Problems with my boyfriend, I hope you can help me come up with ideas

Let's get together and talk about the reason why you can't be together If he thinks about you, he will be good friends with you If he really insists on it, there is no way to lie and you can't solve it, you can only be a stranger.

Break up with good intentions, get together and disperse.

I've had such a thing, it's actually very simple, don't rush to say it first, because since you have both met your parents, it proves that you still love each other very much. In fact, men are not as vulnerable as you think, find a better time to explain the truth to him, and why are your parents against it? If he can do it, your parents would not expect better.

Breaking up things is practical and practical and what language is used, it will make people feel unpleasant and uncomfortable, therefore, be frank and decisive, it is good for everyone, as for the hurt, it is unavoidable, there will always be, unless he already doesn't like you and plan to break up, or there is definitely harm, break up peacefully, it is good to say that it is good to delete it will not become an enemy, but it is not easy to become a good friend or something, I also recommend not, contact less after the breakup, this is not ruthless, but good to him himself, After all, after the breakup, you have to start a new relationship and life, keep a certain distance, and less contact is good for everyone, the latter has endless troubles and is very likely to affect future relationships.

Parents don't agree, that's the reason. However, your parents raised you seventeen or eighteen, and your husband raised you with gray hair. Why separate?

I would like to ask you what is the reason why your parents do not approve of you? If you also feel that you are not suitable for being together, it means that you do not really love him, since you are not sincere, you can slowly transform your own attitude, for example, he asked you out, you said that you are not available, what he does, you don't like it, over time, this man also understands, or often loses his temper, unreasonable, and when he is tired, it is time for you to disperse.

If he likes you very much. No matter how you say that, it hurts.

Just tell the truth in this case, and I think your boyfriend will understand your difficulties.

If you don't have the courage, why do you want to continue in the first place?

Just tactfully say that you two are not suitable.

Then praise him more.

Telling the truth is the most sincere.

Too much grooming can make it look unnatural.

There are many reasons for this, but in simple terms, it is divided into internal and external.

The external reason is that you go to school, and there is indeed pressure on your studies, this is not to be questioned, and if you fall in love, it will definitely have a little impact, he may be very realistic, so I say so.

Internally, I think that's the point. If he ignores you after the steel confesses, there must be a problem. 8 percent is that he found out that you are not actually the type he likes, or you are not the girl in his mind, he may not have recognized it clearly when he chased it before, and now he uses learning as an excuse to say that he doesn't want to date.

In most cases, he doesn't like you, and studying is probably an excuse, and the root cause is that he doesn't like you and doesn't want to waste time with you.

Students fall in love like this, it is easy to become but it is difficult to take a long time, because they don't know each other very well before falling in love, but they just date first and then see if it is suitable or not, which is prone to your situation.

I advise you to give up, come out quickly, and find a new relationship is the best solution.

Question you added:

According to the questions you added, it can be said that there is basically no problem with my analysis above, that is, he has no confidence in this love now. He said that if he likes the original you, he is not satisfied with the current you.

So if you want to redeem it, I think you can have a serious talk with him, communicate with him, and start again.

If you don't want to redeem it, then just give up, and it will be difficult to change a person's mind after all.

It's really a little incomprehensible, since I don't want to talk about it now, why do I want to confess to you? There may also be a possibility that he is afraid that you will be chased away, so he will show you his heart first. It's just that he is now focusing on his studies, so he has to put his feelings after studying for the time being.

If he wants to get ahead in the future and create good conditions for you to be together, then there is nothing wrong with him doing so, but he should have a good talk with you. If he had something else in mind, I don't know. It seems that you are all students, and it is best to be able to sort out the dividing line between feelings and studies, not that you must kill this kind of relationship, but you must also understand the severity.

After all, as long as you like each other, you will have a lot of time together in the future, but if you miss the study, you will definitely regret it later. The most important thing now is to understand his thoughts, and don't blindly blame yourself, always feeling that it is your own fault. If he still refuses to explain his thoughts to you, then you have to calm down, and if you really like him, then maybe you can wait until he is willing to explain his thoughts to you, and your conflict will be resolved.

However, I have to nag you now, you are still young, and you are still very hazy about feelings, and if you like it now, you may not be able to maintain this love mood when you go out of society in the future. It's not a blow to you to say this, after all, love is still beautiful. It's just that you have to think about everything before and after, and you can't be carried away by impulses.

Downstairs was right. I guess he has a new lover or is really hot-headed and confessed. He doesn't love you or his parents don't approve ...

Let's do it hard, boy. Let's fight for the future. Give up this fruitless love.

Twisted melons are not sweet. You should know. Then study hard.

It's good to try to get into the same school as him.

Give up decisively, you also have your own life and learning, do you think it's worth wasting your time for his few confessions? I think he is also irresponsible, since he doesn't want to delay his studies, why should he confess to you, since he confessed, why ignore you? Is it worth crying for someone like that?

In other words, he only likes you who haven't confessed before, so you ignore him, you know, things will become, and the same is true for the people around you.

Hehe, you're right, it's just that this man is more fickle than a woman, confessing in the last second and being indifferent in the next second, it really hurts our girls' self-esteem, since the man has explained the reason to you, don't be entangled, there is really not much time before the high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination, so it is recommended that you do this first, go with the flow and prepare for the exam first, and then deal with personal emotional problems after the exam.

There are many people in the world who are caught up in loving and being loved. Fate is very peculiar, but feelings must not be compromised. If the person you love doesn't love you, you'll be miserable, and the person who loves you won't get your love, and he'll be miserable.

If you really don't love him, don't accept his feelings easily, because a person who can lie with "I love you" will not get true love.

As for the person you love, if he doesn't know that you love him, tell him your heart once, don't care about the external environment and pressure, the heart can't control it. If he explicitly rejects you, you will be sad, but you will also look at life in a different mood. When expecting his love, your eyes contain too much of his shadow, and you will feel no other happiness.

When disappointed, although the eyes will be full of tears, they will see much more clearly. After all, it is impossible for people to fulfill all their wishes.

But the most important thing is not to hurt others because of your own injuries (including easily accepting a love that you don't care about), with such kindness and reason, happiness will favor you. Wishing you happiness!