Let s talk about the biggest misunderstandings about leftover women?

I think there must be something wrong with the girl, or too picky, in short, the girl is not good.

I think the leftover girls are very good.

The misconception is that love is worshipped.

I hope that female friends will not be confused by this kind of water army remarks, this is all to solve the trick of 30 million singles,,, find a partner or not be in a hurry, you must not marry a garbage man because of the leftover woman theory advocated on the Internet,,, it is estimated that when the time comes, women will marry casually, and there will be articles to persuade women to endure more for the sake of their children, and second-married women are worthless.

I always think that leftover women can't be looked down on by anyone, but in fact, no one can look down on them....

The biggest misconception I once had about leftover women was that no one dared to ask for them for some reason.

What's the biggest misconception? It's hard for them to be men.

A group of people have nothing to do when they eat too much, find something to talk about, be happy and happy, but they don't know that they are also someone else's talking point.

The leftover women, they are all selected from among the men, what's the use?

Many people think that leftover women must be excellent, they are the ones who are left on their own initiative, but they don't know that they themselves are very ordinary at all, they just want to find a very good man but can't find it, and some of their own shortcomings No one wants to marry her, and they are forced to be single.

The leftover girl is played with the rest.

A person, the genes are not so good that they must be inherited, and there is no family wealth to inherit, work hard, eat and drink well, honor their parents, save money to buy a house and a car for the elderly, arrange their own lives, and do not add chaos to the society, what other requirements are there? Individuals are law-abiding and good citizens, but they don't have the urge to get married, can't they?

Older leftover women all want to get married, and they all have to marry in the end.

The biggest misunderstanding is the word "quality" in front!

Women turn their faces faster than books, they are together today, and they pretend that they don't know you again the next day. The appearance is indifferent, the heart is bitter, and there are inconsistencies on the outside. Anyway, women's things are not trustworthy.

A large proportion of older women are selfish, can't cook, don't want to do housework, this is unwilling, that is not happy, just want to do everything has to be borne by this man, everything only needs men unilaterally to tolerate, to bear.

It's no accident that girls can become leftover women. She must have the characteristics of becoming a leftover woman: the pursuit of perfection, idealism, selfishness, refusal to suffer, one by one, her heart is higher than the sky, and her life is thinner than paper!

If you are a man, you can definitely find a younger one, because young girls are easier to get along with, easier to get their peace of mind, and it is much more difficult to get married and have children more smoothly than the remaining girls after the age of 28.

Thinking about everything innocently, wishful thinking, asking men to do this and that, calculating very clearly everywhere, how to take the first step, how to take the second step, are all under her control. On the contrary, indecisiveness is also terrible, and it is difficult to establish a relationship with such a woman, especially when it comes to marriage.

thinks that the leftover women after the age of 28 are all left over for people to play with, and they don't want to get rid of them, so if you marry such a woman, it is equivalent to paying for her ex-boyfriends.

The reality is terrible: the reality is so hard that it is difficult to breathe, the house, the car, the appearance, the ticket, etc., etc., must unambiguously meet the other party's requirements, the initial contact feels wrong, and the legs run faster than a rabbit.

There is no way to change what she believes is right, only what she thinks is right is right, and what others are wrong; She only wants men to change for her, not for men.

Older women have generally been in love once or even several times, and have become veterans in the love field, facing a new suitor, they will always consciously or unconsciously compare with the previous man, what appearance, income, what house to live in, what car to drive, etc., a little unsatisfactory, it will completely extinguish your hope.

1. I'm too picky.

2. Parents are too picky and have no opinions.

3, too otaku, no chance to meet the man.

4, too wild, I know too many men, and I am picky.

5. Too conservative, a man will run away in fear if he gets a little closer.

6. Too unconservative, ambiguous with too many men, no one dares to ask for it.

7. I don't know myself, I don't know what I really want.

8. Know yourself too well, be too stubborn to find a partner according to your own standards, can't be accommodating at all, and miss many opportunities.

9. Being unclear with a married man delays youth and marriage.

10. Her parents' unhappy marriage left her with a psychological shadow and she didn't dare to get married.

11. A career-oriented strong woman, her energy is focused on her work, and she doesn't care about finding a partner.

To correct it, most of the leftover women are left on their own initiative, not leftovers, and most of the leftover women have jobs, can support themselves, and do not rely on men.

Second, in the economy and society, it is inevitable that only money is to look at, men with bad economy, that is, no house or car, most of them are not in the eyes of the law, most of the leftover women have had a few failed emotional experiences, so they don't trust men very much, and some are left unconsciously in order to fight for their careers, in short, there are many reasons, which vary from person to person, and I can't say enough

1. I am too ambitious and have no time and energy to talk about friends.

2. The mentality is not good, and I just want to find what I think in my heart"Suitable", but not all the time"Suitable"Target.

3. I have been injured and I can't believe that I can still meet good people.

4. I have no intention of talking about friends, and I feel good alone.

5. Incorrect concept of love.

6. You are too perfect or too perfect to pursue perfection, or you think you are perfect, of course, you have to find a perfect one, but you are not perfect.

7. Family factors, busy with family affairs delayed a good time.

The requirements are too high, and they are not good at communicating with people, and there are many high and low ones.

Leftover women are the product of social development, referring to women with high education, high income, and high age, most of the leftover women appear in the city and most of them are independent, and this society is still the era of masculinism, when choosing a mate, it is generally a combination of higher-level men and relatively low-level women, and men in society have an age advantage, so when a woman with independent thinking and economic autonomy chooses a spouse, people often say ' At this time, the self-esteem and inferiority complex in the hearts of men and the masculinity in the hearts of almost all people (whether male or female) will make men choose to give up, and over time women will be 'left'.

It's basically the reason for the leftover women themselves, who give too few opportunities to themselves (that is, rarely give others a chance).

It's just that I haven't found the right person for the leftover girl for the time being.,Generally speaking, the leftover girl hasn't found the one who suits her.,Hehe.。

First, I didn't meet the right one.

Second, the heart is too high.

The heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper!

There is no real understanding of the current state of society

The real reason why the older leftover women were left behind, tell some truths that you don't know.

Nowadays, many girls have their own ideas in love, and they are unwilling to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, so they will not be in love when they are older, which leads to the saying of leftover women. Actually, in my opinion, this is a very normal thing, after all, love does not come just by thinking, and leftover women just have a clearer attitude towards love.

In the eyes of many people, people always want to get married and have children, and if they don't follow such steps, they don't meet the regulations, especially if older girls don't fall in love and get married, they are outliers. However, women's thinking has changed a lot now, they are unwilling to compromise in the face of love, and they are unwilling to find someone they don't love to live with, so it is better to live alone.

In the eyes of some women, what they want to meet is a pure love, and two people like each other, so that they will be happy. If they find someone to marry casually, this is not only irresponsible to themselves, but also irresponsible to the other party, they hope to meet the right person to get married and have children. For girls, they like romance and hope to meet the right person, so that they will feel very happy, otherwise they will think that they are suffering.

Today's girls are not like in the past, many times they still need to rely on each other or family, they have been educated to have their own ideas, and they have their own opinions on love, so they will not easily listen to other people's ideas. In the eyes of such a girl, if you don't meet the right person, you can choose to live alone, you can support yourself, and you can also live a colorful life.

In fact, the appearance of leftover women now is because they haven't met the right person, which is understandable, and you can't force the other party to be a good person you don't love. We should maintain our attitude in love and not become an accessory to anyone, so that we can be truly happy.

Because there are many girls who have not found a suitable other half for themselves after the age of 30, many people will call such girls leftover girls.

It's just some malicious ridicule from people, a kind of contempt for some older unmarried women.

This is because there are many women who have high standards for everything, and there are some women who do not have the right concept of feelings, or they do not believe in love and marriage, so there are leftover women.

Personally, the reasons for my late marriage are as follows.

1.Economic pressure, I think that for most young people, financial pressure must be the primary reason, thinking that after marriage, they will not be able to improve their quality of life so that people are no longer in a hurry to get married.

2.and the other party's three views are inconsistent, I think that marriage should be with like-minded people, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual love, in the era of fast food is difficult to meet a true love is also one of the reasons why contemporary young people are reluctant to get married.

3.I don't think I have a strong sense of responsibility, and I prefer to live alone without starving my family than after I get married.

Because now due to work reasons and requirements are too high, leftover women will appear.