What to do when you encounter unreasonable people

Borrowing other people's things to use should be more cherished than using your own things, not to mention anything else, it is human nature for him to want to compensate less, because first of all, your things are not brand new after all, and secondly, he really can't think about it. The most unforgivable thing in the whole process of the whole thing is the fucking attitude, how to educate the child this? It's wrong to borrow, isn't it?

You can't blindly protect the calf without letting him understand right and wrong, how can you go out and mix when you grow up in the future? After that, let him solve all his own problems, don't find someone to borrow - if you want to borrow it, you won't give it, your mother better pray that his son doesn't forget to bring books to school, don't forget to bring an umbrella when it rains, have a mobile phone on him to notify his family in a car accident, and if he is robbed, the thief can leave a coin for him to buy steamed buns to eat, so that he won't starve to death......Because no one will lend him these things anymore.

As for you, take as much as you can and get back as much as you can, don't be soft, this is what you deserve. Pay attention in the future, don't lend things that are a little expensive to others casually (although it is not particularly money, but if it is really not a lot, others will not bargain for you), and learn to protect your personal and property safety. If it is bought by parents, it is more important to pay attention, it is not easy for parents to make money.

I want to open it!! Don't be angry, after all, it's an electric car, it's not much, don't ruin the friendship, in fact, your classmates don't want it to happen in vain 1400

Hehe·· Sue Ya, let Ya have no face to mix in your school in the future

Salute first, then soldier

Some people, you want to reason with him, but he thinks you are farting, and he feeds you in a way that he thinks is noble in return. After all, you farted and he replied, what a courtesy exchange, and anyone who changed it would feel that they had a light on their faces. When he realizes that you just want to reason, he misunderstood.

At this time, with his profound knowledge, how could he not know: only in his heart is the truth that everything is seen. But he has always disdained to admit that he is such a person, which is the pride of a noble feeder.

So he thought you were very angry, and he fed you in a different way. He changed his previous aggressiveness, and turned to a slightly gentler and shouted at you: My family's supply exceeds demand, and you have eaten everything, so there is no way to do it.

Then I will secretly stuff a piece to you, and I will still babble in my mouth, I am here, and I will bring some to my relatives and friends! If you think about this carefully, what you say is not unreasonable, and it is very profound. Therefore, although you think he is unreasonable, you will also think that he is very powerful and powerful!

In fact, the key point of unreasonableness and justification is here, if there is no heart in the heart, it is an ordinary person, honest and reasonable all his life; If there is this in my heart, this pattern is different, and there is quite a momentum that everyone is drunk and I am awake. Dare to go against the world's attack on the file to accompany the big one, and dare to meet the expectations of everyone. What kind of state of mind is this, what kind of self-deception, how can normal people like you and me be able to do it?

I hope that in the future, when you and I meet them, you will remember to take a detour, and you must not damage the cultivation of others and miss the future of others. What's more, if you meet a person who has attained the Tao and cultivates the girl on that day, you accidentally get it, and the smelly neighbors complain bitterly, which makes your family how good it is! Shoot stupid.

Those unreasonable people speak justifiably, think that they are wrong to others, they have no cultivation and quality at all, flying and trekking, and even beating and scolding and hurting others, in the face of such people, we should think of some strategies to deal with codes!

1. Persuade the other party to correct their mistakes.

We should pay attention to one point, that is, we must not give up our own ideas, also known as not forgetting our original intention, we can't feel that this problem is tricky, and we can't solve it all at once, so we just give up, we should stick to our own ideas and not give up easily.

2. Try not to clash head-on.

We should try our best to avoid head-on conflicts with unreasonable people, because there is a saying that Xiucai can't be justified when he meets soldiers, and when he meets unreasonable people, you can only communicate and explain appropriately and try to persuade as much as possible, but you can't counter violence with violence.

3. You can ask for help from relevant personnel.

If we encounter unreasonable people in our work, we can't solve the situation, we should actively ask the superior leaders for help, if it is a matter of life, you can ask the street, the jurisdiction of the Chi Yuanxiao District Police Station and other help to coordinate and solve.

4. If the other party is too much, don't swallow it.

We should maintain a correct attitude, because if we condone his unreasonable words, it means that our attitude has been compromised, and his rudeness has triumphed, which can only further fuel his arrogance.

5. It is necessary to stick to your own principles.

If the other party is unreasonable, we should also explain the reason with him, try to persuade him, and find a way to make him understand through other channels, and correct it in time.

If you really can't do it, you just stay away from people who are right and wrong. We have to judge according to the situation, if this person is something we have to face, we should try to solve it, if it is dispensable, we can also choose to stay away, try to avoid it, and not be disturbed by them.

Stay calm and rational: Try to control your emotions and don't let the conflict escalate or get worse, so that you can calmly deal with the situation.

Communicate directly: When solving problems or communicating with others, try to express your opinions and opinions in simple and clear language, and avoid using offensive or insulting words.

Be fact-based: When communicating with others, try to base your communication with facts and figures, and avoid subjective assumptions or emotional remarks.

Mutual respect and understanding are premised: Respect other people's opinions and perspectives, and try to understand other people's positions and backgrounds in order to better solve problems.

Don't give up easily: Even in the face of difficulties and challenges, don't easily give up your beliefs and regrets, and stick to your own positions and values.

In short, dealing with those who are unreasonable requires calmness, rationality, straightforwardness, fact-based, mutual respect and understanding, and at the same time, it is also necessary to stick to one's position and values and not give up easily.

1. Don't argue with the other party: When you meet an unreasonable person, you must not argue with him, because they are unreasonable, and there is no need for you to laugh and talk to them, and you can't argue with an unreasonable person, because cognition is not at a level of balance.

2. Choose to stay away: When you meet unreasonable people, if they are friends and relatives, then you will have less dealings and less contact, and you will have a lot less trouble.

3. If the situation is very large, it is necessary to find third-party assistance and firmly protect their own rights and interests.

Let a little bit, be generous, his life is irregressible, if you encroach on his living space a little more, his pathetic empire will collapse, pity this pathetic man.

If you think that this guy is really annoying and unworthy of sympathy, don't deal with him, the big-eared melon seed called him on his face and asked him not to entangle again, I'm sorry, Lao Tzu Ru said: I don't eat this set.