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Think about it from another perspective: you should be glad that your mother-in-law has no patience to show you the child, how can she take your child well? The child follows such a mother-in-law, can you rest assured yourself?

On the other hand, mother-in-law is not obliged to take your child, she has brought up your husband since she was a child, and now she wants to take her son's son, why treat the old man like this, if you love your husband, you will be more tolerant and respect your mother-in-law. It's time to enjoy it, your husband doesn't want to see your mother, and you will be very uncomfortable, a truth. Be tolerant of others, and you can live happily!

If it is because your mother-in-law has nothing to do and does not help you take care of the child, it is indeed your mother-in-law's fault, but your mother-in-law has something to do, and the reason is still very good, then there is no need to care. It's an old man after all.

Alas! My mother-in-law is the same, no matter what, don't clash with her head-on, and do it reluctantly for the sake of your husband, otherwise your husband will be very embarrassed!

I'm also the kind of person who loves to be annoyed, and I love to get angry and in a bad mood for some small things, but I find that this is really not good, I just want to say, I really have to learn to be satisfied, empathy, women, should live a tolerant life, so it is very beneficial to others and themselves, I recently read a book called "Women, what to rely on to obtain happiness", I think it is very good, you can take a look (just some personal views and feelings, I hope it can help you, wish: good health, happy life!) ）

Score clear what the reason is not for you to take the child. Sometimes we have to use commutation thinking, think from your mother-in-law's point of view, know what the problem is, and then it is possible to solve the problem.

It is more difficult to take care of children, is it inconvenient for mother-in-law to help take care of children if she is not in good health? Be more understanding of your elders.

1. Mother-in-law with a baby is love, not duty.

In the end, the child's guardian is his parents, not his grandparents. It is the parents who are responsible for taking care of the children, not the white ones. Mother-in-law generally loves her son and wants to reduce the burden on young people, and some grandmothers are their own grandchildren, no matter what the reason is, helping to take the child is the greatest affection.

If we don't help take care of the children, we have no reason to refuse to support Bai Chau, in the end there is the grace of nurturing for the husband, and it is a natural job to support Bai Chau.

2. Mother-in-law with a baby is auxiliary.

Bai Chau has reached a certain age, and his body really does not meet the conditions for bringing a baby, so it is not suitable to take children all the time. And from the perspective of parent-child growth, the growth of children is inseparable from the company of their parents, and the child's dependence and emotional needs on his father's skin and pants are irreplaceable.

Therefore, no matter from Bai Chau's physical condition, or from the perspective of parent-child relationship, the mother-in-law is only a foil with the child, and most of the time it still depends on the child's parents. 3. Know how to be grateful.

Mother-in-law helps to take care of the baby is dedicated to her old age, and also has to cook, laundry, do housework, some mothers-in-law not only help take care of the child, but also serve as the child's milk powder, clothing, diapers, etc. Therefore, the mother-in-law with the children has helped us reduce a lot of fatigue and lighten a lot of burdens, and we must know how to be grateful. shouldn't be nitpicking, thinking that the children brought by the mother-in-law are not good, maybe this is not good and that is not good, but the mother-in-law still helps a lot.

4. Give your mother-in-law "wages" appropriately

Bai Sue is willing to help take the child to hide and give her mother-in-law some "wages". Families with good economic conditions give more, so that Ran Jian's mother-in-law is also happy and happy, and if the economic conditions are not good, they should also give a little, although the money is not much, but they express their recognition of the mother-in-law's payment and express their gratitude to their mother-in-law.

Young people are busy with work, and mothers-in-law help to take care of children, which is also for the good of the whole family, and young people should know how to be grateful. If the mother-in-law is unable to help with the children for various reasons, it is also a job that cannot be forced, and they should also have their own old age, please forgive them.