes everything, in fact, if you want to maintain a friendly relationship between classmates, as long as you have a long contact, you can, you don't need many friends, as long as you are a true friend! ~~

This is the only way in life, and no one can accompany you for a lifetime, you have to learn to face difficulties and setbacks alone, in fact, if it is a real friend, even if you don't contact for a long time, occasionally make a ** or meet that feels the same as before, and those who become strangers because of a period of time without contact should not be considered a real friend

Do you feel that you may have lost contact with your classmates, but you will often miss them, you know, they will also miss you, people will meet many people in their lives, you can't remember them one by one, there is a sentence that Yu Dan said that made me feel very deeply, she said that only plain can be eternal.

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I remember when I was young, as long as I had a beautiful dress, an apple, or an orange, it was a beautiful thing for me, because I didn't want much.

When I was in elementary school, I was very envious when I saw my brother go to junior high school, because he could ride in a car by himself and could have a lot of living expenses, so I wanted to live like that. But when I walked into the junior high school campus, I found that this was not the case, I needed to do everything by myself without my parents, and I couldn't solve the problems by myself; I remember that the first time I was teased in the dormitory, I got up in the middle of the night to wash and scrub, and I thought it was morning, until I saw others secretly laughing over there to know that I was being tricked, at that time I became silent from the beginning of the lively, I don't know how to communicate, I don't know how to get along with people, and I gradually don't want to grow up.

After going to high school, I went to the ideal high school as I wished, but because of a snowstorm, my grades fell all the way; Because of my self-control ability, I always want to study hard and read well, but I always don't have a beginning and an end to being a god brother, and I didn't get into the ideal university in the end.

After going to college, I rely on self-control, if I study hard, maybe there will be a good way out, if there is just a task to study, then the result is just to get a graduation certificate, but I gave up the opportunity to improve myself, and I didn't study well in college, just go to class and rest step by step, and don't have any plan for life, so when I walked out of school and into the society, I found that I didn't understand anything, didn't learn the major, didn't learn the skills, This has led to a phenomenon of high not being able to achieve low results.

After graduating two years later, I got married, and after getting married, I realized that society is very realistic, there is no ability and no economy, and life is even more difficult, in order to buy a house, I really put myself in, I used to think that others were very incomprehensible as house slaves, but when you come to a certain point, you will find that in fact, many things are simply not up to yourself.

When you grow up, you have your own freedom, but you lose the qualification that you want to be willful, you have no ability, no economy, you are nothing, so you are very helpless when you grow up

The book "The Little Prince" brought tears to my eyes, and my heart was touched for a long time. The journey of the little prince made him grow up and understand that it is a responsibility to eliminate blindness and love. But this growth has brought with it a little bit of sadness.

I think that the sorrow of growing up is a little footprint on the road of our life. The length of these sad experiences varies from person to person, but there must be a few sad stars on each person's growth path. I saw the little prince Naho wandering alone in the world, I saw that every creature he met did not stop for him, I saw him look at the sky and miss his rose, and I felt sorrow.

This is the sorrow that everyone must go through in order to grow. But there is nothing to be said about this sorrow. The sorrow of growing up is not pain, it does not burn our bodies, it only makes us braver.

Therefore, when you grow, you will be sad and not painful.

1.I can't grow taller than I can.

No matter how much you study, you can't get into Tsinghua University. 3.I can't make the girl I like like me.

I liked a girl in college.,And then I tried all kinds of ways to pursue this girl.,But this girl didn't want to pay attention to me at all.,In the end, this girl directly deleted me as a friend.,Later, I heard that it didn't take long for this girl to have a partner.,This is also a thing that makes me very helpless.。

There are a lot of helpless things in the process of growing up, such as how I can't grow tall, I have studied very hard, I still can't get into Tsinghua University, and I can't make the girls I like like me.

The major I studied in college was software technology, but the job I found after graduation was e-commerce, which was not right at all, but I was helpless, forced by life, and I once loved a girl very much, but because of the disparity between each other's family backgrounds, I was blocked by my parents, and then I took a more suitable girl, but I didn't love it, which was also helpless.

In the process of growing up, there are many things that are beyond my ability, so I can only watch the opportunity, fail to seize it, and watch others succeed, which is a very helpless thing.

I remember that when I was in college, my family was very difficult, so I had to go to work-study and I couldn't continue my studies, which was a pity.

The most helpless thing I had when I was growing up was that I used to have good friends but drifted away, and I was very sad but there was nothing I could do.

In the process of growing up, there are really a lot of things that make me helpless, I can't do what I want to do, and I have to consider the feelings of many people, which also makes me particularly passive.

There are a lot of helpless things in the process of growing up, and the most impressive patriarchal is patriarchal. I am the only daughter in the family, I have been excellent in my studies since I was a child, I was admitted to the 211 school in the college entrance examination, and then I was admitted to the top 30 schools in the country in my major, but in the eyes of my relatives, I have always been inferior to my cousin's status, even if my brother is not on the right path now, he has been gnawing at the old.

Often, the most difficult choice in life is to make a decision.

Often, there is always so much helplessness in life.

But in the end, all that's left is memories

Inscription. Perhaps, many, many people are living in the past. Everything that was once in front of us comes to mind, and we will always remember the promises and promises that we once made, and we seem to have lost a lot.

For example, the once childlike innocence, as I grew older, lost the joy of being young, and lost a trace of innocence. When I thought about it, I stopped everything in my hand and felt that everything I had was so happy, so happy... Strive for the promise you have made.

From our childhood, snuggled in the arms of our parents, we felt that everything in the world had nothing to do with us, and they were sheltered for us in the big and big difficulties. Now, as junior high school life is coming to an end, what are the difficulties we are facing? All the hardships have passed by.

Wait until we feel this uproar to become history. But it's a past we can't forget. Over the years, many things are not up to us, and we face them calmly, no matter what the result is, at least we have tried, and we will not live in regret, even if the ending is not beautiful, it will be a process for us.

In everyone's heart, there is an invisible landscape, and that scenery will only be placed in the deepest part of the heart. Every night, we think inexplicably. Luminous night can also be lonely.

Sometimes I secretly shed tears, and sometimes I feel that many things are impossible, so I have to think that I am wrong. Sometimes I will be silently serious, thinking that it is possible. Now the smiles between Xinyu and each other are so strange.

Silence, shaking the head, all gone. Try to feel it、The sunset after dusk、Also quiet in helplessness、Heralding the end of another day! Nowadays, we all like to say goodnight to ourselves at dawn.

Dreams shine into the present helplessness, slippery and rolling, we always like to share whether we are unhappy or not, with good friends. Gradually, we find that we have grown up ...

In desperation, we have all grown up.

Comments: People grow up in pain, pain and happiness.

Comment teacher: Tao Liulin.

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