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Although most of the sons-in-law are in a bad situation, I think it can be considered from your situation. The other party's conditions are good, but they are afraid that their daughter will suffer when she comes to your house, so as long as the other party is sincere, I think it is acceptable. The problem is that you must work hard to do business after you pass, as long as you make achievements, you will have a status at home, and you will be worthy of the help they give you now.
If the pressure of life at your house is so great, you and her will not be able to stand it after a long time, and you don't want your girlfriend to have a hard life. Besides, you now have a good solution to choose from. The family can communicate again, as long as you have happiness in the future, the family will definitely recognize it.
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A friend of mine is like this: she is from Shenyang, he is from Harbin. Now they are married in Shenyang, but they are not in her family. Because it's more suitable for their future development, and the career is there now.
I think the important thing is not to get rich or anything, the key is to see what you and your girlfriend need, and in ** can make your life better and more developed. Their intentions are all for your good, so as long as you communicate with them well, I think there should be no hindrance.
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Talk to your family.
Try to adopt a compromise approach to solve the problem, and then both sides let go a little, find the most basic contradictions, and figure them out.
Is it true that the woman is like this, agreeing to buy a house for you, and after you get married, you will open a shop and do your own business, then you can also change places.
Listen to this. My girlfriend's family said that if I didn't go to live with them, they would want us to break up.
It doesn't feel like it, so what is the low line you have to consider?
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If you really like each other, why bother with too many things? However, it is also necessary to think carefully about it, it is a matter of a lifetime, and it is also a matter of two families.
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You have reached the age of talking about marriage, and you must learn to bear the consequences yourself.
Make a list of pros and cons, and you'll know.
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Alas, what's the use of annoying. I've got to find a way to fix it.
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Or you find a place in the middle.
Otherwise, there is only one compromise.
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Grievances point to say, you can still sacrifice it.
May a lover eventually become a family.
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It seems that when there is nothing to do, it will be like this, and when there is something that cannot be solved, it will be like this, so tell you what to do, think about it, think hard, think thoroughly, think to the extreme, think how you can think, and when you think about it, then think about the time you are in a daze, and then find a little thing to do, even if it is a small thing, you insist on doing it, you will find that the mood will be a little better, not as annoying as just now, try to do it.
She seems to be a bit like a relationship**, a person who is not serious about feelings, just has a playful attitude, it seems that it is not suitable to continue with you, relax, tell yourself, it's nothing, just a woman, (maybe there is no real love between you yet), so you just let go easily, find a good girl, and talk about a real love.
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It's best to go with the flow in such a situation, so that you won't have regrets emotionally in the future, he didn't say that he wanted you to give him some time, he would give you an answer, since he said so, you just go with the flow and wait for his reply, whether it's good or bad, at least you have been sincere to him, you have worked hard, this is enough, no one is sorry for anyone in love, only who does not cherish whom, don't think so much.
Dear, according to what you said, then your girlfriend should care about her own face, after all, everyone doesn't want others to know that they are very gossipy, tell others everything, your girlfriend won't let you ask, you still ask, this will make your friends mistakenly think that your girlfriend is very gossipy, and, your girlfriend will definitely feel that you don't listen to her, don't care about her, so, I feel that you should coax your girlfriend well, usually at this time to say good things to her, You must not give her time to think alone, because she is already angry, and if you give her time to think, then she will feel that you don't care about her even more, so, come on