Should such a boyfriend be loved, does my boyfriend love me like this?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You shouldn't love, little girl, you're a fan of the authorities, and you can't see him clearly.

    I tell you, such a man should not be loved, not worthy of love!

    Although he has taken possession of you, if you continue to associate with him, you will lose your life!

    Let's make a decision now, let what is lost pass, but we can't lose everything in the future!

    If he really cares about you, loves you, and respects you, he will never do that. He will definitely apologize afterwards and say all the good things, but his qualities and attitude towards you are already clear!

    The problems reflected in this incident cannot be ignored, and it seems that he is usually "very good" to you, but it is just a small favor.

    You may not be able to find happiness without him, but with him, you will be worried in the future.

    I said it, I hope you can listen to it, I say so much, not for these 100 points, but really want you to leave someone who doesn't cherish you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He definitely did it on purpose.

    He's your boyfriend.

    It's already raw rice and cooked rice.

    If you think the other person is okay, keep together.

    PS: Most girls are forced by their boyfriends for the first time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not intentional" should be believed?

    There are two scenarios:

    1.If he loves you, he will respect you and will not force you. So, he was intentional 2It may also be that the love is deep, and this situation may also be In fact, men's willpower is very poor, especially in the face of paying too much, deeply loved, beautiful, when hehe

    Let's see how he will treat you in the future, and if he's still as good as ever, then he's a good man to marry

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forcibly occupying doesn't mean anything, it only shows that he is in a hurry. Less controllable, but a man can understand that this kind of person is somewhat credible and some is not. How do others know?

    The above is my recommendation.

    It's better for you to make your own judgment.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Look at how long you've been together.

    If it's a year long, it's really nothing, and men think with their lower bodies when they are impulsive.

    It also depends on her character, and it is inevitable that she can't help it in you in the future, and then she can't help it in others.

    But let me tell you, friend, if a man is not very good behaved, and you don't spend a lot of time together.

    But he possessed you like this, and he didn't love you, and I don't know how much he loved you, but he didn't know how to respect you.

    This shows that there is something wrong with his personality, and he can only be separated from him, don't expect that you can get him in exchange for his inseparability, don't let him hurt you deeper.

    If it's your first time, you can only teach yourself a lesson, understand, the cleanliness of a woman's heart is the most important thing, and don't get too angry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He is very good to you, and he has not possessed you before. Let's see how he performs in the future. Don't give it to him too often. As long as you grasp it yourself, you can be happy

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you go on with him, then you're the one who suffers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you're sure she's married, you can.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not so easy for outsiders to talk about it, but I won't do it, I think it's a bit disrespectful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He must have done it on purpose, and it was premeditated from the beginning of your acquaintance, but this is not necessarily a bad thing, he may also love you too much, afraid of losing you, he may want to possess you, and then you really belong to him, and he will feel at ease, if he just wants to possess you, that is, he wants to possess you and then dump you, you...Let's see how he treats you in a while, and soon he will ask of you like that, and I hope he truly loves you and blesses you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Look at his performance, don't be too much now, taste it slowly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sweep the floor and go out, such a person should not believe him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Alas, at this time, even if you don't believe, try to miss it

    If he really loves you, he won't do this to you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Only a fool would believe that the hard days are yet to come.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's what I said after I did it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Observe more, we can't ** to the future, but I wish you good luck!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Probably, the boy is a bit of that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He loves you, but he loves his former girlfriend more, he knows in his heart that you are good to him, but he himself has no way, he can't control his brain, thinking about his former girlfriend, maybe only if he pays, will he know how to cherish, now you, just like him before, love his girlfriend so much, and finally break up. You are the same, treat him like he used to treat her girlfriend, maybe because he has been hurt, it is difficult to be good to others for a while, you can't blame him, he is just out of a kind of protection for himself, he just doesn't want to let himself be hurt anymore, as long as he is good to him as always, after all, he will understand, and will find that he actually has such a person who loves him, suspicion is normal, especially for people who have been hurt emotionally, suspicion will become worse, maybe his ex-girlfriend just ran away with others, So he's afraid that one day you'll be the same, he's afraid of losing you. Do you want him to ignore you, it only means that you don't care in his heart, because you care, so suspicious, because of love, so many behaviors make people incomprehensible.

    You say: If you quarrel with me at every turn because of a trivial matter, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. There are two kinds of people in the world, one is more excited, and the other is more tolerant, maybe he belongs to the former, but as long as you are more humble and don't clash with him head-on, his emotions will slowly calm down.

    You say, "He hits me sometimes, often, very hard, does he have violent tendencies, it's not good to be with people who have violent tendencies?" I know you're a good girl, I know you love him very much, but in fact, I don't recommend that you spoil him like this, as a girl, why do you think about him everywhere like this, to be honest, I admire you very much, if I let myself be like this, I'd rather break up, I like to find someone who loves me, and then I love him well.

    The above is just a little advice to the landlord, whether he is good or not, you know better than us, or use your own eyes to see the true face of this man! That's all I'm talking about.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love or not love someone, in fact, you don't need to ask us, who is good to you, you have a rod in your heart, you will know it with your heart.

    I hope you are happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The answer in your heart is the truest one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How's your boyfriend? If you don't make it clear, how can we help you analyze it?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He loves you, but he can't forget her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Over time, people see people's hearts, and love and non-love are only separated by a wall.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What is it like!! Pestering you all the time?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no should or shouldn't, only want not want. You naturally have a bottom line in your heart.

    I've been with him for a year and a half" -- just because you've been together for a year and a half doesn't mean that you have a deep relationship. Judging by your description, you don't know much about him. The Internet just provides one more channel of communication.

    You can be virtual online, but you can't be confused offline. This man is dishonest, or, to put it mildly, he has no faith in your relationship and uses some means to conceal it, and he simply does not have the courage to be honest with you. It seems that there is a lack of good communication and understanding between you.

    I don't know what your criteria are for choosing a man? I think that whether it is a man or a woman, the first consideration is character, physical and mental health, the ability to settle down in society (raising yourself to a level that you are satisfied with), and finally it is the question of whether it is good for you. Otherwise, his unquantifiable "goodness" to you will also be gone, because he is not satisfied with his life, ** has the confidence and mood to be good to you?

    But at least you have learned that men are not necessarily reliable, and they are not necessarily more capable than you to rely on. Therefore, women themselves have to rely on themselves, they have to look at men more, understand men, and only then can they distinguish men.

    People need wisdom and skills to live, work, study, love and marriage, and sincerity alone is not enough, but also to be able to judge and look at people. And love itself is to try and see if it's suitable. If it is not suitable, it will be broken when it is broken.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I was not sincere before I associated with you.

    If you want to get married, you still lie, and you will be wrong again and again.

    Especially economic concealment.

    And find a reason that is not a reason: fear of losing.

    Wrong is wrong.

    I can't recognize the mistake and find a reason.

    Traveling for three months and staying at home for one month, if it is acceptable.

    But what about this kind of person who keeps lying, even love is unbelievable, and he wants a boyfriend like him.

    The rest of your life will be wonderful.

    So to accept him, just think about how many lies you can accept from him in the future: A man can have no money and no power.

    But if you don't even have a sincere heart.

    Do you feel you can rely on?

    Sometimes giving up is the beginning of happiness.

    I wish you happiness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't be around such people.

    It's not right for him to lie to you, and it's even more wrong to trick you into abducting you.

    If you are with such a person, will you be able to trust him in the future? Can you feel safe?

    Highly recommended!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Do you want there to be some estrangement between you or no estrangement?

    Speaking from the heart, such a boyfriend is not recommended for you, he is a selfish person, and he is also a very scheming man, do you think you can completely control him, or can you control him in some aspects, or you can't control him at all. If you can't control him at all, it's all you who follow him, then, I can assert that your future life will not have each other, there will only be his world, love is a matter of two people, if you live in one person's world, you will be very tired!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it's true love, it won't be so fragile in front of the material, because you started through online dating, so I can only say that your relationship is not deep, and it's not the kind of situation where you can't live without each other. So it's good to recognize the situation early. Feelings also need to be material, but the most important thing is to believe, understand, tolerate, and tolerate!

    I hope you will succeed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When two people are together, the most important thing is honesty, followed by trust. Trust only makes sense when he has a heart for you. Some men are messing around outside, but when they come home, they speak righteously, using faith as a shield, and they have tried and failed.

    Women are always too stupid. If he says he lied to you because he was afraid of losing you, no matter what he lied to you, then with the first time there is a second time. However, it is not easy for two people to live together without any relationship, and I hope you can weigh the pros and cons and think it through.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you love him, you want it, and if you don't love him, you don't want it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The salary is low and I don't want to be with you! Just don't!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't, this kind of person must not want it, you will regret it after you are with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't! My boyfriend also travels a lot, so the relationship between the two people has an impact, and there are a lot of things that need to be solved by the two of them after marriage, so this kind of life is not good. Besides, he lied to you, you just can't have such a man, otherwise you won't have a good time in the future!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What do you mean by "deliberately saying very little"? In fact, it is difficult for outsiders to give you a specific answer, you have to observe and decide for yourself, if you think you don't know enough about him, and you have doubts, then don't be together, two people get along to trust each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There should be no concealment between husband and wife, and even if there is, it is occasional, but only such a big lie, how do you say you live with him. That's it if you're not married.,It's too late to regret it after getting married.。。。

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It shouldn't be, dishonest people are not worthy of trust, the problem is not solved by concealment, and it is also very troublesome for the two parties to be together after they do not get along.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The most basic and most important thing for two people to be together is sincerity. If you can't do that, don't do it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You ask others, what do you think? Actually, you sent out this post, and you already decided, didn't you?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I won't ask for it, and others won't know it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Hello :

    1.Your boyfriend is a soldier, how much do you know about the life of a soldier? Because you have seen a lot of boys around you, and the soldiers look so different, they will make others look at them with envy and amazement...

    Then I would like to say, love is your own, don't live for the gaze of others.

    2.If you are fat, go to the outside, just talk about you. He is a soldier and will be involved in the future when it comes to work after retirement.

    What about you, you are a freshman, your life and dreams have just begun, as far as your major is concerned, the people you will contact in the future are cultivated or like-minded people, but you and him? Do you have the same outlook on life and values?

    3.He pampers you and dotes on you, but it's not true love. True love is based on equality and respect.

    Only by respecting each other can we get along with each other, "He can spoil you for a while, but he can't rush you for a lifetime." A man doesn't say how capable he is, but at least, he has to have a presence that attracts you.

    4.Your life trajectories are different, and the people and things you come into contact with are also different, so it is destined that your personality and development direction will not be the same. Men should keep their promises and be responsible. Although it is a trivial matter, the details are often the most expressive of a person's qualities.

    5.So have you been happy these two years? You know, the depth and length of love are not directly proportional, and with someone who is really you, you will feel that time flies quickly for two years, and vice versa.

    So time is not a criterion, what matters is what that person in your mind is like, you have your principles and ideas.

    In closing, I would like to say that your future will be full of brightness, so please don't invest your feelings and time in such a person, it is not worth it, even if he is good to you, it is not what you need. So to sum up, you guys are not suitable.

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