Can you talk about how much you think is appropriate?

The general one is 60,000 to 100,000, in the rural areas of northern Jiangsu.

If the family conditions are good, the maximum shall not exceed 30,000.

There must be a house, I am not required to write my name, and the bride price is between 60,000 and 150,000 yuan, and I will bring it back after marriage anyway.

How much is not suitable, this is based on the man's conditions, and it is not a check, how much you want to write.

Starting at 500,000 yuan, there is no cap on the amount of savings in the man's family.

The general family bride price of 66,000 and 88,000 is an acceptable price, but some families raise the bride price to 180,000 or 280,000 in order to earn money.

The bride price on our side is generally 158,000 plus some formalities mobile phone, what is the change fee? Whatever, add up to 200,000.

According to the conditions of both families, it will generally not exceed the total family income for 2 years.

Regarding the bride price, Mr. Liu (husband) and I share a county town, and according to local customs, the bride price ranges from 10,000 yuan or 10,000 yuan. But for the engagement, my parents' suggestion is that the process should still be followed, and the bride price money must be given, otherwise it will be difficult to save face. Mr. Liu felt that he didn't even need to mention this money, and he couldn't embarrass his parents.

Mr. has 5 brothers and sisters, and his parents have raised 5 children, and they have paid a lot, and their brothers 3 go to college, and their tuition fees depend on student loans, and their living expenses depend on themselves.

Mr. Liu and I are one and have come to an agreementWe came out with the money ourselves, and Mr. Liu gave his parents 5,000 yuan for the engagement banquet and shopping. The bride price money, I communicated with my parents, it is impossible to follow the local customs, the bride price money was given 10,000, and 20,000 yuan was returned, but in fact it was 10,000.

My parents accept it, but they are not happy in their hearts, because they will compare, and the friends around them charge so much bride price money for marrying their daughters, can't their daughters get married? I understood my parents' mentality, but I also explained to them that Mr. Liu's family really has no money, and spending more and being extravagant is our own money.

I made my parents lose face in this matter, but in the future life, I helped them get it back, and now no one thinks that I am not married well. But at the time,I will never slap a swollen face and become fat for the sake of face.

Anyway, the two of us reached a unanimous suggestion, so we got engaged, and only after receiving the license did we have a wedding. The wedding banquet money was paid by Mr. Liu's parents with the gift money they received.

Now, I feel that their family respects me very much, treats me very well, and does not think that I am a cheap daughter-in-law because I don't want any bride price. When many couples break up because of the bride price, I understand, but I know what I want. In the blind date market, a family cannot give any support, and young people who are just starting out, even if they are potential stocks, will make people hesitate.

Just like many women ask for a house, Mr. Liu was passed. Now, he has a house and a big job, he is young, he has a good personality, of course he is a suitable marriage partner, his advantages are magnified, how to look at it.

At that time, I got married at 8880, which was more urgent, so I set up these money to marry my daughter-in-law to the house, which was relatively good, but it was still relatively expensive at that time.

Set at one, 20,000, not wait for 30,000 or 40,000, what I want to talk about is that the conditions of the other party's family are determined, how much they are willing to pay, the families of both sides are discussed, marriage is a happy event, can not be unhappy, the future days have to continue to go on, and, that is, some places have heard that it seems to be relatively high, l80,000, 280,000 or so, if it is a rich person, open a company, do business, the small meaning can also be taken out, this is nothing. Also, that is, in some places, you have to buy a house. Buying a car, in short, what's the matter, everyone discusses it to be better, and we all hope that everyone will live a good life.

Here's this, there is a regulation, the bride price must be 100,000, from the first meeting to the marriage and engagement of the daughter-in-law, you have to give money for the holiday, and you have to give money No matter what the big thing, most of the small things are money.

The bride price money is for people to see, there is no need to be too much, as long as you look at the past, you can give him a house and a car.

We are average but fifty or sixty thousand, and my classmate's cousin is engaged and married to seventy or eighty thousand, and I am amazing, he has no penny, and he is also engaged ......

It's that we have a special situation here, if your boyfriend has one more brother, you have to add more money, this depends on how many people you have in your family, one person or about 100,000?

The bride price here is generally 128,000, which is an auspicious number, and there is a car, which is about 70,000 or 80,000.

I am from the countryside, and there are very few bride prices in our place, at most 50,000 or 20,000 for an average family, and by the way, it is possible to add a car.

There is still a standard configuration for this, that is, 100,000 yuan is not more or less, it is almost the same, you can look at you, and you will not lose face because of this.

The amount of bride price depends on the man's family situation, and the meaning of the bride price is the man's sincerity to the woman.

The bride price is a very troublesome thing for the man's family, because most families are more concerned about the bride price, especially the woman's family will be more strict with the bride price, in fact, for many girls' families, the bride price is not the most important, the most important thing is the importance and attention of the man's family to the woman, because in the marital state, if the two families are not in a position of mutual respect and equality, So in order to avoid this situation, both parents and even both families will give some special ways to express the importance of their families to this marriage. So this is not only a matter of attitude, but also a family concept that attaches importance to marriage, in fact, most of the bride price will return to the hands of two people after marriage, so how the two parties manage the funds, mainly depends on how both parties plan their future lives.

In real life, there are many couples who may have various conflicts because of other marriage things such as the bride price before they get married, and even couples who have been with them for a long time will break up because of the bride price. In fact, the ideal funds for the bride price are not fixed, the requirements for the bride price in each place are different, and the definition of the bride price in different families is also different. If the relationship between two people is very deep and they are willing to sacrifice part of their funds for both parties, then I think this kind of marriage is actually the happiest and healthiest.

To be honest, the bride price mainly depends on how deep the relationship between the two parties is, which is just a way to test two people.

The appropriate amount of bride price depends on the attitude of young people, and young people should also make decisions in this process. For most young people, they may choose to want some bride price. Because young people also know that it is not easy to earn money, they will not make excessive demands in the process.

Giving a bride price is actually of great significance, and in this process, it can also show that the family cares about the girl. <>

For both boys and girls, after reaching a certain age, everyone will face the problem of getting married. Before getting married, the two families will also discuss the bride price. Because the discussion also proves that the two families respect each other, it is also possible to see what the young people think in the process.

Because everyone's attitude towards the bride price is different, there is no fixed value for the amount of the bride price. There is no clear requirement for how much bride price is appropriate, so in this process, it still depends on what kind of character the young person is. Some young people think that a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan is enough, but some young people may put forward some excessive requirements.

Because everyone thinks differently, everyone will also say different ideas when discussing the bride price. After encountering such a situation, the two families must discuss it well, and in the process, the young people can also communicate well. Because there is nothing that cannot be solved, don't lose your temper in the process.

Because this may make the relationship between the two parties become a little strained, it is also important to argue and give a bride price. Most families choose to give a bride price because they also want to show that they value the girl. But there are also some families who don't want to give a bride price, and they feel that spending this money is a waste.

After such a situation, both parents may have an argument. But most families will choose to give the bride price to their daughters, and in the process, they will also give their daughters some dowry. Because they also want their daughters to have a good life, and in the process, they want their in-laws to treat their daughters well.

Therefore, every parent's idea is different, and in this process, both parties must communicate well. However, there are also some young people who do not care about the amount of the bride price, they only care about the stability of the other person's job and family conditions.

The bride price is generally more suitable in the tens of thousands of yuan, and if it exceeds this range, it is not worth it. The meaning of the existence of the bride price is that it can be pure enough to compensate the woman's family, because the woman has to serve the elderly when she marries, and she always feels a little bit of a loss when she has to do housework.

Personally, I think that a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan is enough. The original purpose of the bride price was to support the newlyweds and make them live well after marriage.

I think the bride price of 20,000 or 30,000 yuan is good, and the meaning of the bride price is actually just a little bit of the man's heart for the woman's parents.