8 years of sexless marriage, what should I do?

My father worked in the field, at that time it was a relative of the family who worked, the salary was not high, the family's expenses were all my father working in the field, my mother was a chef when I was a child, because at that time my mother signed the annual job, at that time, the annual work, was every year to settle the bill, so the monthly expenses were my father alone, and the food I wore was piled up by my father's part-time job, and my mother replaced the identity of a housewife, accompanying me to school for me to eat and wear.

With the gradual opening up of the times, the policies of the times have gradually improved, and the family has saved a little money in a few years, but my father is a sick body, and his health has been bad, and every time he saves money is given to his father to see a doctor, his waist doctor said that he is fifty years old and eighty years old, so every time his father is in pain and can not take care of himself, he drove to his hometown from other places, and the scene is still a sigh in the township, indeed, my father's body has been bad since I was a child, and the lumbar spine is deformed, but at that time I was able to finish my studies, he gritted his teeth and persevered.

I and my father, in fact, there are not too many bright ** horn words, has been to the present is also the person he has not been worried about, he is worried that his children in the field to eat badly, work is not smooth, wronged, yes, all the parents all over the world are like this, your parents, I am also looking forward to this, so my father the older he gets, the more tired he is, the middle way of the family is weak, he did not rely on anyone, he relied on himself to get to this day, and my mother established a family, gave birth to me, and now I am almost thirty and standing, But they don't need to get what I, a child, should honor them now!

Speaking of my relationship with my father, I may be able to say that I don't have a smile, my father actually didn't want to write much language, and at a very early age I wanted to write a text about my father, but I couldn't figure it out, and I didn't use the meaning of words to read it, <>

Only every time I return to my hometown, at that moment, the obsession I want to express is very strong, yes, back to my hometown, the children of the world who work in other places who don't want to return to the home where they grew up, the parents brought up that warm hotbed, but unfortunately I am about to become a father in the gradual future, and I have reached the age of being a father, maybe compared to my father. My son is still far away, and his parents haven't enjoyed much happiness so far.

In a long-term sexless marriage, if the relationship breaks down, you can ask for a divorce, and if the other party does not agree, you can sue the court for divorce.

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

The need to maintain a sexless marriage is related to the following.

1. The answer to this question depends on many factors, because if it is from the perspective of some girls, sexless marriage may not affect him a lot, and at the same time, before marriage, it is possible to know about this matter, so for girls. There is nothing to lose in maintaining a sexless marriage.

2. But if it is a sexless marriage caused by two people who have no feelings, then in this case, it is unnecessary to maintain this sexless marriage. Because marriage itself is supposed to be a relationship between two people, if one party does not cooperate with the other at all or does not like it, then in this case, there is no reason for this kind of sexless marriage to continue.

Summary. Because each couple gets along differently and has different modes of getting along, if you feel that sexless marriage has affected your overall living state, you can choose not to stick to it.

Hello, this mainly depends on your current living situation and the relationship between two people, why is your married life completely sexless?

Because the state of getting along between each couple is different and the mode of getting along will be different, if you feel that sexless marriage has affected your overall living state, then you can not choose to insist.

Hope mine is helpful to you

Thank you. You're welcome, you must think carefully before making every decision, if you don't choose to insist, then how to maintain your life in the future.

Legal Analysis: "Sexless marriage" is an abbreviation for "sexless marriage". [1] The term "sexless marriage" has not yet been defined by international organizations and Chinese authorities.

Sociologists of sexuality believe that a husband and wife have not had sex for more than a month without a physical reason is a "sexless marriage". Sexless marriage is a serious problem in married life, and we can only solve this problem if we face it squarely, rather than avoid it. Only the joint efforts of the general public, cultural disseminators, scientific researchers, psychologists, and social managers can make couples in sexless marriages truly happy.

Legal basis: Regulations of the People's Republic of China on Household Registration

Article 3: Public security organs at all levels are in charge of household registration work.

Cities and towns with public security police stations shall have the jurisdiction of the public security Maoqi police station as the jurisdiction of the household registration; Townships and towns without public security police stations shall have the jurisdiction of the township or town as the household registration jurisdiction. Township and town people's committees and public security police stations are the household registration organs.

For those who reside in the internal and public dormitories of government agencies, organizations, schools, enterprises, public institutions, etc., each unit shall designate a special person to assist the household registration authority in handling the household registration; For scattered household registration, the household registration authority shall directly handle the household registration.

For non-active military personnel residing in military organs and military quarters, each unit shall designate a special person to assist the household registration authority in handling the household registration.

For the household registration of production cooperatives such as agriculture, fishery, salt, forestry, animal husbandry and handicrafts, the cooperatives shall designate a special person to assist the household registration authorities in handling the household registration. Accounts other than cooperatives shall be directly registered by the household registration authorities.

Article 17 When it is necessary to change or correct the contents of the household registration, the head of the household or himself shall report to the household registration authority; The household registration authority shall make changes or corrections after verifying the facts.

When the registration authority deems it necessary, it may request from the applicant a certificate of change or correction.