How can I embrace you warmly when you come, and I will let go calmly when you go?

Regardless of whether the other party comes or not, you should have your own life, independent thinking, independent economic ability, and independent life circle, so that you can do it.

Why are many people so uncomfortable after falling out of love, because when he came, she had already given up her original life, because of his arrival, she gave up her independent thoughts, independent economic ability, independent self, and her own life circle, so after he left, she would be in pain.

If when he came, she didn't put all her time and energy on him, but just set aside some time to spend with him and give him some energy, instead of when she was in love, she put all her energy on him, away from her friends, no longer work hard, no longer study hard, and focus on her boyfriend in her thoughts, then she wouldn't be so painful when she broke up.

In reality, many people can't accept the pain of falling out of love, so they don't dare to start a new relationship, but if you can have love, you can also have your own life, have your own friends, have your own career, and strive to improve yourself, your life does not revolve around him, but he is just involved in your life, you are still the same you, he just makes your life fuller, makes your life a little more different, then you will not be so painful when you break up.

But I'm afraid that once many people fall in love, they will have no self at all, she has no friends, eating, shopping, and playing are all accompanied by her boyfriend, and she has no heart to do her work, she only wants to go home early to wash her hands and cook for her boyfriend, she just wants her boyfriend to eat, drink and live well, and the focus of her life has become her boyfriend.

So when this focus of life leaves, how can she bear it, if she doesn't put him as the center of gravity of life, and the focus is still herself, then she can let go calmly.

When you're dealing with a relationship, give it your all and don't hold back. Passion cuts fiery. But he also understands that separation and union are common conditions in the world.

When it comes to separation, you can understand that it will be better at the end, and you can naturally do it when you come and I embrace each other warmly, and I will let you go calmly.

We must learn to protect ourselves in life, so that we can not be harmed, but affect our normal life, relax our minds, and treat life with enthusiasm.

Personally, I think that if we want to do if you come to me and embrace each other warmly, and I will let you go calmly, then we must maintain a very correct attitude to face life optimistically.

It is necessary to have positive values to be able to do this, which is also an attitude of life.

You have to have a very casualness mentality. Only then can we be very tolerant of the coming and going of love.

If you want to do this, you have to adjust your mentality, and when your mentality is more stable, you can do it.

Wen Nanguo's daughter.

If you have a lover in your heart, your eyes will be full of passers-by. But the lover in my eyes, I am a passerby in his heart.

Before I met you, I wanted to wander the world, after I met you, I just wanted to go home and eat and sleep with you, after I met you, I couldn't be tempted by anyone, because you are my heart.

Because there is always a person in my heart who wants to love but can't be together, I always look at no one right, and I can't feel the happiness I imagined when I am with anyone.

I have a lover in my heart, and I look like a passerby, but I am also a passerby in my beloved's heart.

Maybe there will be a person in everyone's life who can't be loved, can't be caught, can't let go, can't forget. I am reluctant to be friends because I love you unforgettable, and I am reluctant to be too strange because I am afraid that I will never get your news again.

Because there is a person in my heart who can't be together, I always seem so out of place, as if I have no enthusiasm for anyone, as if I am particularly lonely and cold, and I am full of defense against everything.

The love of my life is like a bottle of mineral water, although it may be cheap, but when I first met you, I gave it all to you without hesitation, so now I no longer have love, and I have no love to love the actual person.

You are the dream that I have never finished in my life, and I am the wind that blows in your thoughts. Meeting you made me know that everyone else has become a general.

In this life, there may only be one person in a lifetime who is desperate for love and everything else, and like you, there may only be one person who can dry up and love wholeheartedly.

This is probably what makes you different, after you, I no longer have that kind of heart-beating love, and I don't have that kind of attachment to love, maybe this is the eternal commotion that I can't get.

You come, I can embrace each other warmly, you go, but I can't let go calmly, and I can't calm down after you leave, because my heart has gone with you.

1. There are many people with Xu's lead, and they have become old people before you have time to pay attention*2, tears fall on your fingers, so cold and so cold, just like the past piece by piece of time.

3. Be willing to be for you and pour the world into the world.

4. There must be someone who understands such feelings.

5. Man can do what he wants, he can't ask for what he wants.

6. When you come, I embrace each other warmly, you go, and I let go calmly.

7. Everyone will be afraid, especially if they cherish it desperately and still can't keep it in the end.

8. In everyone's memories, there will be a table mate that has made your heart move.

9. Don't ask me if I'm doing well. It's not good, you can't help Huimo. It's not your credit to you.

10, how can so many love words not move him, 11, are you waiting for me to move an inch When the whole world is against me.

12. To delete everything about you, but you can't format your own heart.

I think if you want to have a confident love, then the most important thing is to be confident, to learn to love yourself, not to be too humble.

Love is very beautiful and very important, but I don't think love is important enough to affect a person's entirety, a person must first learn to love himself before someone will love her, right?？So no matter whether you have met love or not, whether you have lost love, the most important thing is to always put yourself in the first place in love.

I think Faye Wong's concept of love is like this, very free and easy, even if you have children, I am willing to spend a happy life with you when you come, and I don't care if you leaveBecause I know that even if I leave you, I will not lose my current quality of life, and I can still have a happy life.

Let's talk about a vulgar reason, the love of rich people is basically free and easy, because there is no need to worry about money, so it is rarely torn, everyone is very happy, because money can solve certain problems. But the point is, what if we, as ordinary people, are not so rich? Then I think the most important thing is to learn to love yourself, know how you feel, and recognize yourself.

We must not fall in love with our heads, otherwise we will be miserable, and we will be dominated and influenced by others, so we will not be able to achieve happiness. Only when you learn to respect your feelings, love yourself, know what you want, and don't make fools for love, can you truly enjoy the benefits of love.

To sum up, it is necessary to have an independent personality, although many people are independent individuals, but it is not easy for the spirit to be independent. Learn to be independent in order to have a truly happy love.