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Two days ago, I broke up with my best friend who had been with me for many years since I started my sophomore year of high school. said that I deleted her, but in fact I was "cut off". Some time ago, I stopped ignoring me for some reason, she was a senior abroad, and I didn't save my number when it often changed, and I didn't respond to her contact on QQ and WeChat, I was very angry that she suddenly ignored me, so I deleted everything she had.
Then the other day she emailed me, saying that I had never invited her to dinner in the past few years, saying that I was unhappy that she was with the boy I used to have a crush on, because even the things I didn't want were not allowed to be taken by others. It was a fact that I didn't invite her to dinner, and I realized that I had to pay it back, and she invited me to invite her back once, because almost every time I went home during the winter and summer vacations (after going to college, we could only meet during the winter and summer vacations), she invited others to dinner and took me with me, so I was really stupid enough to realize that I wanted to invite her back. There are too many things, she didn't say it at the time, but now she says it all in one go, saying that I have always been for myself, it has never changed, and it is not worth making friends like me.
Looking back on all these years, I cried and didn't look for her again, I felt that I had grown up all of a sudden, and I had learned so much at once, so much that I couldn't bear it. Looking back around me, I realized that I really don't have many good friends, and that's really my own reason. I hope that in the future, no matter what kind of relationship breaks, I must learn to summarize and put these summaries firmly in mind and put them into practice.
I don't want to have one less friend around me, after all, she was my most precious, best friend. Take it to heart. The sentence in her Weibo, "I think it's ridiculous when I think about it, but I feel even more meaningless" deeply pierced my heart.
It turned out that I was making myself hurt so much. Hey, take it as a warning.
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There is nothing for no reason, think about the reason, there will be.
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Ask directly why this is the case.
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Summary. Hello dear, I'll answer your questions!
It's normal for friends to have conflicts, and my good friends and I will also have conflicts, but remember that you can't make a big deal and can't do things that leave scars, I personally can't accept this kind of behavior like deleting friends, and I must be sad at the moment, even if I add it back and reconcile it later, there will be pimples, and it may not be able to return to the previous state, one of the situations where the contradiction is big is to break off the relationship, which is equivalent to a divorce between husband and wife, and want to remarry after divorce, is it to see if the attitude is sincere, Do you really want this hard-won friendship, just like the lyrics in the love trade, love is not what you want to sell, friendship is also, friendship is precious to us, we can't ask for it, but when pursuing it, we must always remember that it is always yours, not your don't force it, if you are not suitable to be a friend, don't force it, if you don't force it, don't force it, don't force it, don't force it, it's also let go of yourself.
Broken friends come to you to reconcile.
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Hello dear, I'll answer your questions! It's normal for friends to have conflicts, and my good friends and I will also have conflicts, but remember that you can't make a big deal and can't do things that leave scars, I personally can't accept this kind of behavior like deleting friends, and I must be sad at the moment, even if I add it back and reconcile it later, there will be pimples, and it may not be able to return to the previous state, one of the situations where the contradiction is big is to break off the relationship, which is equivalent to a divorce between husband and wife, and want to remarry after divorce, is it to see if the attitude is sincere, Do you really want this hard-won friendship, just like the lyrics in the love trade, love is not what you want to sell, friendship is also, friendship is precious to us, we can't ask for it, but when pursuing it, we must always remember that it is always yours, not your don't force it, if you are not suitable to be a friend, don't force it, if you don't force it, don't force it, don't force it, don't force it, it's also let go of yourself.
Hello dear, it can also be said that a friend who has been broken off for a long time came to reconcile, and the chat atmosphere is very awkward, that's for sure. As long as you are tolerant and learn to be generous, you can resolve the awkward atmosphere, after all, you used to be friends, and you can reconcile with friendship as a foreshadowing. I think that the broken friend reconciles with you, if he is sincere, you should accept this friend, there is nothing embarrassing, you can talk about whatever he wants, just like in the past, to give others a chance, and give yourself a chance to reconcile!
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As personal life and work develop, people meet a variety of people, and in the process, relationships with friends change. Sometimes, we may find ourselves drifting away from our friends, or even breaking up with each other, so is this normal? This article will look at this issue from different angles.
First of all, we need to recognize that the relationship between people is very complex. Everyone has their own personality, hobbies, values, etc., and these factors will affect the relationship between people. Therefore, even the best friends can have disagreements and contradictions.
And these differences and contradictions may lead to problems in the relationship between friends, or even to break up. Second, we need to acknowledge that the environment in which people live and work is constantly changing. After graduating from school, we may enter different industries, and the location and environment of work will be different.
These changes can cause our contact with our friends to become less frequent and drift apart. This situation is very common in modern society, because people live at an increasingly fast pace, people often need to spend a lot of time and energy to cope with the pressure of work and family, and the time for making friends and social activities is correspondingly reduced. In addition, we need to recognize that human growth and development is an ever-changing process.
Our interests and values may change, which can also affect our relationships with our friends. Sometimes, we may find ourselves and our friends with more and more different interests and values, and even disagreements and contradictions. This situation can also cause problems in our relationship with our friends.
However, while relationships with friends can be problematic, we don't need to be overly pessimistic and anxious. Because, friendship needs to be tested and sublimated. When there are conflicts and disagreements between us and our friends, we should actively communicate and solve the problem, rather than choosing to break up the relationship.
At the same time, we can also expand our social circle and make more friends by participating in various activities and social occasions. In conclusion, problems in relationships with friends are a very common phenomenon, but it does not mean that breaking up relationships is the only option. We can maintain contact with friends through communication and problem solving, and we can also expand our social circle through friendship, make more friends, and enrich our life experience.
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Hello, dear, 1, rubber model let each other calm down for a while, don't be too anxious: when there is a conflict, everyone is angry, at this time, let each other calm down, think about the problem, maybe after a while, it will be automatically reconciled. 2. Forget about dignity and face, the main beam rock slowly moves to find the other party:
Sometimes when there is a conflict, it is easy for people to not want to take the initiative to find each other because of face problems, but if you want to reconcile with friends, then, don't care too much about face. 3. Think about the reason for the quarrel: if you do something wrong, take the initiative to apologize, and don't make a mistake again next time.
4. Don't delve into who is right and who is wrong in small matters: many things, considering who is right and who is wrong, will only aggravate the contradictions, especially small things, if it is not a very serious problem, don't care too much.
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In fact, the reason for breaking off friendship is definitely not a trivial matter, it is a long-term accumulation of things that explode on top of the trivial things in your opinion. Have you ever cared about this friend of yours? Know what he likes or doesn't like?
It is very likely that your attitude towards doing things has touched his bottom line, so that he has no sense of trust in you. It is recommended to talk to him openly and honestly, many things need to be run-in, if the idea of communication is gone, it is basically dead.
In fact, when you can come out and ask what to do, it proves that you still can't let go of this friend, go and talk to him.
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Hello! First of all, we have to figure it out."
Definition of "good friend".
First: he (she) is your good friend, the definition of this kind of good friend is often what we think, it is possible that the other party does not think so;
Second: You are a good friend of his/her person, but what the other person does for you may not be satisfied, so you will avoid or hide from the other person to do other things.
Both of the above""Good friends" are inevitable to separate, because they can't open their hearts to each other, they just want to protect themselves, it's good to break up early, and recognize what kind of person the other party is as soon as possible, which will help you make friends in the future.
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1. Some people are destined to go, so let him go. Whether it's a friend or a lover, no matter what the reason, no matter what the past, if you want to leave, just let him go, don't force it.
2. Those who can leave easily are not real friends. If it's a friend, it's like this because of a trivial matter, then, it's not a real friend, just break off the relationship, there's nothing nostalgic.
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If you break up your friendship because of a trivial matter, then he or she is not your good friend. Don't want this kind of friend!
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Then break off the relationship, if she has this temper, then she must be fine after a while, if not, the friend who broke up because of a trivial matter is probably not a real friend.
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A good friend won't break up on a small thing, and a break won't be a trivial thing. Or if you break up, you won't be good friends, think for yourself.
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In fact, many couples are experiencing breakups and being broken up every day, when a relationship comes to an end, if it is not handled well, it will not only affect our personal emotions, but also affect our work and life. As long as you pay hard, it will definitely be very painful at the end.
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Let it be.
Don't force it either.
It can also be reasonable.
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Friends who can be broken up, but not friends. Stay away from this person, the farther away the better. Watering trees and roots, handing over people's hearts.
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