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I think a lot of people will say they don't know how to pursue girls. Some people say that maybe you can learn love skills and emotional strategies to help you find and confess to them. Are these skills and strategies useful?
In fact, it's hard to say that in many cases, skills aren't the most important. While we can learn things, such as how to speak to make him embarrassed to refuse, one cannot rely on simple skills to deal with inner matters. And I think you have to muster up your courage to simply reject the girl you don't like in person.
As follows:
Because the other party likes you, not necessarily because you like it in a few words. It's a complicated process, or a random feeling. And a lot of romantic tricks are sometimes not easy to use, because your way may not be the way the other person likes.
So the skills you learn are useless, you have to understand the other person's preferences first, so that it will not be thankless.
I think boyfriends and girlfriends get along, if you really like someone, you have to make some changes for the person you like, but if you don't like someone. Then please consciously draw a clear line between two people, even if the other party confesses to yourself, you must refuse very clearly in person, don't drag mud and water, let alone plausible, vaguely let the other party feel hope, in fact, cruel rejection of a person is more responsible than ambiguity. Therefore, when a person he doesn't like confesses to himself, he must choose to refuse decisively, and temporary cruelty is better than eternal despair, which is love and respect for each other.
Whatever method of rejection you use, stand for the sake of the other person。You can euphemistically express your desire not to be with him and save face for him. This is very beneficial for both people, if you force yourself to be with him, and the other party finds out that you don't love him in the process of getting along, it feels very sad at this time.
Even the relationship between the two people has reached the point of being difficult to manage. Direct rejection can also allow him to meet a more suitable woman for him in the future, and he will even regard your rejection at that time as a fulfillment, and thank him deeply from the bottom of his heart.
The above content is what I think requires courage to reject the opinions of girls I don't like in person.
The above is purely a personal opinion.
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Refuse directly and leave no mercy.
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It's a special rejection of the girl you don't like.
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Make it clear to her face to face that I don't like you.
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The best approach should be to praise and then reject.
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It's really a confession that's hard to say.
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Many people have been rejected by their confessions, but this is not a big deal, and the following methods can be taken after the confession fails: Let's take a look at how the confession failure can alleviate the uncomfortable mood.
How to relieve the uncomfortable mood by confessing failure?
1.Don't get tangled.
After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.
At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this point, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily life of arguing and fighting. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.
Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.
2.To live better.
After the rejection of the confession, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other party, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.
3.Wash your heart and face.
In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.
The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.
Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection.
If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again pursue the beauty of the stool. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can get the most perfect love.
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1. Adjust your mentality and release your mood.
Because confessing that a person is in pain when they are rejected, it is very irresponsible for their own health. It is a fact that we have been rejected and cannot be changed, but we can change our attitude towards this matter and adjust our mood. Don't just pay attention to the person in front of you, there are many people who love you and are silently watching you behind your back.
Don't just stare at one person, but open your eyes and reach out to someone who is better than this one.
2. Tell the other party that it's okay.
The confession is rejected, both parties are very embarrassed, if you leave again at this time, the relationship between the two will become more awkward in the future, and try to take a long detour without meeting. Don't let the other party come to ease the atmosphere first, you have to take the initiative and tell the other party that it's okay, and the other party won't care too much about it. Although the relationship in the future may become a little strange because of the confession, it will not be so that the two will become speechless.
3. Be friends with each other.
If it's a good friend who has been with you for a long time and the relationship has become awkward because of your confession, you shouldn't give up right away. You can continue to choose to be friends with the other person, but don't reveal that you still have intentions for the other person. It may be that the good old days are gone, but you can reconnect with each other as a normal friend, and she can't refuse your friendship.
If you are not friends with the other party, you can also take the opportunity of confession to let the other party know you and become her friend.
4. Understand your image in the other person's mind and analyze the reasons for failure.
You think you are excellent in the other person's mind, but the other person may not take you seriously at all. The first impression cannot be broken, but you can improve your image in the other person's heart and become the person that the other person likes. Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you or your age, wealth and other indicators have not been reached, solve the symptoms, do not deal with it blindly.
5. Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.
A confession failure does not mean that you are useless, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more favored by the opposite sex. Confession failure must be that you are not enough of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself and learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you.
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I feel that this is this kind of knowledge, everyone is different, everyone is unique.
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Hello dear, I have compiled some words of refusal to confess. Hope you can 1In my heart, you are like your sister.
2.Thank you also for your respect for me and for your pampering of me. 3.
I also hope that you will work harder, don't give up on yourself, and one day you will get your own happiness! 4.Personality incompatibility.
5.Let's make a friend first! 6.
I've found someone I like. 7.I already have a girlfriend.
8.I already have someone I like. 9.
I've always thought of you as a sister, or a sister. 10.You can't give me what I want.
11.I think we'd better be friends. 12.
I'm studying too hard right now, and I don't plan to have a boyfriend yet. 13.I like you, but I don't feel the same way I love you.
14.I guess we'd be better off being friends! 15.
I feel your sincerity and thank you for what you give. 16.I don't deserve your love, and there are better people waiting for you.
17.It's not that I don't understand anything, I see everything you do. I feel your sincerity and thank you for your dedication.
Thank you equally for your respect for me and for your pampering of me. You're so good, it's just that I can't accept it, and I can't force my feelings. 18.
You are a good person, you will find better. 19.You're not the kind of person I like.
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If you're afraid of bad things, don't confess, if you want to confess, you can't be afraid, buy some flowers and let passers-by give them to her. Finally you stand in front of you with a large bouquet and confess. Take it home.
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It takes courage to confess, and as for girls who refuse to refuse, there is no way, after all, others have power, at least they have the courage to confess, so that they will not regret it.
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4Ask him who you like, and say that isn't me.
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It's best not to confess, the girl won't be able to refuse you.
My suggestion is to test her heart for you through an intimate gesture like holding hands.
Husband and wife are more tolerant, understanding, communicative, and the most important thing is to change some fresh feelings, so that the two of them are not so boring, anyway, my marriage summary is forbearance. My husband has a lot of problems, such as snoring, careful eyes, smelly feet, etc., but to love someone is to accept all of him, including his shortcomings.
1.Be good at showing your strengths and let everyone learn to like you. 2.Be good at discovering the strengths of others and learn to praise others, so that others can quickly like you. 3.Dress modestly, no one likes to be around people who are dirty.
You have to be different, or what people want to hear, you don't have to be knowledgeable and talented. I want a soulmate and resonance!
True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, When you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by them, and worried about them, I hope you can see them every minute, and when you can't see them, you will always think about them, When you see them, you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, and you will feel warm and safe when you are together. A person who truly loves will willingly take care of him and care for him, and give him everything he wants. When you see the person you love happy, you will be happy, and you will be troubled when you see him, but you will try your best to make the person you love happy, and if you really love someone, you will want to grow old with him, and you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness, and you will also get another kind of happiness in this process!I often think of him and I am happy, I mind him very much, I care about him very much, I seem to have lost something without him, I have happiness with him!
If you can make money for him, he will appreciate you.