My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, but his father doesn t agree, what should we do?

It is his father's business that his father does not agree, and the key is that his son agrees.

Explain that his father has a prejudice against you, let his son understand what his father's prejudice is, and then you can find a way to solve it together. What kind of society is there now, there are fathers who still meddle in their children's marriages! The key is whether the relationship between the two of you can stand the test, this is a good opportunity to test, it depends on how he handles it as a son.

Even if his father agrees, who can guarantee that he will not have all kinds of conflicts with his father in the rest of his life? At that point, it will also depend on how the son handles your relationship. These are all normal, if you can't deal with the problems now, then you will be miserable in the future!

One is the biological parents, and the other is you. It's sometimes hard to be a son, so you have to work together, at least your mother doesn't have any prejudices against you, take down his mother first, and then take down his father! Do unto others as you would have them do to you!

Do what the loves, buy the first, and it's done! Soften them slowly!

If your boyfriend really loves you, will he still care about these obstacles? If your boyfriend can't even stand such obstacles, is he still qualified to love you? Don't feel that you are wronged, you have to take this as a test for your boyfriend, come over and divide him for the rest of his life, if he fails, then divide it, this proves that he is not qualified to love you and is not qualified to be loved by you.

Hang on! Persistence is victory! Today's parents have a secular vision, but they have the experience of modern people, most of them are only children, and parents may already have a dream of "daughter-in-law" and "virtuous son-in-law" template in their hearts, and when they meet not her (him) in their minds, they are always a little repulsed.

As long as you really love each other and stick to it, eventually your parents will compromise.

Ask him, why his father disagrees, there must be a reason, if you can change the reason, you will change it, if you can't change the reason, then it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, it depends on how much he loves you, can he bear some of this with you? Either you will have to separate, or you will be miserable later.

I think it depends first on your boyfriend's attitude, but also on the reason for his father's opposition, if there is no necessary reason and his father compromises as soon as he opposes him, I think you are still better off with a long pain than a short pain; Life is for the two of you, and if you really love each other, none of this is a problem. I hope you get out of the confusion soon!

You can bring some small gifts to his house and communicate with his parents so that you know why they don't agree, so that you can know what to do. Simple, isn't it? Find the problem, face the problem, solve the problem... That's it.

1. Talk to your parents about your opinions.

Many people bring their partners home when they are in love, all for the purpose of letting their parents check for themselves. After all, parents are the people who love us in the world, and their children's lifelong events are also their biggest worries. If the girl's family disagrees with the girl's boyfriend, the girl can ask her parents what the boy dislikes her parents or what makes her parents feel disgusted.

In addition, girls can also tell their parents some touching things about you and your boyfriend, so that parents can understand that you and your boyfriend have a good relationship, and can support and care for each other in later life, so that parents can eliminate their concerns.

2. Let your boyfriend spend more time with his parents.

Girls can discuss with their parents to let their boyfriends come to stay at home for a few days, let their parents and boyfriends get along for a while, and change their parents' prejudices against their boyfriends in the process of getting along. If it is true that the boyfriend is not doing well, then the girl should re-examine the relationship.

3. Observe your boyfriend's reaction.

Girls can tell their boyfriends that the family does not approve of them being together and observe their reactions. If the boy often quarrels with you or complains about you because his parents don't agree with it, then there is no need to get along anymore. But if he does want to continue to associate with you, he will definitely do something.

4. Carefully consider your parents' suggestions.

Both parents have come from the past, and they see marriage more thoroughly than we do, so girls can seriously consider their parents' opinions. Don't be too autonomous and force yourself to be with your boyfriend, so you may be the one who suffers.

5. Talk face-to-face with your boyfriend and your parents.

Finally, the girl can let the boyfriend and her parents have a good talk face-to-face, after a period of getting along, maybe the parents have changed their opinion of the boyfriend, then you can naturally continue to date. If the parents still disagree, it is recommended that the girl should listen to her parents, and the parents must have their reasons for disagreeing, you can listen to their reasons and end the relationship.

What should I do if my parents don't agree to be with my boyfriend?

1. Active communication. First of all, you should explain to your parents that you love your boyfriend very much, and he has many advantages. In today's society, money can't solve everything, the most important thing is to value people's feelings, as long as they are good to themselves, that is the most important thing.

If after marriage, the man hooks up outside for money, then the wife of the family is very sad, and the family will not go to the end. Therefore, when looking for a husband, you must first value the other party's character rather than money, money is something outside the body, and it can be earned by two people working together.

2. Show your determination. After all, when you are in love, you will live with your husband in the future, not your parents and your husband. Although the opinions of parents also have a great influence on everyone, after all, they start their own family.

If you choose to break up just because your parents don't agree, it's disrespectful to the other party, and it also means that you are very unassertive, so you can listen to your parents' opinions when looking for a boyfriend, but if your parents say something wrong, you should also correct it in time, and you can't just listen to it.

3. Listen to your parents' opinions. Because my parents are very old, they have a lot of experience in society. They may be able to see at a glance what kind of person has what kind of character, so as children, they should also listen to their parents' opinions.

But if you find that your parents have something wrong, you don't have to listen. There are some girls who are in love, so they are coaxed by men. When you get married, you should still keep your eyes open and find a husband who suits you.

According to what you said, you are with your boyfriend, and your parents are against you being together, but you love your boyfriend very much, and you are five months pregnant, and they asked you to kill the child, in fact, in this case, since you love your boyfriend very much, then you must impress your parents with true feelings, and they know and move with affection, and parents all over the world want their children to be happy, and you must also understand your parents' good intentions, so as long as you truly love each other, they will definitely agree.

Your current situation is very bad, you have been pregnant for five months, you don't want to have a child is too late, you should make a decision early, it's too naïve, your boyfriend's family should also come forward to talk to your parents, and take out the results of the child's affairs, now not having children will have a great impact on your body, if you can make your parents accept your boyfriend, it is the best choice to get married and give birth to the child immediately.

You say, the key at this time is your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend is responsible for you, you have to talk about marriage and marry your son, if your boyfriend doesn't plan to be responsible for you, unmarried mothers are in trouble in life.

It is time to find the reason for the family's opposition, prescribe the right medicine, and find a solution to the problem.

Marriage must be decided by yourself, after all, it is a matter of happiness in a lifetime.

However, the opinions of parents should also be taken into account.

Find an opportunity to sit down with your parents and talk about what their reasons are against you being together, after all, your parents have more experience than you and may have seen something you didn't see.

If their consideration is really necessary, you need to weigh your feelings carefully;

If you can be sure that you and your boyfriend are genuinely in love, try to convince your parents that they will bless you.

Think about it carefully.

Although you are pregnant, the opinion of your family is not necessarily wrong.

Ask them clearly why they are against it, and think about getting married.

At least, I personally think that the fact that your boyfriend got you pregnant without your family's approval is very disagreeable.

Also, from a bystander's point of view, if it's not an unacceptable issue, parents won't risk their daughter to kill the child to keep you separated.

Why are they against it?

But when you fall in love, don't you do some contraception? . .

You are stupid to get pregnant out of wedlock, and your boyfriend is a scumbag for you to get pregnant before marriage.

His character is not good, it is recommended to fight, and then break up.

If you really want this child, you can be a single parent.

Don't marry him.

1. Ask the reason.

Generally speaking, there are some reasons why parents disagree with their boyfriends. If your parents tell you that you don't like your boyfriend, then you need to ask why you don't like your boyfriend, so that you can find the best way to fix it.

2. Test your boyfriend's reaction.

When the girl's parents object, the girl should also observe her boyfriend's reaction, if the boyfriend is not in a hurry at all, but retreats, and feels that it doesn't matter, it means that he doesn't care about you, and he doesn't care what your parents think. If your boyfriend knows that your parents don't like him, but is sad, and has been anxious to solve the problem with you, it means that he is really serious and wants to get your parents' approval.

3. Convince parents together.

After knowing the reason why your parents don't like your boyfriend, and your boyfriend shows that he cares about you, if you really decide to live for the rest of your life, then you can go to your parents to discuss it. If it's an economic reason, try to earn money, and if it's a distance reason, then the boy has to make concessions.

4. Let your boyfriend get along with his parents.

Usually when girls go home, they also take their boyfriends home, get along with their parents more, and let their parents see how their boyfriends behave, so that their parents will be much more relieved after a long time.

If it were me, my advice to you would be. Listen to your parents. I know you're going to be upset when you hear that now, or you're not reconciled, so let's put it this way!

But I'm very responsible for telling you that you really should listen to your parents. If your parents are choosing people, they will be more powerful than you, they will see more accurately than you, and they will see more things, of course, you may say why do you want to think so much? A lot of things are plain but.

When you set foot in this society in Shenzhen, when you really marry someone, when you really have to face the trivial things in life, including children, you will know that this kind of thing cannot and does not necessarily have to think about it at the beginning to have a better and happier life. I used to be on the same path as you, so I said I regretted it, and I said that to you. I really did this with good intentions to find you, as long as I know that it will not be easy for you to pull you back now.

But I'm still here to try it. One more word to you. There's a forest right in front of you, but you're putting your own focus on a tree, so when you can really be relieved, when you see a forest.

You will find out. But it's the view. Far more beautiful than you are right now.

So there's no need to dwell on a tree.

In fact, it is not good for parents to interfere too much in the emotional aspects of their children, no one dares to say who chooses the right, at most they are to make their thoughts clear to their children, as for how to choose or children to choose better, this depends on whether you can convince your parents, if you can't, it depends on whether you want to disobey your parents or choose to let go, always have to make a decision, the road is to go out by yourself, once you choose, don't regret it, no matter what the future is your own choice.

The old people are all good for their children, and they all hope that their children can find someone who is good in all aspects and be happy in the future. But emotional things are very strange, and feelings can not be produced under good conditions. So the old man's advice you can refer to, and the final decision lies in your feelings.

Listen to your parents, sometimes it's really hard, but it's better to listen to your parents.

Invite parents to a place or home for communication and communication, introduce the advantages of girlfriends, etc.

It is theoretically possible for a husband to have children and ask his father for help. If your husband agrees, and your mother-in-law agrees, you can do this, but it involves moral issues.

Public order and good customs, that is, the abbreviation of public order and good customs. The so-called public order refers to the general interests of society, including national interests, social and economic order, and social public interests. The so-called good customs refer to general moral concepts or good moral customs, including social morality, business ethics and good social customs.

The General Provisions of the Civil Law of the People's Republic of China repeatedly refer to public order and good customs. For example, Article 8 stipulates that civil entities engaged in civil activities must not violate the law or violate public order and good customs. Article 10 stipulates that civil disputes shall be handled in accordance with the law; Where the law does not provide for it, it may be applied to custom, but it must not be contrary to public order and good customs.

Article 153 stipulates that civil juristic acts that are contrary to public order and good morals are invalid.

Article 7 of the General Principles of the Civil Law, Article 7 of the Contract Law and Article 7 of the Property Law on social morality, social public interest and social and economic order are generally considered to recognize the principle of public order and good customs.

However, the Supreme People's Court's interpretation of the application of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China uses the term "public order and good customs", such as Articles 106 and 360[1].