What truths have you received in your life?

A person's energy is extremely limited. Don't overestimate your actual ability and make a list of cumbersome plans, such as "you have to read a book a week, you have to run a few kilometers a day, and you have to go to sleep every day", which seems like a good habit, but in essence, it is a big misunderstanding, there are many emergencies in life, and it is impossible for a person to be able to execute on time and complete it perfectly according to the schedule every day day after year. Therefore, once you can't stick to it for other reasons, or do less and don't meet the standard, your heart will be hit hard, and you will feel that your self-control is not good, in fact, this is completely a problem in your heart, remember one sentence:

Don't work too hard, but seek perseverance.

Persistence is the most valuable quality, but it is also very painful, this pain is like the pain that you have just eaten a big meal, you are already very full, and let you eat another bowl of rice, it is also the pain that you are tired to death after running 20 kilometers, and it is also the pain that you don't want to do something at that time but want you to do certain things. If you can't persevere, you should think about what you least want to do at that time, and doing it is the right choice.

When learning all kinds of things, we must remember that if you are greedy and chew too much, and if you are miscellaneous but not refined, it is like chicken ribs, and it is not of great use, so you would rather not want it. Zeng Guofan's words said the true meaning: if you dig a well, instead of digging several wells and not reaching the spring, why not keep a well, and strive to reach the spring and use it inexhaustibly.

Add another sentence in No. 69 of Wang Yangming's "Biography": "Instead of a few acres of sourceless pond water, it is better to be a few feet of active well water, and the business is not poor." ”

The most obvious thing is that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you! So, whenever I have a difficult setback, or when I have a big decision, I always discuss it with my family. Although the times are changing too fast, and some new things are not well understood by the older generation, however, their years of experience are still there, as the saying goes, we have eaten more salt than we eat, and this is the truth!

Learning to be a person first and then learning to do things is very useful for students who have just left school. I graduated last year, just out of school, I am very confused, the most felt is that no one wants to teach you, you have to learn to be a person, slowly ask others for advice, no one wants to take the initiative to help you. Don't be angry at what others are doing, because everyone is slowly climbing up from the bottom.

The most important point is that if you can't do things, you must learn to be a man, be diligent in everything, suffer some losses and nothing, and you will have a good impression. If you're planning to start a business, that's a different story.

Exercise more, be kind to yourself, many of my colleagues in their early 30s began to have "three highs", spondylosis, high uric acid, fatty liver, I used to feel young, it doesn't matter if I stay up late to drink and smoke, now I have to lie at home for a day the next day after staying up late on weekends, exercise more, and don't let my future self regret it. Be kind to yourself, work is very boring, give yourself a little hope, reward yourself with an item after paying your salary, reward yourself with a trip once a year, etc., the most important thing is to be happy!

Never think you're smarter than your colleagues, and don't be clever. If everyone can get together in the same company, their IQ will not be far behind. Many times, what we think we are smart is actually seen through by others at a glance.

And as long as you are found to be this type of person, it is easy to be isolated.

One of my favorite sayings is "If you don't work hard today, try to find a job tomorrow". Very good young people usually work easier than anyone, and the remuneration is hoped to be the best, the ability is not strong, full of complaints, the typical eye is low, is now a common problem among some young people, the hard work of the older generation, the spiritual quality of hardship and hard work have been forgotten.

Don't try to please yourself as an equal. Especially for those who have just entered the workplace, you can work diligently and take the initiative to do things, but don't feel that you are new to the workplace, and you will only be submissive, giving people a feeling of inferiority. You should think of yourself as an equal person from your heart.

If you have doubts about your leader's ability or character, remember that upward communication is not an effective solution, but a change of environment. If a person is so bad that he can still be in that position, either his leader is stupid and can't see it, or his leader knows it, but just wants to take refuge.

The reality of matter. Right thinking.

The truth of life is to take risks, if you don't take risks in life, what is the difference between life and randomly arranged numerators? , in the sea of the universe, which is a sea of waves, drifting and dissipating.

It's not terrible to endure hardship, but I'm afraid to lie down.

Ordinary life, husband and wife are harmonious, children grow up healthily, family is happy, do not seek to be rich and rich, just want the family to be happy together! There is nothing big in this world except life and death, so love yourself a little more! Be less angry and be content!

There are many things in life. Life is good and wonderful. But life is not the same thing :

Relaxed. Sometimes, this is clearer than others. We don't always make it easy for ourselves, we cling to habits and ideas that are crazy, ridiculous and even harmful to us.

We go through life and refuse to see the simple truths because we are afraid they will be too much to bear.

The truth is harrowing, but someone has to say it. Your life is what you do, and the only person who can help you is yourself, and accepting them will make your life a lot easier and happier.

1.Life is hard.

It's important to accept that life can be tough. Everyone faces painful life challenges. You don't know where to go, what to do, what you're doing right now.

If you don't live on the dark side, you will never recognize the good side. There's a reason why you're now, why it's so difficult.

2.You can't change your past.

Where are you now, here or are your thoughts and memories of the past? Has anything changed? This moment will not come back.

You are wasting time and energy analyzing and suffering from pain that no longer exists except for your memories. You can't go back in time and the past, but you can do everything you can to make this moment memorable. Suppose the past is set in stone.

Learn from these courses and become a person who is right for you first. That's what the past was for.

3.The future is indispensable.

The future is not a good one, and you don't have to worry about it. You should live in the moment and find beauty in it. This doesn't mean you shouldn't set goals, which are essential to achieving your life goals.

4.Failure is a part of life.

You have to turn failure into a stepping stone to success.

5.Money is important, but not all.

Money shouldn't be everything to the point. Because there are some things that money can't buy. Just like love, even if you are the richest person on the planet, money will not save someone who is dying of a serious and unavoidable disease.

6.Happiness is a choice.

Many people believe that the sum of feelings and emotions depends on the environment, the environment, and the people in life. I can partially agree. But when it comes to your own happiness, you and everyone else are fully responsible for it.

Yes, situations can make you unhappy, but it's your job to do the things that make you happy. Again, no one will do it for you because it's your own life!

7.Nothing.

It doesn't matter if you have money or your parents take care of everything. Remember, there will be a point in your life that will get stuck and you alone. And the only way to use it is to make money yourself or do it yourself.

8.Even if you do a lot of good deeds, people will always remember the bad deeds you did.

Out of 100 things you do, 99 things are good, but people will always focus on the one thing you did wrong.

I think we have to accept truths such as "money is not everything", "hard work is more important than talent", "talk less and do more at work", etc., and I think these truths must be understood because they can benefit us for a lifetime.

We must accept that we have no money, accept the appearance given to us by our parents, and accept our living conditions, because no matter whether we have money or whether the family is good or bad, we must gladly accept that everyone has their own way of life, and do not compare.

Having money is everything, and not having money is everything; Money talks; Hard work is always more important than talent; Talk less and do more. Personally, I feel that these truths are very important and practical, and we should all accept them.

I think that when a person matures, he does not become realistic, but learns more and more how to accept reality; Life is always imperfect, and there must be flaws.

One true friend is better than a thousand false friends. Like an iceberg. Don't reveal your all. Leave your hidden beauty and splendor to the few who are willing to dive deeper with you. Everyone wants to eat, but not everyone wants to hunt.

Everything is good, but not everything is worth it. It doesn't matter if you're black or white. We are all people of color. Don't go for success. The pursuit of value. Don't judge me by my past. I don't live there anymore.

People may not always tell you openly how they feel about you, but they will always tell you with actions. Life is what lens we use to see things and pick up lead. Every day you are making choices about your life. Look before you leap.

At first they will ask you why you are doing it. But then they'll ask you how you did it. Life is a reflection of six different flavors of food. Sweet, sour, salty, bitter, spicy, astringent. The seventh has not yet been discovered.

Some people want things to happen. Some people make things happen. Some people will ask, "Why is this happening?"

Before others, first yourself. Try to do things in chronological order; This way your retarded brain will be easier to understand and easier to understand. Still, those who had the most toys when they died were still dead people.

There is a method of ignorance called education. Madness has its medicine. But there is no stupid way.

Addiction doesn't kill addicts. It will ruin your conscience. In the human personality, dignity is the first thing that dissolves in alcohol.

Many people have gone far beyond what they thought they could have done because others thought they could do it. The future always starts now. People who live in the past limit their future.

We love each other, not because we have found the perfect person, but because we have learned to look at an imperfect person perfectly. You have to fight for the people you truly love and love the people you fight for.

You can't control who your heart chooses to love, so just relax and enjoy the journey. A coward dies a thousand times, and a warrior dies only once. Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success.

I think that in life, you should talk less and do more to learn, so that you can be comfortable in your future work, and learn from others to pay a certain price, don't expect others to take the initiative to write things to you, you have to mention Zen silver first.

We think that there are times when you can't find it, and if you fall in love with someone and that person doesn't have feelings for you, even if you try to pursue it, it won't help.

Don't think too much about being a person, as long as you work hard enough, don't desperately ask for help, the more you think about it, the more anxious you are, the more you won't get rewarded; When you don't think about it, it will belong to you unexpectedly. There are some unspoken rules and ungraspable scumbags to search the west, or go with the flow. People's progress and development are relative, and what should be yours is yours after all, don't force it. ”