What should I do if my girlfriend, who has been together for 7 months, suddenly leaves

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dude, I understand your feelings, absolutely understand. Only time can smooth out your sadness. Really, no one can say a few words to say that you are not uncomfortable, you just need to remember my words, work hard, make yourself stronger, and find a girlfriend who will introduce you, and you will find a truth:

    Without anyone, it's all the same life! This is the advice of an experienced person to you, and it is normal for you to be sad right now. But you have to do what I told you.

    Be kind to yourself and don't be too frivolous!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It was clear that she didn't want to regret it later. If you have the chance, you have to fight hard. You should support her.

    This decision was undoubtedly made by her ruthlessness. This is a responsible girl. She wants you to make a difference, and if you really love her, you should cheer up.

    You should try hard once, and you may fail, but how will you know if you don't try?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She doesn't want a life like the two of you, she thinks very realistically, she has to have a job, she has to have a career. She felt that both of them had careers, and it was not too late to talk about it. Why don't you look at me and I see you for a day?

    This is not the life she wants, it seems that she is a motivated girl, if you want to have a chance, you have to make your own world, she said she will come back to you. You have to try to show her that you are a man!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He wants you to concentrate on your work, and he can't concentrate with you, and he wants to make a kind of growth. The reality is that you can only accept it and do something to cheer yourself up. Life never ends, always struggling with one pain or another, going through. And it grows.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Is this the real reason? If yes, then you just be a fool and wait a year.

    If not, the man should be a gentleman and wish her happiness as a memory.

    I think I used to be the same, it's good to pass, let's see the opening point.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She just doesn't want to make you sad in front of you. Confession is the best. You let it go. There will be a better life in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To put it bluntly, I just want to break up with you, everything else is an excuse, forget about her. She's not coming back.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Indeed, she "presses" you too hard.

    It's only now that I'm here, so let's wait for a long time.

    Pray to God she'll come back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The relationship has passed the freshness period, and what follows is a very long and boring period

    You can try to change, and the occasional small surprise, a small gift, will add a lot of ...... to your relationship

    Remember, don't say break up lightly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Have a serious talk with her and find out what she thinks. Art of War: Know yourself and your opponent, win all battles! So you need to know what she thinks (talk to her if you don't know, or ask her directly)! Go for it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hit **, don't text, text messages are not interesting.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Be decisive, don't twist and pinch to give both of you a while to calm down and think about what you need, be busy separately for a while, and then accept the results and act like a man.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Isn't it enough to love her? That's what motivates you

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What can you do if you get her back? You still have the same living conditions, you have been separated for so long together, which shows that you have really made a lot of determination, your current conditions can't give her the kind of life she wants, let it go, although it hurts, but the reality is the reality, don't get entangled anymore, get together and disperse.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There must be other men, don't think about it, because the house left yours, then you don't care too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Brother, look at my question, it's the same as yours, except that I have a new partner. Well, if you love her very much, go to her desperately, and show her your thoughts how difficult it is to meet someone you love and love yourself, and besides, you have been together for so long, the real happiness house will not be affected, good luck! It's New Year's Day, come on!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Give you some motivation, don't worry about buying a house, don't worry about loans, change your thinking, you buy a house, it is equivalent to saving in disguise, don't look at you are paying off the loan, in fact, it is saving money for yourself, because the house is your asset, real estate is more reliable than anything, buy a car and buy jewelry, the moment you buy it begins to depreciate, hurry up and buy it, don't say that you are a little short, even if it is half of the money, I will not hesitate to buy, if you are emotionally problematic, then there is no way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to show your determination, you must get married, if you really love her, chase it back, after all, it's been so long, maybe you don't care enough about her, girls need to be cared for, when choosing a marriage partner, this is a large percentage, you want a good way to confess and then get her back, don't let the original one belong to you wait too long,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's been 7 years, and since I chose to leave, I probably didn't plan to give you a chance to party! In fact, to be honest, leaving you is not something she has been thinking about recently, it is that she has long planned to break up, and you haven't found out! So I advise you that you can't find what you have lost!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you should scrape together some money to buy the house first, and then you tell her, I have prepared our wedding house, it has been 7 years, and the relationship for so long cannot be let go, there is still room for redemption. It may be that she is also under a lot of pressure, and her current mother-in-law is so snobbish and realistic, and she hopes that her daughter will marry someone with a house and money.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The two have been together for more than two years, and there is generally no possibility of getting married.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's been unmarried since we've been together, and it's hard to continue this relationship! Getting married and buying a house are two different things, why do so many people see it as the same thing. What she wants is different from what you want to give her, maybe all she wants now is marriage, and what you want to give her is a house.

    If she breaks your text message, just tell her"Let's get married".Then go together to get the certificate.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Believe me, the one who gives up you for the house is not true love. Even if the house is bought, you will have a hard time in the future. ,

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women's thoughts are different from men's thoughts, men's decisions are often impulsive, spur-of-the-moment decisions, but women's decisions are long-term and deliberate, just like a breakup, so your girlfriend's breakup with you is not limited to what you think of as a house, think carefully about other aspects, such as the change in your attitude towards her in the past few years, the time you spend with her, and the attitude of your family, etc. Don't think too simply about a woman's idea If it's just a house, I don't think she will survive 7 years, and of course it's not impossible to change her current decision It also takes long-term sincerity to show your determination and love, to dispel all her concerns, and finally wish you success Come on!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think of running in the sunset that year...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Dizzy, do you think about this question all day long??

    Let's go according to the normal situation, I have been thinking about this question, do you love him? Probably not loved. If so, it shouldn't be.

    Then you go out at night to find a place to play, play until you can't go back, and then go to supper, watch an all-night movie, and finally say that you really want to sleep, sleepy and unbearable, go to open a room、、、 you don't need to teach later, right?

    If you see her as your favorite, you don't have to do it deliberately, you can just go with the flow, there is a word called natural flow.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Do you love her? Do you really love her? Does she love you? Does she really love you?

    If you really love her, I think everything will fall into place.

    But lz, I can give you a suggestion, find a festival, go out and find a travel agency, come to a three-day, two-night tour or something, everything will do.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the other party is willing, there will be an expression.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can choose to travel on holidays, such as a two-day or three-day trip, so that it is logical!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you and your girlfriend should not have developed to this point, if you get to this point, you won't ask us how to speak, but naturally come to that point, if you haven't developed to that point, don't open your mouth so quickly, some people are slow to heat up, you are too anxious will backfire.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on whether she agrees, and if you really love her, it depends on her opinion, and if you don't mean it, then you can do whatever you want, as long as you don't feel guilty.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Go to a place, delay the time and can't take the last train home, and then there is an excuse to open a house.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The more you first get to know each other, the more you need to spend money, and after a long time, it is not so necessary.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Did the man pedal two boats at the same time? If so, then whether it is a woman of one month or a woman of seven months, I advise you to stay away from him as soon as possible.

    But if it's another situation, then let's talk about it, maybe the two women have different tastes, and there will naturally be price differences for things with different tastes. It's common for men to buy 200 pieces of clothing for their mothers nowadays, but aren't they all thousands of dollars for girls? Even my mother is treated like this, let alone seven months?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course, he cares who will give more expensive gifts. But sometimes there are careless men who don't care about the price. It's just that when I buy it, I will see who is suitable for what kind of gift according to the preferences and characteristics of my girlfriend, and I will give what kind of gift to whom, without considering the price.

    But such a man is not to be loved, if you love him, it is you who will hurt in the end. It's better to think carefully! Good luck!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    1: It shows that she is not aware of familiar people, knows the familiar temper, and will not be picky.

    2: His friend for one month weighs more heavily on his mind than his friend for seven months.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Since he has two girlfriends, it means that he is not a good man, and he asks what the problem is, and he is 88 directly, what does this kind of man want him to do?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    That's great, that's it, a man has two girlfriends at the same time, is it necessary to think about it so much!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Hello landlord.

    I think it depends on which woman is important in that man's heart.

    Or maybe the man thinks it's a good fit for the woman and doesn't care about the price.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The one for seven months, giving a gift of dozens of dollars, just shows that he loves him more, and feels that there is no need for each other to earn face, so they have to give something expensive, as long as the other party will be happy. A few hundred yuan, that one is purely for face......I feel that there is too little to take ......As a lover, or as a sister......

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, stealing is better than stealing, and the old is not as good as the new.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Choose the woman you are the best fit for yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It shows that you have a sense of freshness for the new woman, and you may not have pushed it yet, and you have a desire to conquer.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The seventh month became a gift of a few dozen yuan, and the one month gave more than 100 gifts.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If this kind of man is unwilling, sooner or later a month will become seven months.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's normal, everyone's outlook on life is changing at this age, and the criteria for choosing a mate are also changing.

    You can choose to work hard with her and get admitted to a school together, so that you can not only help each other in your studies, but also go to the same university together, and continue your relationship.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    In fact, it can be a win-win situation.

    Use love as your motivation to study hard.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The last love is to let go of your hands.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Maybe the girls are a little more mature, she thinks about her future life, because this is a real problem, and you are all students now, and no one knows what the current relationship will be like in the future.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    - - Maybe you should respect her choice.

    After all, this is the most critical time.

    I'm also 17, and I also broke up with the guy I was talking to.

    If you really love her, wait for her.

    Study hard together.

    Wouldn't it be OK to get into a university with her.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    People are just making a fuss.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Two people should promote each other's learning while talking about their feelings, so that she will not have such thoughts.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I'm 17 years old and I'm in my third year of high school. In the face of the future, I chose to forget all about the past and focus on learning. Why don't you do the same?

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    You're still young, and since she already has this idea, your relationship is not so stable. It's better to let each other start their own lives as soon as possible, and treat this time as a passing scene in life, not everyone comes over like this.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    The girl has this thought, which means that she still cares about studying very much and doesn't want to delay her studies because of love. She still cares about the future, and she has a long plan for you and your future.

    You can't be depressed now, you have to understand her, make sure that your relationship will not affect your studies, and bring her back to reminisce about the happiness you once had.

    At this time, her heart was also complicated. I want to learn, but I don't want to leave you because I like you. As long as you give her faith, then give her emotional care. I believe she won't break up again.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Female, today I said that I might change my ...... tomorrowCommunicate with her more, who knows if she is retreating.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Feelings and reason are your choice, you are still young, your studies are important, and you are a responsible man.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Then let her be, barely pointless. Don't wait until she regrets it in the future before blaming you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    His family definitely wants you to propose.

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